Ooh. Dominate!
Been a little while, Nikki.
Cashews.
Roses or Lilacs?
Yes. This seems to me like a pretty ridiculous thread. Kind of seems like it goes without saying. I generally suspect that people don't use their real photos, and if they do, I don't expect anything more from them, so it really doesn't matter if they look like what they say they do. As for the reasons somebody might do that, they could have self-esteem or body-image issues, severe social anxiety which the anonymity of Lush is helpful with, or maybe they are a transgender individual who is tired of being told they are not who and what they are.
Since almost nobody on Lush is after a face to face meetup, you're never going to know anyway. Are you also suspicious of profiles that have no pictures, but a description? It's an anonymous erotic fiction site. Some of us have writing careers or professional careers and don't want to have our actual name or photo up for publicity reasons. I say that as though personal privacy isn't enough, since you clearly don't think it is, and have probably misjudged the internet as an entity if you had to learn that lesson the hard way.
That's nothing against you personally, I just hope you won't get so bent out of shape, and enjoy the fantasies that these ladies are offering you without subjecting them to an interrogation or feeling lied to. If they're not giving you strictly factual information, they're telling you a story, and it's a story you wanted to hear. Just sayin'.
Tea.
A big cock, or two little ones?
Eh, why not? That would be an interesting match up.
Well, I'm always up for a swim.
Pass, if for no other reason than celebrity avatars annoy me.
I think this is great.
I also think it should go without saying, but I know that the internet is full of morons and jackasses who don't know what privacy is, or why it's important.
Thanks to Nicola and all of the Lush admin.
To be fair to the people who gave her unwanted attention, yes, she did more than publicize herself. Summer loved to post pictures and videos of herself naked and/or having sex. I remember one video in particular when she was briefly on my friends list wherein she was naked, wasted and talking to her bottle of tequila. While I have no problem with that at all, she did make it clear in those messages both explicitly and implicitly that she liked the attention, and she solicited dirty messages from her entire friend list.
That being said, jerks are still jerks. It's important not to jump on somebody because they offer you a hug. People often mistake mass messages as an excuse to get into closer contact. A good guideline is that if you're responding specifically to something that was said or asked in such a message, you're probably okay, but otherwise it's just unwanted.
For about three weeks I was sending out mass e-mails to my friends list when I had a new story come up, and I got good results in terms of people reading my stories, but I also received a TON of random e-mails propositioning me for cyber sex or cam sex or phone sex, which my profile is pretty clear about not being welcome. I suspect that I abandoned that practice in time to make it stop, but I think we can all be certain that Summer did not. I completely understand her desire to leave.
As for contacting her, DON'T TRY! She obviously doesn't want to be, and I'd bet she made sure that anybody she specifically wanted to speak to has the appropriate contact information.
I think some guys probably lie about it, but I wouldn't be surprised if plenty of them were being honest. If I didn't have to wear one for certain occasions, I'd have no idea what my bra size, or even cup size is. It's just not my biggest concern.
Depends on my mood, how intimate I feel, what he's done or expressed discomfort doing for me, and other factors.
Coffee. Slowly. Quietly. Hungover, for the first time in like two years. Woo.