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Porgy87
Over 90 days ago
Straight Cis Male, 79
0 miles · Boston

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The future, but not a measly few decades. I would like to see 500 or 1000 years out. My grandfather was born before men flew in machines for the first time; he died after men walked on the moon for the first time. The accelerating rate of change in everything means that 2515 is going to be unimaginably strange, and 3015 is a foreign land. Sounds like fun.
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nope, but i would love it. It's just not going to happen with my wife. sad

Yeah, same situation. I'm game, but she's not. It goes on the bucket list, though.
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Stairway to Heaven - Led Zeppelin
In the Air Tonight - Phil Collins
Like a Rock - Bob Seager
Little Pink Houses - John Mellencamp
Alone - Heart
Hotel California - The Eagles
Miss You - Rolling Stones

Seriously good choices. I'd add:
Ramblin' Man, One Way Out, Whipping Post - Allman Brothers
Brown Sugar, Sympathy for the Devil - Rolling Stones
The entire "Songs in the Key of Life" double album - Stevie Wonder
Aja - Steely Dan (This specifically for driving fast on a freeway in Los Angeles at midnight. )
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Old age, ED, stopping hormone treatment on her part for fear of breast cancer, health have all done it to us. For 10 years!

The first 15 years we were married it was knockout sex. We had it 2-3 times a week after the first year's euphoria. We had both been divorced and the novelty of everyday sex was a blast.. Then it changed as I mentioned above.

6 months ago I decided it was time to do something. It was our 25th wedding anniversary. Masturbation for me provided an outlet as she totally divorced herself from sex. I started to woo her back. Because of arthritis neither of us can flop around on a bed any longer for all the acrobatic stuff. I have a vacuum pump and she encourages me to masturbate, but doesn't want any part of intercourse. But she will let me go down on her and she still has beautiful, big orgasms at age 78! I get a real kick out of it and usually masturbate the next day.

She will play with my cock and fondle me, give me massages, etc. She just does not have any interest in sexual play, except when the Big O hits her with my tongue in her.

Take what we can get folks. Yes, it requires patience and courting anew. But, damn, I love her. Cheating would never be the answer. If younger, divorce might have been for me but I went through that once and the pain still lingers.

Anything that's worth having takes work. That includes dimished sexual interest in marriage.


Pretty close to my story. Mutual masturbation (with lots of lube, and I mean lots of lube) has emerged as our chosen path for reentry into a sex life. Your mileage may vary. Go slow; good luck.
I realize this is in "Ask the Gals," and I hope no one minds my addition here:
"Lots of lube" means "Triple the amount you think you'll need, then add one more squirt, and keep the container nearby." Really.
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I certainly do and I have a wild, thick, curly bunch of it to work with.


Mmmm...
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I think we should all avoid confrontation with other members, even if I agree with you.
The point of the thread is to let members voice their opinion, without fear of comeback. All the people that post in the forum are adament that free speech prevails.


You have a point, up to a point. "...without fear of comeback" doesn't mean "...without fear of criticism," does it? I agree that "You are an idiot who should have been aborted" is an unreasonable response to a complaint. (As is "F you, A-hole" and all its variants.)
However, if a comment makes the implicit claim that "You'd be nothing without us," I think it's well within bounds to ask what the commentator brings to the party.

And beyond that, if a comment carries the message, "Give in to my demands or I'll go away," then I think it's an entirely reasonable response to say, "Go!" don't you?
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That does not change the fact that taking away BASIC rights like having friends and talking to said friends is wrong.


The ability to talk to your friends is a right. The ability to talk to your friends using a resource provided by someone else for free is not.

What is "wrong" is the presumption that Lush has an obligation to provide free services to all comers, forever.

If you think the provision of a free, loosely-moderated space for strangers to use for their own pleasure is such a wonderful idea, do it yourself. I'm sure you'll find lots of people who will happily take advantage of your service.
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can she afford to have all the loyal members who've been here for years leaving the site in droves?i guess we're going to find out now,wont we?


Let me see if I have this right:

1. You've been here 18 months
2. You've submitted no stories
3. You've posted 30 comments in forums, including the last three that object to the fee changes
4. You're going to bring Lush and Nicola to their knees by leaving

As far as I can tell, all you've done here is take what's been given to you for nothing. I don't see any part of Lush that you've helped build or support.

What will you take with you that anyone will miss?
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I for one don't have much of an issue with any of this. Nothing really changes for existing members for the next 6 months, new members get access for 90 days. If you like it, you pay $10, if you don't like it you move on or live within the limits of what access free membership gets you. The silver and gold options are nothing new, so you're looking at 20 cents a week to keep what you have now for free. Think about how much time you spend here and what the site means to you and ask yourself if thats worth a quarter a week. I'd be shocked if it wasn't. It is to me.


This.
Thank you, Amy.
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Black lace top stockings, plain black shift dress with chiffon insets at the hem.

Mmmm...