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Porgy87
Over 90 days ago
Straight Cis Male, 79
0 miles · Boston
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Senior Analyst
I think you're well within your rights to refrain from having sex with anyone at all, for any reason at all. I regard that as an absolute right. Your body, your choice, full stop. The blood donation issue is irrelevant here, IMHO. If you have misgivings about having sex with him, there is nothing -- nothing -- that obligates you to go through with it, arrangements be damned.
I'm assuming that asking "all the relevant health questions" included an explicit inquiry into the gentleman's HIV status. What surprises me is that the inquiry wasn't broad enough to get at his prior sexual activity. You know, "OK, you're HIV-negative and that's wonderful. Have you ever been with someone whose status you didn't know, male or female?" That's not a criticism; it's just mild surprise that it didn't come up earlier.
Good luck with your decision and its outcome.
I'm assuming that asking "all the relevant health questions" included an explicit inquiry into the gentleman's HIV status. What surprises me is that the inquiry wasn't broad enough to get at his prior sexual activity. You know, "OK, you're HIV-negative and that's wonderful. Have you ever been with someone whose status you didn't know, male or female?" That's not a criticism; it's just mild surprise that it didn't come up earlier.
Good luck with your decision and its outcome.
