Quote by 1ball


It might help if you look at it differently. Most of the people I've met who have dominant personalities are almost like addicts. They need to control and are dependant on the people they control. Sometimes they resent that dependence and they overcontrol with tighter rules. The submissive people I've met are addicted to knowing their place, where they fit into the relationship, because having a place gives them a sense of worth and knowing their place, through the rules and tasks they are given, is how they know whether they agree with their Dom's opinion on their worth.

If you have neither need, you may be addicted to self-control and it may be hard to understand the other needs. That seems to be the case with you, Shylass. Your desire to command or obey seems low, but your desire to set and protect your position as an independant actor seems high.

Quote by SatinBatty
Shylass, don't worry about the post count. It just means you are more talkative in forum form instead of chat room form. Plus the game threads can inflate the count real quick lol

I don't want to be a chatterbox. I want to be somebody who says little but amazingly brilliantly. I think I just need to be a whole different person, really. I annoy myself with all my posts, let alone everybody else, and I just can't stop. I need a new hobby to stop me typing all the time. I tried knitting, but I was crap at it. Any suggestions?

Dammit, my next post will be 500. I might just keep editing this one.


EDIT 1: How do i already have my Forum Guru badge? I've asked Admin. I wanted it to appear after my heart-rendingly amazingly brilliant Post 500.

Quote by CuriousKitty
I think that the amount of freedom a submissive has is related to the degree of trust in them by their domme/dome to be loyal. *thinks for a moment then sighs* I must not be very trusting then o.o,

Interesting. Some have said elsewhere that the two must trust each other implicitly in order to be in that kind of relationship. I don't trust at all (generally), although I might begin to when I know a person a little better, but if one has to lay rules because they don't trust the other? I struggle with that concept. I thought the rules thing was more about submitting to the control, as opposed to fear of them cheating? Or is it the same thing?

I'm not sure if I am holding up the Dom/Domme - Sub relationship too closely against a more "vanilla" relationship?

I may have just confused myself more.

Quote by Magical_felix


Yeah I thought what the fuck... I also stopped to think that she is 19. From an American generation who is maturing emotionally a little older than I did and probably a lot older than you... Every new generation tends to be coddled more than the last. Obviously she must rely on her parents somehow and they must be strict so the pregnancy scare is panicking her because she is not sure what to do and she doesn't want to get in trouble. Yes her comments are laced with things that aren't intelligent. She's fucking 19...

Did you see me jump down her throat, insult her and call her stupid? Obviously she's asking you people for advice cause she probably doesn't have a good role model in her life that doesn't know her mom. You people think the right thing to do is make fun of a girl like that? A bunch of adults making fun of a kid who's life just got flipped upside down?

You question her common sense? Well where's your common sense... I make fun of stupidity I see like when you're making fun of someone for being dumb by saying underage minors.. Fucking stupid... Like when president Bush said he wanted to raise the age of minors having guns... It's a stupid thing to say. I think making fun of that is nowhere close to ganging up on a 19 year old with a real problem like a pack of sad hyenas.

Regarding a fight thread, a forum I'm on had one for a bit. You basically post a challenge, the opponent decides if you're worth the bother, and then you go at it. Makes for some brilliant reading, especially after people have got the beers in at the weekend.

Quote by sprite
wow - honestly, if i did something that made my partner vomit? i'd be mortified and NEVER do it again - and really, that whole 'i don't mind throwing up'? she minds. she may not say it, but NO one likes to throw up. i mean, do YOU like throwing up? wtf?

Quote by LittleBambi
If someone made me vomit I would punch them in the face. Or bite their cock.....or better yet, just vomit onto their cock.

I've always had, for whatever reason, quite a strong gag reflex (I regularly throw up from just brushing my teeth) so for me a blow job is a real test (and art!!) of control, I can take a guy deep but it has to be at my pace, simple as that.

I don't mind a guy chucking in a few gentle thrusts, that's second nature for most guys, but I'm not interested in having my face 'fucked', if a guy wants to fuck me he can do so.....he can fuck my pussy.

I sincerely doubt you'll find anyone thinks you're sick (the only sick involved seems to be her's...), it's each to their own after all. You'll just find that some people are into it and some aren't.

I would, however, suggest that you start to pay a bit more attention to when she's just occasionally gagging and when she's retching pre throwing up, she may not say she has a problem with it - but who actually likes being sick??!

(As a person with a genuine phobia of sick I am VERY proud of myself for being able to write this reply... yay me! )

Quote by Sensei


You know, I think you may have indirectly done it for me.

I saw Quinn in that list. I had always associated that name with either TV producer Quinn Martin or comedian Colin Quinn - both men (in looking it up just now, however, I discovered that Quinn Martin was not his birth name), but then it struck me.... Daria Morgendorfer's sister was named Quinn - it is indeed a girl's name!

So, I think I'll nix the Chinese thing and just go with Quinn.

Thanks!

It makes me think of Doctor Quinn, Medicine Woman.

Quote by lifeafterdeath
Hi, I'm 18, and I'd just like to share something on this thread.

Personally, I dont see what the big deal is with losing a virginity at a young age, I believe that good things come in time. Dont rush anything, your time will come.

