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TonyT
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 60
0 miles · Pittsburgh
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Well it's been 7 or 8 years for me hon. Im ready to hop of the wagon too! 
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Are you male or female? MALE
How old are you? 47
How many times a week do you masturbate? 15
How many times do you orgasm each time you play? ALL OF THE ABOVE
Where do you masturbate:
In bed? YES
In the shower? YES
In the bath? NO
Outdoors? NO
At work? NO
Every room in the house? NO
In a car while traveling... ? A COUPLE TIMES
What do you fantasize about when you play:
A significant other? YES
A friend? YES
A friend's spouse? OH YES
A stranger? YES
A student? NO
A member of the same sex? NOPE
A past lover? YES
What position do you play in:
On your back? YES
Standing? YES
Kneeling? NO
Sitting? YES
Lying on tummy? YES
How do you play:
With left hand? YES
With right hand? YES
With a toy? NO
With water from bath? NO
Written erotica? YES
Pictures? YES
Movie clips online? YES
Videos? YES
Something on TV? NO
What is your favorite porn:
Straight sex between man and woman? YES
Gay or lesbian sex? NO, BUT SOME LESBIAN
Group sex or orgies? SOME
Blow jobs/oral sex? SOME
Cumshots? YES
Anal? SOME
Interracial? SOME
Age play? SOME
S&M? NO
Role playing? YES
Kinky? YES
Have you ever masturbated to:
Email messages? YES
A chat room dialogue? YES
Exchanged stories or pictures? YES
Have you ever:
Been caught masturbating? YES
Masturbated for a man/woman? WOMEN
Masturbated for the same sex? NO
Masturbated in a group? NO
Masturbated for a photo? YES
Masturbated for a webcam? YES
Masturbated for a video? NO
Do you ever:
Play with nipples/breasts when masturbating? NO
Insert something or play with your ass? NO
Insert something in mouth when masturbating? NO
Use pain as a method of playing? NO
For men and women:
Do you taste your cum? ONLY FROM MY LOVERS PUSSY
When was the last time you masturbated?
Are you wet or hard now? IN SHOWER TODAY
Are you going to masturbate now? NO
Are you a masturbation addict? PERHAPS
What is the most you have played in one day? 5-6 TIMES. IT DEPENDS ON THE FULL MOON
How old are you? 47
How many times a week do you masturbate? 15
How many times do you orgasm each time you play? ALL OF THE ABOVE
Where do you masturbate:
In bed? YES
In the shower? YES
In the bath? NO
Outdoors? NO
At work? NO
Every room in the house? NO
In a car while traveling... ? A COUPLE TIMES
What do you fantasize about when you play:
A significant other? YES
A friend? YES
A friend's spouse? OH YES
A stranger? YES
A student? NO
A member of the same sex? NOPE
A past lover? YES
What position do you play in:
On your back? YES
Standing? YES
Kneeling? NO
Sitting? YES
Lying on tummy? YES
How do you play:
With left hand? YES
With right hand? YES
With a toy? NO
With water from bath? NO
Written erotica? YES
Pictures? YES
Movie clips online? YES
Videos? YES
Something on TV? NO
What is your favorite porn:
Straight sex between man and woman? YES
Gay or lesbian sex? NO, BUT SOME LESBIAN
Group sex or orgies? SOME
Blow jobs/oral sex? SOME
Cumshots? YES
Anal? SOME
Interracial? SOME
Age play? SOME
S&M? NO
Role playing? YES
Kinky? YES
Have you ever masturbated to:
Email messages? YES
A chat room dialogue? YES
Exchanged stories or pictures? YES
Have you ever:
Been caught masturbating? YES
Masturbated for a man/woman? WOMEN
Masturbated for the same sex? NO
Masturbated in a group? NO
Masturbated for a photo? YES
Masturbated for a webcam? YES
Masturbated for a video? NO
Do you ever:
Play with nipples/breasts when masturbating? NO
Insert something or play with your ass? NO
Insert something in mouth when masturbating? NO
Use pain as a method of playing? NO
For men and women:
Do you taste your cum? ONLY FROM MY LOVERS PUSSY
When was the last time you masturbated?
