It should not be that way. It's a partnership. you go through things together and if one is taking and the other giving, that is not moving forward the relationship. It's give and take for both. IMHO.
I wouldn't mind refining the question a little bit. Is there something that makes your orgasm better? In other words, do you sometime squirt and other times drip or still other times just get really creamy? I've heard lots about volume of cum for guys and how eating different foods can affect the taste and smell of cum but not heard much about what causes different kind of orgasm for women. Is one kind better than another?
Thanks for all of the comments ladies and guys. It seems that most of the ladies like dirty talk and it's all part of the foreplay. I've always thought that the bet orgasm starts with all the dirty ideas going through you head first.
Do you think that your more open after the endorphins kick in and you willing to share your deeper dirtier desires because you've told your lover the dirty things or your lover has told you?
I like furry and trimmed. Not soo short. I like it to stay nice and wet and I just think it's sexxy to see a woman's juices glistening in her hair and her hair matted down in wetness as I help her take off her panties and move my mouth down to taste her for the first time
I think this has been around for a long time. It's called Oedipus and Electra complex and is pretty common. I think that there are degrees to each person's own fantasies though as to how far they carry it. Afterall, the best sex starts in the minds fantasy
I think of the first sexual encounter as just the first round. I really like round 2, 3 and 4 each much more than the first. I like it even more that she's wet and messy. I get hard again rubbing and caressing her body. feeling her wet pussy, fingering her and thinking about how much I want to be back inside of her, knowing how wet and slippery she is going to be as i feel her lips spreading and sliding easily back in when she is already full of my cum <<< that about describes round 2. LOL
I'm curious to find out if Dirty talk is a turn on for you ladies. I know that everyone has their own hot buttons and some are turned off by dirty talk. So do you like it? If so when? During foreplay? intercourse? orgasm? Does it build to a better orgasm for you? What do you say and/or what do you like to hear said to you?
I'm looking forward to reading your responses
I think that the best orgasm's start in your brain and I enjoy knowing that a woman is giving me her mind. I've very very attracted to intelligent women. I've always like the librarians and doctors. Smart women are so much more fascinating and the verbal foreplay is very exciting
Wet + Messy + dripping = super hot! makes me want more more more
I'm curious if there is a common theme to your fantasies. I realize that everyone can be in the 'mood' for different things but is there anything you you find is a recurring theme to your fantasy?
...and do you orgasm to it?
My take is that mornings are more 'sensitive' especially if there was sex the night before. It just 'feels' hotter and well, mmmm wetter
I would love to hear from more ladies on this. Does the idea of it turn you on more when you in the heat of passion? Do you orgasm together?
too hot not to bump up for more comments
I like it wet. Wet all nite. messy. I prefer some hair. Not full untrimmed bush but something to run my fingers thru and feel the wetness, something that makes my face wet. Something that i can slide my fingers thru while she sleeps and remoisten everything so she wakes up from a horny dream, wet and horny hehehehe
But hey, I grew up in the 80s