Quote by poppyx
I don't like labels but I would consider the things I like would be viewed as kinky by the majority of mainstream people and that's precisely why none of my friends or family or for that matter very few on here know my specific likes and needs. I'm not embarrassed about them I just choose not to say what I love because it is just too hard trying to explain to people what I get out of it and why I like it. Like others here it all depends on how kinky is defined, for some oral sex is or taking it up the ass or being covered in clingfilm with just a hole for any unmentionable things to be able to fit into.

If people were totally honest or could, for just five minutes, be able to say what they really wanted, then I think more people would join the kink brigade and then kinky would just be mainstream but hell people might be a bit happier with their sex lives if they could. I love my kinks, they make me feel whole and complete as a person if I have that 'one' to share them with and really there lies the problem, how do I find that 'one' without fessing up to my kinks and running the risk of alienating someone I may have come to care for, but could I live without them in my life - hell, hell, hell no, but after spending many years unfulfilled and feeling like I was wrong in some way I now embrace the things I need and love and I am a lot happier because of that.

Quote by natasha_
I have a tendency to call people honey and dear a lot (well, in friendly situations, of course; don't do it with strangers).

I believe that these too are unisex enough and it's ok to use them with both men and women but I have been thinking and realized that I know quite a lot of terms of endearment that can be used for women but I'm totally lost when it comes to find an appropriate one for men.

So would you mind telling me which ones people use with you? Which ones do you like? Any that you dislike specially?

Please help the foreign girl.

Thank you and have a good day!

Quote by TraceyAmes
In my working days, I was 19 years old and I serviced guys in their 70's. It made them feel young again, a fountain of youth. As a 48 year old woman, I met up with two 18 year old lesbians and had sex with them. The difference in age is not to be questioned as people of all ages and huge age differences can enjoy sex.

The circumstances in which people meet is a matter of their own business and nobody else's. If two people are agreeable to sex, for whatever reason, then so be it. Enjoy sex for today as you never know what tomorrow brings.

Quote by nickatplay
As an older guy its always a compliment to meet a girl who finds that maturity sexy. Experience brings a desire to please my girl and, boy, does she appreciate it. Being young at heart means the conversation flows well too!

Quote by patokl
In my humble opinion sex has to be pleasure for both. I cannot enjoy something a partner does not really want to do, even if she still did it voluntarily.

Quote by Princesscrazy
Bad breath followed very closely by body odor... (ok...fixed it yes...one of the worlds worst spellers...lol)

Quote by Katie12
I think first is the seduction of the mind. Which will then most probably lead to sex. But love is so much deeper than that.. So I would say sex and then love

"Seduce my mind and you can have my body.......Find my soul and I'm yours forever"--Anonymus

Quote by Annamagique


Karen Farmer ----------------- Franke Potente
Jemima Rana ----------------- Catherine Bell
Matron Françoise Blanchard - Cate Blanchett
Albert Farmer ----------------- Andy Serkis
Pascale Blanchard ------------ Emma watson
Dominique Blanchard -------- Melanie Thierry

Quote by Meggsy
I would need to think about that should the opportunity ever exist. I would need to know the person well before letting them enter me.
The answer therefore is possibly not probably.