Right now I'm posting a reply to a question in the Lush forum.
Non-Perturbative Canonical Gravity. Although now that I've promised not to, it's all I want to write about. Now I have to find out what it is.
For me the ritual is important. It has to begin with a lecture, or scolding. It should include some corner time, but not too much, preferably corner time as a break during the spanking. It should be over the knee, and I should get a few swats on the skirt or jeans first. If I'm wearing jeans I like to be taken across the knee for a few smacks and then be told to get up and take them down, but I like to have my skirt lifted, and if we're role playing I'm usually wearing a skirt. I like to have my panties taken down while over the knee too. Like girlyju said, it's important to have a partner you can trust, even in light BDSM. In anything heavier than an OTK spanking with the palm trust is absolutely the most important factor. You don't want some guy with a belt or cane who ignores the safeword, and you certainly don't want to be tied up or chained by someone whom you can't trust to stop when you want them to. I find it's easier to get a guy to go deeper into bondage and domination if we start out with spanking. If he's not into that he probably won't be into further exploration. While one of the great things is pushing the boundaries, it's important to have a partner who stays within the boundaries you set.
If I'm going to a gangbang I'm going to be the entertainment, not the spectator.
For me it's pretty much the whole package, if the guy looks good overall I steal glimpses of the various parts. I have to admit that I like to check out a guys butt and if he has a pleasant bulge in front, I peek at that too. Arms and chests are what I notice most on the beach.
It's interesting to note, from looking at the men's survey, that guys are so much more into and . I also wonder how the breakdown in the Anal, Quickie Sex, Straight Sex, First Time categories would differ between sexes in each individual category.
I'd let you put a five dollar bill in my pocket for five dollars.
I always heard it hurt really bad too, but it wasn't so bad really. If you're ready you know it. I can honestly say that I've never regretted losing my virginity.
If I'm having problems with a story I might ask someone to help me out, but never someone I'd never talked to before. I am not secure enough in my writing to ask any of the writers I respect to read my story and give me opinions, so I certainly wouldn't just send one off to a complete stranger for that purpose. Maybe it would be a good idea to build small writing groups with at least one experienced editor. Someplace where you could get to know people and be free of those who would just join in to hurt your feelings or make you feel like a loser, and there are a lot of people like that. I meet them in the chat rooms sometimes.
I accept your baggage.
I have serious trust issues.
I had to look this up. Some of the photos you can find on line are scary. I like playing dress up, Dollifacation seems to take dress up to a different level, sort of like role playing necrophilia.
Or, actually i misunderstood the original question.