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TheGulfCoaster
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 71
United States

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Quote by lafayettemister

But if she wants him to cum on her face she's degrading herself because of her past? Come on GC, that's not for you to decide is it?


No, you twisted my words. The woman is not degrading herself. It's a degrading act and I believe she's allowing herself to experience a degrading act because of something in her past. I'm sure as a little girl, she didn't grow up unable to wait until she could get a load of cum on the face. I'm quite certain it would not be considered a normal part of sex by a great majority of people if the question were studied. If I was with a woman and she asked me to do that, I would explain how I felt about the act and if she 'had' to have it, it most likely would signal the end of the relationship. I noticed how you didn't answer the question about how you would feel if your Dad did that to your Mom or your Sister's boyfriend did it to her.

But I don't have to be with a woman who wants that done to her anymore than she has to be with a guy who feels some compulsion to do that to her.
Quote by sexybbw71
I like stories that have a plot line to them and are not just about sex. Most of the women I know are looking for some romance and not just a quick fuck. Also when it comes to the sex...draw it out and use all five of the senses to describe what is going on. Put how you feel into the story and not just the sexual part of things. I agree with Mark (thegulfcoaster), I am one of his friends and I love his stories.....they move me to tears at times because he puts his heart into it and not just his dick.


Awe, Amy - you're gonna make me blush!!

Thanks for the acknowledgement, I really appreciate it.oHIZBLu01E9RyO3H
I'd recommend reading the 'comments' of the stories, if the majority of comments are positive and from women, read the story or perhaps PM girls who leave comments like you 'd like to get on your stories and ask them what appealed to them about the story? I tend to get more comments from girls than guys, and most seem positive in nature. I'm not sure what it is about my stories that appeal to the ladies, but although they contain sex, invariably they are also 'love' stories. Check the story listings in author's profiles, look for the stats on views, scores and comments, that might be a decent place to start. Good luck.
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Quote by lafayettemister


How does it degrade or disrespect you to cum on a woman's face? Surely you aren't telling women who enjoy such things how they should feel?


It doesn't disrespect or degrade me - it disrespects and degrades the woman. It makes me wonder what happened earlier in their life that makes that seem like an act of respect or admiration. Can you imagine your Dad coming on your Mom's face, or perhaps your Sister's boyfriend coming on her face? What about that is respectful? Like I said, there are many other options besides the face.
The 'show' idea certainly would be fun, but as a guy, I'd rather have something I can keep and show my buds (plus, what does he tell Mom when she asks what did Jane get you or when your Mom asks what did you give to John for the Holidays?). The best gift I ever got from a significant other was a puppy (and it loved me far longer than the girl did), the second best gift was a framed, poster-size 'glamour shot' of her, tasteful, semi-nude, more art than porn. Luckily, she was comfortable enough to let me show it to friends and wasn't embarrassed when our families saw it (we did keep youngsters from seeing it though).
Runnergirl


Introduce the title of your story:
‘Life’s What You Make It – Emmy’s Story’
‘Life’s What You Make It – Rob’s Story’


Genre/Category:
Love Story / Novels


Provide the link:
http://www.lushstories.com/stories/novels/lifes-what-you-make-it-emmys-story.aspx
http://www.lushstories.com/stories/novels/lifes-what-you-make-it-robs-story.aspx

1. What first inspired you to write this particular story?
GulfCoaster:

‘We had become friends based on a mutual admiration of each other’s writing and I suggested a collaboration concept idea. Once Runnergirl accepted the collaboration request, we tossed ideas around (character meeting scenarios and preliminary plot) until we came across a story idea we felt would work then just ran with it.’

Runnergirl:
‘We also thought that it would be interesting to show a male and female perspective within one story line, so that the reader could get a glimpse into the thoughts of both sexes as the two characters progressed within their relationship. Thus, we came up with a, two parts as one, writing experiment.'

2. How did you come up with these characters?
GulfCoaster:

‘We discussed names for each others characters then worked on our own for the most part. My character, Rob, is actually quite similar to me in a lot of respects and is based in a lot of ways on my own lifestyle and attitude toward relationships and romance.’

Runnergirl:
‘And my character resembles me as well. I am married and often struggle with the realities of an failing union. We also agreed to add extra characters, such as Rob and Emmy's best friends, along with a friendly cooking instructor, to add depth to the story.'

