I admit, I am a leg man myself, so the first thing I look at on a woman is her legs (if she is showing them; winter time makes this almost impossible though); therefore, I become a breast man! I like small breasts. Yeah, okay, I know that makes me one of the unusual men out there, but small breasts are so much more sensual and erotic.
They are small, perfectly round firm protuberances, the kind so perky, they require no bra and fit symmetrically into my hands. When slowly massaged, the pink center nodules slowly erect themselves, the heat permeating from their gentle inflation, burning, almost leaving a mark on my palm. The hotness makes me move my hands to cup them, gently on their soft undersides, where separate tiny pink puffy mounds are now highlighted by the tender roundness surrounding them.
As one of the responses said, I have always listened to my gut, instead of my heart or my mind. I always knew that my gut held the correct answer, and even if my heart or mind wanted to go a different way, I always listened to my gut. I admit though, it has lead me to the wrong decision, but 90% of the time, it was always correct.
While virginity means a lot to some people, some others could care less about it. I am a guy and I never rushed into losing mine. I honestly did wait for the right woman, and it was the best thing I ever did. While I am no longer with her, we were both in love with each other and it was very very intimate and very very memorable. To the one that said, ". . .down the road, you will give very little thought to your first time. . .," this is not the truth. I truly, to this day, remember losing my virginity to someone special and actually cherish doing so since we were in love then.
To really answer your question though, you don't want to make a mistake that you will regret. While you say that you really want to lose your virginity to him, he may not feel the same way. In fact, by what you have written asking us, I am almost positive he does not feel the same as you. As he may have feelings for you, I am sure he does not have the "sex" feeling as you do.
You may both still be good friends, but are you good enough friends to chance an intimate act as this?
You don't want to rush into this, and while you may think you are ready to lose your virginity, that may just be your feelings and, forgive me for saying this, hormones, talking, instead of you actually listening and truly doing what is in your heart.
There is nothing wrong with waiting or being single. I am single right now and have been for a while and I don't let it get to me. Just keep the good thing you have at the moment and don't chance ruining a friendship like you say you have. Having a good friendship is sometimes better than having the best sex of your life.
"Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail."
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
I look in the categories I enjoy the most then look at the titles. Titles can sometimes leave a lot to the imagination. Then I will start reading it. If it doesn't keep my attention or interest, I will look for another one until I find one that can.
Bookstore Manager for a major university's Regional Campus in the city where I reside.
Call me a hopelss romantic, but I prefer good girls. I have been with both, and I will take a good girl over a bad girl any day, no offense to the bad girls out there. In my experience, good girls know how to care, showing their gentle side and taking it slower and get to know you. That's when the "sweetness" definitely does come out, as stated earlier! LOL!
Seeing that you both have been together for two years now, I personally do not see it as a "growing apart" thing, and I am most definitely not saying, by any means, that is what's happening. I can tell that you still love him very much and very dearly.
It sounds more to me that there is a loss of interest on his part, but you already know that! LOL! I guess what I am trying to say is that it's more "gone cold" instead of a loss of interest. Maybe to him it's basically the same over and over with no change at all. To him it may be "boring" because there is no "flare."
I am not saying that there is no "spice" in your sex life, but maybe he thinks there should be more. Maybe he wants to try other things and is scared to bring them up to you. While you both more than likely vary positions and do other things to make it interesting, maybe he wants more. It's hard to say.
Maybe more foreplay will encourage him more; suggest roleplay or bring toys to make the sexual act "kinkier;" massage oil and other things that could enhance the experience even more could help also.
I have also thought of another thing and the only reason I mention this is because it happened to me. Has he started taking any new medication? I ask because you say it has been in the past 3 months. Three years ago, I was diagnosed with diabetes and I was prescribed medication for it, and it had an affect on me. I lost interest. It was not because of anything she did. I just did not want it any more. That concerned me and I spoke with my doctor about it, and we found a different medication that worked.
Just trying to give some advice of some sort. Not saying this is going to help, but maybe it will a little.
(And for what it's worth, since you mention your pictures, you are definitely not ugly. You are very beautiful, so I doubt very highly that has anything to do with it!)
In all honesty, yes, and I am not afraid to admit it. When I was a teenager and into my early twenties, I could make myself cum without touching very easily. It took some time, but I did it. I was experimenting with different ways to masturbate (as I am sure we all have done so at some point and time) and, while I won't describe the whole process, it involved "exercising" my erection with no touch of anything at all, until it happened.
