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Ruthie
Over 90 days ago
Heteroflexible Female

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It's cheating if it's cheating. If the husband approves then it's not cheating. If it's taking time away from the relationship and deceiving the husband, then it's cheating. Same if it's a husband with a guy on the side.
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dude, you're bringing me down - i think they're fun, though i don't really put much faith in them. smile

Reason has failed.

Very well then, I shall pounce upon you, rendering you utterly helpless in the face of my sexual deftness.
The discount was only one cent. How great an ass would you have to have to get free fries?
Horoscopes are meaningless drivel. You can't tell anything about a person's personality by which star sign they were born under. You can't use them to predict the future. Believing in them erodes common sense. Judging someone by the date of their birth is really, really stupid.
I saw both Snow White movies. It's a favorite fairy tale of mine. Snow White and the Huntsman was better than Mirror Mirror in my opinion. I like Charlize Theron better than Julia Roberts, but I thought that Lily Collins in Mirror, Mirror was better than Kristen Stewart. I liked the story in Snow White and the Huntsman better, but neither movie was really the best possible retelling of the Snow White story.
I prefer hair on men's legs. That's just me though. They should do what they want to with their legs.
Of course I like my pussy licked. You might as well ask if I enjoy breathing air. Yes, I shave, do you?
I'd say that is something that is up to you and your wife. You say she isn't interested, so there you are. There's certainly nothing wrong with the fantasy though.
I'm pretty sure that it would explode the day I went there. Reading about it was fun though.
I can't imagine anyplace I'd rather be than Athens, GA on a football weekend. Oh, and Jacksonville, FL once a year.


You should enjoy the fantasy. If thinking about her makes you really horny you should save that for your wife. Try not to call out your sister in law's name during sex. Try not to ruin your marriage over it.
My suggestion, if you're using Windows, is to get rid of Windows and find a good linux program for your operating system. Then use some other browser besides Internet Explorer. I am running Ubuntu and never have had a problem with computer viruses. I haven't upgraded to 12.04 yet, so I can't say how it works though. Microsoft is the pits, everything associated with them sucks.
First of all if someone doesn't want to be in a public chat room they should create a private room, give it a password and lock it. It's that simple. Then send a message to all your friends with the password, or just the ones you want to chat with. You don't need to be insulting to other people. You don't need to let anyone in the room except the people you want. You don't have to make threats. Anyone with a Lush account can create a private chat room. Having one doesn't make you all that special. The only thing special about any of the private chat rooms are the people in them. If they're surly and mean I don't want to be in there anyway.

Don't be mean, people.
You say that you both love it. I assume that means that while you are enjoying dominating her that she is enjoying being dominated by you. Pushing the boundaries is part of your job, seeing how far you can take her. If she's a submissive she needs that. I seem to detect some guilt though.
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Is it wrong for a married man to fantasize about a co-worker half his age? And how would you feel if it was YOU that he was fantasizing about?


There's nothing wrong with fantasizing. A man twice my age would be fifty two. If I was fifty two though, he'd be one hundred four. I'd be alright with it either way, but I'm not sure I'd want to know about either of them, unless they were really hot for their age. Unless she is flirting with you or giving you really, really obvious signs that she's interested, I'd leave it as a fantasy.

I think my feelings would be hurt if I found out that nobody was fantasizing about me. I fantasize about guys at work, and I suppose some of them, at least, fantasize about me. I don't want them to tell me that they were thinking about me while having sex with their wives though.
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You can actually block whispers in your settings. It's done wonders for me.

Thanks.
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However I don't do the cyber sex thing because I've come to the realization that most people just don't do it right.


I think that despite being anonymous, most people are too inhibited to do good cyber sex. People have a problem opening up about their sexuality because of the fear that they'll be ridiculed for it. Lush should be a place to lay all inhibitions aside for awhile. I've had some really good cyber sessions, and some that weren't so good. The worst ones are where I have to do all the talking. I wonder if the other person is paying attention. Cybering takes two people.