3. How does it differ from some of your other stories?
GulfCoaster:

‘It is a totally new plot, but in many ways, it is very similar to most of my stories in that I have great difficulty writing a story without a romantic component where my characters DON’T end up falling in love. A minor difference with this story compared to many of my others was that Emmy and Rob are more age appropriate for each other; I tend to write a lot of older guy / younger girl stories. The major difference for me is that this is my very first collaboration.’

Runnergirl:
‘Even though I have written several love stories, this story is certainly the longest one I have written and thus is deeper in terms of character development. I was very thrilled to be finally attempting a mini novel since I had never had a chance or thought to do so.'


4. What was the most challenging thing about writing this piece?
GulfCoaster:

'The effort of collaborating on such a sizable project with a co-writer 4000 miles and three time zones apart, finding time that fit both of our schedules when we could ‘discuss’ and work out details of the plot and dialogue.'

Runnergirl:
‘Mark and I are both perfectionists so we wanted to make sure that the shared dialogue was exactly identical; thus, the editing was intense in terms of time and effort. But we both agreed that the work was well worth it, in order to truly have two halves that would fit together in unity.'


5. Anything else you want to tell us about it?
GulfCoaster:

'A couple things, I find myself liking stories that build a little more slowly, developing a relationship as opposed to jumping right into the sexual action and this story had the slowest build-up of all of the stories I’ve published to date. Also, being my very first collaboration, I found it a very satisfying experience and I’d like to pursue more collaborative works in the future both with Runnergirl (hopefully) and other co-authors I feel a connection with as well.'

Runnergirl:
‘I am really proud of our end result. It is not a revolutionary story-line by any means (since it is a simple love story) but I am proud of the uniqueness of the piece. An attempt like this turned out to be a special way to have true co authorship.'

GulfCoaster:
'In addition, Runnergirl and I would like to thank Nicola for maintaining this awesome site where Runnergirl and I became friends, allowing us to write this story and giving us a place to publish our works in the first place. We'd also like to thank the various moderators and story verifiers who provided invaluable advice throughout the process. Last and certainly not least, we'd like to thank our other friends and fellow Lushies who took the time to read and comment on the stories. We hope you enjoy the chapters of this tale yet to come.'
Even if the woman wants it, I think it's not only disrespectful but downright degrading to come on a woman's face. I would question the psychological reasons for a woman who claims to like or want it or for a guy who likes to do it. Boobs, 'Pearl Necklace', lower back following doggie-style or lower belly following 'guy on top' are OK with me if the girl wants it and indicates so before it happens.
I'm sorry, I just don't see an up-side to having a woman with a 'wide pussy'. Am I missing something here?

If for some reason (don't understand this either) a woman wants to use a toy the size of a thermos bottle, she obviously can't expect the long-term results to be an 'attraction' for the guys, As far as I'm concerned, tighter is better, but as elitfromnorth said, not so tight that it might cause any discomfort to either party.


Only 4 days 'til Thanksgiving and the turkey disappears! It's got to be around here somewhere!
Anybody remember this girl from the 1971 Barry Newman movie, 'Vanishing Point'? The girl's name is Gilda Texter.




One of my favorite movies of all time!
I only wish I could have discovered Lush 4 years earlier.
Congratulations, and many more years of success!
Philosophically, "Curious"?

Physically, no secret. Sarasota County, Florida, just a few miles from the Gulf Coast.
I heard a comic do a routine that sounded very similar to this, it's still funny! Had deer problems in Michigan where I grew up. It's a funny topic there, too.
Quote by nicola


Afraid not (sorry GulfCoaster!), it's based on Sydney, Australia time (as per original post), and the 150,000th member clicked over shortly after 9am.

So, congratulations to "She" for your correct guess. I'll be in touch.




I had to do a bit of research but I discovered that Sidney is 11 hours ahead of my time zone (and on the other side of the international date line), I knew this morning at 8:00 am my time I knew it was all over for me! I WAS rather excited, though as the 12th approached. Oh, well. It was fun anyhow and after all I didn't make a calculated choice I simply picked my birthday because I knew it was 'possible'. Thanks to Nicola for making it a contest at all! Maybe I'll get lucky when you hit 200K?

Congratulations 'She', I fully agree that you were the winner!
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In my younger days, my band did this cover in clubs
House Of Lords - Can't Find My Way Home (Blind Faith cover)

In my younger days, my band used to play this cover in clubs.
I always wondered why women's toiletry items seemed so 'phallic' for instance, every razor I've ever owned has had a fairly small handle, usually square in shape, while women's razors have these huge round or oval handles, their shampoo bottles and other 'supplies' often come in phallic shaped containers, too.