I havent made out with anyone either. Hell, the most I ever got was a peck on the lips.

A word of advice, women like confidence. I'm extremely shy and thats the reason I've been single for a while. Too shy to talk to the pretty girls.
Man up, I'm experimenting with my confidence these days and I gotta say, I'm surprised with the results.

Thats all I gotta say, I hope I helped even a little.

I like your post.



In my opinion, it's okay for a lad not to have confidence. All he has to do is make me think he has more confidence than me (it's not hard).

Quote by PersonalAssistant


i am surprised you have ANY friends!!

I think he might be, too.

Quote by JessicaX
A sweetly cuddly puppy will do it every time. They are people magnets and besides that, they are soooo cute! No offense to shylass, they don't smell like fish do!

I use gloves and yell at anybody who gets stinky bait on my seatbox. I don't like puppies, they turn into dogs and you have to pick up their poo.

Quote by Magical_felix


I see... Now I see clearly. It's not weird. You like freaking panties. Fetishes are fetishes. Dude... Are you ever tempted to like, go down the panty aisle at walmart? Like they must have a big one. Would that be fun like how going to a strip club would be fun for me? Or does the packaging ruin it? Or like the grandma panties mixed in there, does that fuck it up? Like if you go to a strip club and there are like 3 girls dancing and two of them are fine as fuck but the one in the middle is like a 70 year old lady strutting her stuff? Is it like that? I need to know this shit.

On a side note. I'm going fishing tomorrow so I bought a book to brush up on my skills. It's called How to master baiting.

One of my mates actually uses an old pair of his wife's big knickers when he unhooks the fish! Seriously. Most people just use an old towel, I use gloves, and he uses knickers. He's a master baiter too.

Quote by Magical_felix


Because people just like things a certain way. Some girls like foreskin, some don't, some just don't care. You like ginger cookies better than chocolate chip ones right? Same shit. I mean I don't like big ol' flappy loose vagina lips hanging way too low swaying back and forth at the slightest movement, flappin' around like a flag in the wind. I like them a bit more... I don't know... Not so flappy. So why wouldn't a girl feel the same way about a schlong?

That's because gingerbread usually has smiley faces on it. Sometimes I even pick the chocolate chip over the Gingas. It all depends on my mood.

I still just see people as people, who, unless they have surgery, can't change what they have. I always thought I'd just have fun with whatever somebody had, whatever they looked like.

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But why is that? I can't imagine it feeling different once it's inside your pink pussy paradise. Or is more fun for blowies, like something to nibble on or some shit? Or is it purely for aesthetic reasons?

I read somewhere (a medical site) that for the lad who is not circumcised, the foreskin acts as another sensation during penetration, and slides back and forth on entry and withdrawal, which is a plus if the vagina is slightly bigger than normal. But then again, without it, the whole head is free to feel everything.

So either way, I don't see that it makes much difference other than looks when flaccid (hate that word!), less cleaning by seconds, and cultural/religious purposes. I still find it hard (arf arf) to see why a woman should have a preference on it, unless she is thinking of getting somebody she knows one for their birthday, or something.

Quote by redlips
I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO confused!!!
Why, Shylass, why???
You are giggling aren't you?

Why what? Why do I have so many questions? Why do I want to know stuff? Why am I confused? Or... the last one? I was trying to think of what TPE could stand for, but I only got as far as "Toilet Paper End" and "The Pimping Edge". I don't even know what the last one is, they were just words that fit.

Quote by Pumped
saw a young thi.ng at th e kind mart today. Shi
rt and mini skirt. Those shoes just said "fuck me"

Like this?






So is it the whole outfit that does it? And/or the person wearing them? Is it because you associate it with porn, and therefore sex? Something different?

Quote by Sensei


There are lots of full-time TPE relationships that last years. It's a symbiotic thing, that much is certain. I just finished a story about the start of such a relationship. Yes, that story is fiction, but it is based in truth. The relationship that Lucy and Sean have in the epilogue is not at all unlike TPE relationships that exist in the real world.

Quote by Milik_The_Red
If I dare bring some seriousness to this thread allow me to re direct:

Ladies, do you not fear that engaging in web cam sex with someone on the Internet could lead to a video of you doing your thing being posted online without your consent?

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Gimmie a template and I'll do that lol

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Shameless self promoting plug: Does that mean you've read my new story?

I said "most likely". Haven't had a mate suggest it yet, so you'd better tell them off (although I have seen them commenting and scoring). Give me time, please.

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This is what i have

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I've not gotten any negative comments yet, but I did get a 2 with no comment. I'd have liked to know what they didn't like so much that they voted it so low.

Like I've said elsewhere, "If people marking lower cannot give a good reason for it (or indeed reasons why they voted higher or at all), then it is clear they either just didn't like it (the same as "I hated it"), or they wish they had written it." Neither of those two cases are your fault as the writer. Put it down to them wishing they were as good as you, if they're not forthcoming with a reason.

Quote by Mikashikyo
I'm young and I made a mistake. Everyone does. But right now i'm lost still. I mean last month I got my period twice, once at the beginning like on time then a second one at the end of the month. So would it be normal if I didn't get one this month if I got it twice last month???