Are you wet or hard now? IN SHOWER TODAY
Are you going to masturbate now? NO
Are you a masturbation addict? PERHAPS
What is the most you have played in one day? 5-6 TIMES. IT DEPENDS ON THE FULL MOON
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I'm not much in groups. That being said, I actually love sloppy seconds, thirds, fourths fifths, and so on. But I want them to be my own. I like it messy and wet. I like it, I think, because my lover is more sensitive and things are much more slippery. I love having her cumming and that's what gets me off.
It's not that I care about another guys cum before me, I just want to know that you has an orgasm for me. If Im just a number and she just wants another notch in her gun, I'm probably not the guy for that. Maybe I'm just selfish. I want her undivided attention and I dont want to share my candy with the rest of the class. LOL
It's not that I care about another guys cum before me, I just want to know that you has an orgasm for me. If Im just a number and she just wants another notch in her gun, I'm probably not the guy for that. Maybe I'm just selfish. I want her undivided attention and I dont want to share my candy with the rest of the class. LOL
Well, I thought is was a good topic anyway
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Quote by JohnC
I think this demonstrates a general misconception about submissive roles in the bedroom that is out there; at least from how I take it. There is a difference between being passive and lazy and being submissive. A submissive CAN and SHOULD actually participate in the sex. They simply submit to your will and let you dictate or take a dominant role. But they CAN and often do take a more active role in the sex acts. Such as, you can be a submissive and be on top doing "all the work". It is not a contradiction. The same as how submissives tend to engage in a lot of oral sex (giving) as well. And not just laying there as you plow into her face.
I thank you TonyT for making the post, because I was actually on my way back to ADD this to my post above, but you posted ahead of me.
Yep, I admit i just may not understand it.
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Personal preference here but I prefer natural. I guess Im not a BIG breast guy. Not to say that I don't give them any attention, i do and I'll say more about that in a moment, but It is not the first thing that attracts me. Yes, as with everyone, I am first attracted to a woman physically... but my concentration is lower on the body. I look at her hips and her ass. I watch how she moves. Next is her intellect. Is she witty, is she charming, a bit wry and a bit sarcastic, a bit playful, does she have a twinkle in her eye? Then, i check out her breasts.
Personally, I don't find LARGE breasts attractive. Again, just me. I like a B cup. "More than a mouthful is ..." hehehheehe
The other part is that I believe that many young women do not fully research the implant process before they get it done. I used to entertain in strip clubs (far too often) and ended up talking to many strippers as my clients where entertained. I've seen lots and lots of bad implants. More bad than good.
Since I enjoy nipples, and like when a woman finds them sensitive, I've found that in many cases the sensitivity of a woman with implants is decreased and sometimes almost completely gone. I also think that women really need to get references about the doctor before they use him. I've seen some terrible scarring. I've also talked to many older women who have had implants for 10 or more years who often have said they would elect not to do it again. As in other things, I'm not a woman so far be it from me to tell you what makes you feel good and what you want for yourself. I generally caution women who talk to me about implants and try to encourage them to really take some time and consider it fully before they make the decision.
If I had to rate the turn-on/ turn-of I would have to say that it falls more on the turn-off side. well done implants can be attractive, but hips that move well and a dirty mind always win the day for me hehehehe
Personally, I don't find LARGE breasts attractive. Again, just me. I like a B cup. "More than a mouthful is ..." hehehheehe
The other part is that I believe that many young women do not fully research the implant process before they get it done. I used to entertain in strip clubs (far too often) and ended up talking to many strippers as my clients where entertained. I've seen lots and lots of bad implants. More bad than good.
Since I enjoy nipples, and like when a woman finds them sensitive, I've found that in many cases the sensitivity of a woman with implants is decreased and sometimes almost completely gone. I also think that women really need to get references about the doctor before they use him. I've seen some terrible scarring. I've also talked to many older women who have had implants for 10 or more years who often have said they would elect not to do it again. As in other things, I'm not a woman so far be it from me to tell you what makes you feel good and what you want for yourself. I generally caution women who talk to me about implants and try to encourage them to really take some time and consider it fully before they make the decision.