I like going to the chat rooms and playing games more than cybering, but the people in the chat rooms are often even more inhibited. I've done scenes in chat rooms that were lots of fun, but there have also been times when nobody really seemed interested. I'm pretty exhibitionist and enjoy an audience, which I don't have in private chat.

It is easy to get hostile when you go into a chat room and there is some guy in there whispering all the women and wanting to go private. Sometimes I wish they'd take the whisper buttons out.
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Wow I didn't want to start a boy/girl feud with this post, i just thought it was interesting that on this type of site the number of ladies claiming they are bi that had an angry tone about how they were here only for girls. And yes I guess I was naive enough to think some or most were telling the truth about themselves. I understand the unwanted badgering some guys lay on the ladies, they are the ones that give the ones who are here to express and explore their wild side a bad rap. Keep on posting I'm digging the fun.


It is odd that girls who say that they're bi will only talk to women. It is a sex site, and people come here to explore their own sexuality so I can understand that a gay person might not to want to waste time on a member of the opposite sex. Most of us only have limited amounts of time that we can spend here, and if someone is tuned in to one sexuality, or one fetish for that matter, I can understand how they'd want to spend their time with someone with the same tastes.

If a girl says she's a lesbian, you can be pretty sure that she doesn't want to explore sexuality with men. A girl, or guy for that matter, saying that they are bisexual should mean that they're here to explore sexuality with either sex. Maybe if a girl, or a guy, wants to have only same sex encounters they should label themselves gay, even if they're not. Like Jenni said, that will discourage most people. I know that I have never approached a man who says that he is gay and asked him to cyber. I can't imagine why a guy would want to cyber with a girl who is a lesbian either.

On the other hand, I'm a straight girl and I spend at least half my time chatting with other girls. Mostly it's non sexual, but there are times when I join someone for a fantasy session. I list myself as straight, because that's what I am. I'd say eighty percent of my actual cybering on Lush has been with guys, but the other twenty percent has been with girls, some of whom, like myself, are straight.

I have had sex with other women, by the way. I might again, but mostly when I think of having sex I think of having it with men. With a few exceptions all my fantasies are about men. If I had to spend the rest of my life having sex with only one other person I'd choose a man. If I spent the next five years having sex with only women, I think I'd still be straight, but there are times when I just don't want to talk to a guy. There are things I want to talk about that guys don't and can't understand.
That's the reason girls have girls night.
I need to be the center of attention. How can I be if I'm watching him fuck someone else?
I do Kegels, not because I don't have a tight pussy, but in case I meet some guy that I really like with a really tiny dick. Also, this is my 500th post.
There are plenty of women who are desperate enough to have sex just for food. Most of us have it really easy in comparison to how some women have to live on a daily basis. Of course I'd have sex for enough money to make all my money problems go away for ever. I'd be a fool if I didn't. I haven't seen Indecent Proposal so I looked it up on IMBD. The guy with the money is Robert Redford, who looked pretty good in 1993. That would make the choice a lot easier.
Is everybody involved in porn a star? How much attention would it really have attracted to the school if she'd just been allowed to attend? It's probably caused more of a stir that she wasn't allowed to attend the prom than if she'd just showed up as someone's date. I'm suspicious that this is just to promote her career.
Chicken salad, which was really good. It had pecans in it.
I like being approached, but there are ways to encourage men to approach.
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I've been watching documentaries about tattoos, piercings, implants, ect. The topic of suspending came up in a few and it seemed like an interesting though painful activity. So I guess my questions are, has anyone here ever suspended and to those who have not what do you think of it? Sorry if this seems a bit unclear I'm not the most focused person and this is my first starting post smile

I look forward to seeing all responses


I thought you meant things like suspension bars and racks. Reading the responses though I get the idea that you mean being suspended from rings inserted through the skin. Is that what you mean?

I enjoy being suspended from bars and racks by cuffs, ropes and chains. Hanging in the air is a really helpless position that I like a lot. On the other hand, I don't want to have a surgical procedure first.
Thickness matters, length matters, size matters. Stop asking.
If the first kiss isn't something special there isn't going to be a first fuck.