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UnchainedLioness
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Cis Female, 34
0 miles · Cologne

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One of the first things you're told as a writer is "write what you know".

Obviously that doesn't mean you can only write what you've personally done, but broad sexual experiences help to bring in the details that most people don't think about.

And well... I'm a bisexual woman what had a real slutty phase and is now in a strong, but very open, relationship. So... very broad experiences.

I think erotica serves as a space to explore fantasies in a safe, controlled environment — and yes, sometimes those fantasies can be dark. That’s part of what makes fiction powerful: it lets us delve into scenarios we might never want (or be able) to experience in real life.

That said, I also believe there’s a line between what’s written and how people interpret it. If someone can’t separate fiction from reality, that’s a deeper issue — not the writer’s fault. No judgment, but that kind of instability isn’t something authors can be held accountable for, nor should they be expected to police their creative work for everyone else's mental state.

Of course, content labeling is important. Tags, trigger warnings, clear summaries — those are all basic tools that help readers make informed choices. But beyond that, it’s really up to individuals to decide what they engage with.

For example, I’m personally not into the “abusive guy gets fixed by love” trope — it’s just not my thing. But I don’t expect others to stop writing or enjoying it. I just don't read or write those stories.