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Hi .... ummm...suck your thumb?
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SeaSiren
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female
0 miles · Alabama
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Yep!
rule #793 in the Domme rule book says one must experience themselves that in which they want to offer...
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Quote by Master_Jonathan
Let me start by saying I have never met a sub that was COMPLETELY submissive - each of you have your individual boundaries and limits and if I did find one that was completely submissive I would run the other way! That is a dangerous situation.
As for you, it sounds as if you have some brat in you yes but that's to be expected. A Dom needs to work to be able to gain your submission - He needs to prove he can handle you. Not in a beat you till you give in way, but in an way that makes you want to yield to him. If he can do that you will give yourself to him willingly. If you buck and fight, he isn't convincing you.
Don't take this the wrong way but subs are like wild horses, you don't whip a horse into letting you ride them - you convince them that they WANT you to ride them. You talk softly, you approach them carefully, you stroke them gently, and ease into it. Letting them make the decision to allow you on them. So it is with a submissive.
For me, if I can't get into your head, I have no business getting into your pants!
Honestly...the above should be noted in your submissive bible ;)
Of course, being submissive sexually does not mean we are submissive in our entire lives. There are many sexually submissive women who are powerful in their careers and as a submissive I have plenty of responsibilities around my house and in the vanilla world. I am opinionated, flirtatious and I am the authority at my job, but there is no way I could take that authority into the bedroom. It just isn’t in my nature to be sexually dominant.
Submissives are equal to their Dominant partners in the overall relationship, but when broken down and examined the differences are obvious. Most importantly, both roles play important parts in creating a fulfilling and stimulating experience!