If I had to rate the turn-on/ turn-of I would have to say that it falls more on the turn-off side. well done implants can be attractive, but hips that move well and a dirty mind always win the day for me hehehehe
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
Because men have been taught from an early age that being dominant and controlling and forceful with a woman makes them an asshole or an abuser (or somewhere in between).
Society upholds the traditional assumptions about romance, with the "perfect lover" being gentle and a giver and putting a woman's needs before his own.
Sometimes, it might be hard to deconstruct those things when it comes to sexuality.
I can see how some men might be confused or uncomfortable when a woman asks to be dominated/controlled or humiliated/degraded when it comes to sex.
For me at least, I think that may be part of it. But I also think, at least for me anyway, that it is just not exciting. I want my lover to express her desires. I want her to take an active role. I suppose we all have our own "things" that turn us on to different levels and that is cool. That means that there is someone for everyone. Personally, I enjoy sex much more feeling my lover wanting me more, actively telling me through body movement whispers or dirty talk what makes them orgasm. Again, its personal preference but I like a passionate sensual tango that has multiple crescendo's and, again, for me a least dancing with a sub kinda feels like dancing alone and I've never been sure of the steps. Perhaps I have just not explored it enough and don't understand it enough to talk intelligently about it. LOL
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Quote by BelleduJour
I agree with most on here, I'm not too concerned about the number necessarily but rather how compatible we are together emotionally, spiritually and especially sexually. It's about the connection I have with the other person that is paramount and I've realized that age has absolutely nothing to do with it.
Boom! You nailed it in my book!
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Quote by buttercup2u
I love when a man opens a door for me or offers me a seat on the bus or pulls out my chair for me at a restaurant. It tells me that he sees me as person, as well as giving me an idea about how his father treated his mother. All too often these days, women are treated as property to be used, instead of a person to be respected and loved and cherished. Of the flip side of that coin a woman's respect for the other person. Her reaction tells me about how her mother treated her father. Does she smile and say thank you, or does she just walk through the door?
I think that any woman who is offended by the show of respect by a man opening a door or pulling out a chair should perhaps ask herself what kind of values would she like society to have, one where it is every man (or woman) for himself, or one where people respect and care for eachother. We as adults, often don't realize how much we have learned from our parents, and in turn how much our children learn from us. It is something that we should be more aware of, I believe.
Agreed! A kind smile and a helpful hand go a long way. I wish everyone would just try to make someone else smile once a day. It should be contagious!
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I know everyone is different.
I was reading some comments on another forum topic about cyber and how it can be a bad experience. I realize that cyber is not for everyone, but I think that part of the problem is that you still have to know a bit about your lover in order for it to be enjoyable for both people. Otherwise it's just
So, as a public service, I thought that I should ask the question. Who knows, maybe this topic can help some people meet who otherwise may not have bumped into each other on Lush. :d/
So list what you like if you will....
Please no
Keep it below the belt :d/
Licking is encouraged.
I've made some popcorn for anyone who's watching this LOL
I was reading some comments on another forum topic about cyber and how it can be a bad experience. I realize that cyber is not for everyone, but I think that part of the problem is that you still have to know a bit about your lover in order for it to be enjoyable for both people. Otherwise it's just
So, as a public service, I thought that I should ask the question. Who knows, maybe this topic can help some people meet who otherwise may not have bumped into each other on Lush. :d/
So list what you like if you will....
Please no
Keep it below the belt :d/
Licking is encouraged.
I've made some popcorn for anyone who's watching this LOL
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Quote by Metilda
I think it's tragic when one persons' health or other issues end up controlling and denying someone else what is a basic element in a relationship and life.
I can't imagine looking at my husband and telling him 'no sex' . . . and then getting offended if he gets to a point where he can't deny himself such a basic, primal urge.
That's forcing someone into celibacy - and it's sad. No one should have that type of power over another person.
While I understand that you can't create sexual desire when it's just no longer there (for whatever reason) - you shouldn't let that force the other to let go of it, too. Nor is sex the only type of sexual satisfaction to give/receive.
If I was in a position where I couldn't bring myself to please my husband AT ALL I'd give him the green flag to go and seek out someone else PHYSICALLY.
However, I did go through a time when - because of health issues - I could NOT have sex. We resorted to oral/manual stimulation during that time. I might not have been able to orgasm, but I still saw to his needs and enjoyed it.