I tell that because it goes along with the one time it happened when I was with a woman. I guess I had experimented enough that way that when I was with my first girlfriend, she stripped for me and, needless to say, I lied on the bed, got hard, and while I watched her, it was more than I could take and, well, the rest was history.
Love is different to everyone. There is not one set standard that all of us must go by when it comes to love. What love means to one person, may not mean the same to the next. We are not told how to love, who to love, and where to find it. It just happens when we least expect it. Love is a combination of all things, all those you mention and more. It's a harmony that is built by the coming together of all things that two people have in life. When all the emotions, mental and physical, come together, true love is often something that cannot be broken.
I actually have two:
The first one:
"I went back and read the other three parts first. I scored each of them individually, but this comment serves for the series thus far (okay, I'm a little lazy).
I enjoyed this story! You use metaphors and have detailed descriptions. You take your time building the story up to the action. One comment said it was "nothing special." The basic storyline is perhaps found on LS in numerous iterations, but the manner in which it is presented makes all the difference, and that is what set it apart from others. Good series. I'll have to read your other works."
The second one (also was the craziest/weirdest comment which I posted in that board- but still this one is a favorite:"
"You are a vagina thesaurus!"
In the middle of center field at my former high school's baseball field at 2:00 in the morning the day after graduation.
Played all through high school and I can honestly say, that was the first home run I ever had! LOL!
"The Captain and The Kid" -- Jimmy Buffett (Because my grandfather was a merchant seaman and I was raised on the water that he loved his whole life, and as the first line of the song says, I used to climb on his knee and listen to his time off as a Merchant Marine.
"Layla" -- Derek and the Dominos (Because I was in love with a girl that I could not have)
"Forty Mile Town" -- Eric Johnson (Because it represents how I felt after I lost my cousin to cancer)
It's a matter of preference. Everyone can be just as sexy with clothes on as nude. Sometimes, even sexier with clothes on than off. Not everyone has to be nude to be sexy or sensual. It all depends on the individual person. Each person has their own personality and everything else that makes them who they are. All that comes into play. To tell the truth, and don't get me wrong here, I do find a naked woman quite a turn on, but on the other hand, some know how to "flaunt" their sensual side with clothes on as well, so that can be a major turn on as well. It all depends on how you look at it.
For me, I am always sensitive after ejaculating. It's so sensitive, that I don't want to be touched there right afterwards. I don't mind saying this, and look down on me if you want, but ever since I was a teen, the moment after I ejaculate, I immediately go down and I have to wait at least 15 - 20 minutes before I can go again. I know that is normal actually, but I do know some guys can keep going.
Hey, if that is what one likes, so be it! It's a personal choice. It's her body and her life, she can choose who she wants to sleep with an any time.
Either one is preferable to me, although fiction is actually better to write, in my opinion, than ones based on real experiences. I'll be honest, a couple of my stories are about real experiences, but they were the hardest to write. When writing fiction, the mind can go where you want it to go, and have more fun with going there. True experiences, you know where it went and what happened and even though you can actually embellish those too, you really do not want to because of the real life that was involved.
Clit size does not matter to me, but smaller ones are cuter (I admit). My ex was a squirter, and she never squirted anywhere other than on my penis. It felt great when she came so hard with me inside her. Although, I will say this also, it was hot watching her masturbate and squirt, but my face was never in her aim!
Soft, silky, perfectly toned tanned legs. The kind where I could run my hand up and down them sensually feeling each curve.
For my story, "More Than a One-Night Stand," I had one comment only. It said, "You are definitely a vagina thesaurus. Thanks for sharing x." That definitely is the funniest one I have ever had on any of my stories.
Always nude, no matter what time of year it is. It stems back to my childhood when my parents would put me in those full suit pajamas for kids. I always hated them. Made me feel constricted and claustrophobic and always found my way out of them. It stuck into adulthood!
Girlfriend or Wife: Most definitely (did for my ex and it's a huge turn-on for both)
Stranger: depends, more likely to if female
Guys: Did it once in high school, haven't done it since, never will again!
Mine is a combination from reading erotic literature. I found that type to be "sensual" and "desirable" so I turned it into "SensualDesires." The "83" is a combination of my two favorite NASCAR drivers.