If someone is so put out by their issues that they can't even get someone off that way then there's more going on than meets the eye.
Well put.
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Quote by Emerys
Did it once. The guy bored me. He was inarticulate and so obviously didn't care about anything besides getting himself off. I never did it again, and honestly, I don't think I even want to. That last experience left a bad taste in my mouth. Besides, I'm a bit paranoid about personal security these days.
Chatting about sex/fantasies or role-playing is more fun for me these days. Unfortunately I haven't come across many people who are both interesting AND literate, so my options have been extremely limited.
Now, do women cyber in general? Of course they do. An old female friend of mine once told me that she loved having cyber sex. I highly doubt she's the only one.
Perhaps you're not looking in the right places. Or perhaps you're coming across too strong. I know that I, personally, could never cyber with someone I didn't know/trust at least a little. Which means that we'd actually have to have had a conversation about something OTHER than sex at some point.
I don't presume to know how you go about asking for it, but if you're just randomly messaging women (via PM or chat) with comments that go along the lines of "hey sexy, u want to be freaky together on cam?" then you're probably turning more people off than on.
It would help to actually know how you've been approaching people about it thus far.
Well I have played in cyber. I enjoy it. Other than that I agree 100% with EVERYTHING else you wrote. I do think you really must get to know the person. Their likes and dislikes. Sometimes what someone desires may not be at all what you might like. In fact, it may be a complete turn off. I think that it's pretty important to make sure that you know and understand what your partner likes and desires. When you find THAT person with whom you just click, with whom you compliment then you are truly fortunate and you can discover that you want to talk to them outside of cyber. They can even become wonderful friends and not just an online fuck buddy.
I am happy to say that I have been lucky enough to find that person. I hope that one day you might also hon.
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Quote by DontHaveASexyCliche
Because I'm having so much fun with all the toys that he's decided to just lock himself in there with me. We can't get out. Whatever shall we do?
Because she needs to tell me every little thing that turns her on and makes her cum.... until she does that and she cums for me the way she has always needed to... she doesn't get to leave. Mwhahahaha
Every morning before I cum!
Mmmmmmm. 
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I read through several of the postings here and did not see these, so if they have already been discussed please forgive me for re-posting:
1. it would be cool if there where left and right arrows between the video postings as there are on the image postings. It would make it much easier for me sees Summer Jones in all of her sexy glory. hehehe
2. It would be cool to see 'who's viewed my profile" I like the "who IS viewing' function but I may not be on when someone does that. Perhaps a toggle in the same frame so you could see that... (Your "top viewers" would be cool too)
thanks much for all of your hard work
1. it would be cool if there where left and right arrows between the video postings as there are on the image postings. It would make it much easier for me sees Summer Jones in all of her sexy glory. hehehe
2. It would be cool to see 'who's viewed my profile" I like the "who IS viewing' function but I may not be on when someone does that. Perhaps a toggle in the same frame so you could see that... (Your "top viewers" would be cool too)
thanks much for all of your hard work
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There are many things being discovered about the long term effects of concussions. There are several pro football players who have spoken about about the long term dangers. One explained in his suicide note that he wanted his brain studied for the effects the concussions had had on him and he actually killed himself for that reason. If I can find those articles I will post. In the meantime have you looked at this. http://www.concussiontreatment.com/concussionfacts.html
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Quote by Leiza350
take quiz..... und post what it says you are back here ..dare ya ...lol
http://www.blogthings.com/whatkindofseducerareyouquiz/
Fantasy Lover
You know that ideal love that each of us dreams of from childhood? That's you!
Not because you possess all of the ideal characteristics, but because you are a savvy shape shifter.
You have the uncanny ability to detect someone's particular fantasy... and make it you.
You inspire each person to be idealistic and passionate, and you make each moment memorable.
Even a simple coffee date with you can be the most romantic moment of someone's life.
By giving your date exactly what he or she desires, you quickly become the ideal lover.
Your abilities to make dreams come true is strong. So strong that you are often the love of many people's lives.
Your ex's (and even people you have simply met or been friends with) long to be yours.
No doubt you are the one others have dreamed of... your biggest challenge is finding *your* dream lover.
....Now what where you Leiza?