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Verena
1 month ago
Bisexual Female, 38
United Kingdom
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Quote by HeraTeleia
Are you asking...what, what I do if my partner isn't able to achieve an erection? Your phone is not doing you any favours.
Anyway. If my partner wasn't able to achieve an erection after sustained, serious efforts on my part, I think that I would lean more towards something being wrong medically--cardiac issues, for instance, can affect a man's ability to achieve and maintain an erection--rather than leaning towards he's just not in to me.
This, plus stress or anxiety could be the cause. A caring partner would gently delve into the potential reasons first and find out why and react as she feels is appropriate to it.
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Quote by Venutian
How are you feeling today? Is anything upsetting you? Do you want to talk about it? This is a judgment free zone.
If you'd rather talk about it privately or with select friends, send me a friend request.
1. I'm fine thanks.
2. Yes, the rain, April showers and it's cold, 4 degrees.
3. I don't need to talk about it, no one can control the weather.
4. I wouldn't judge you for spelling judgment-free zone without a hyphen.
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I have never understood these threads, same as would you .... with the person above you. But whatever.
No, I've never understood the relevance of this thread either as the OP isn't going to see what we're wearing. Anyway, maybe he's seen something like this I found on the internet and he's doing a personality/frame of mind or kind of thing.
It's a guide to what colour your wearing says about you:
BLACK: Sexiness, Seduction, Secretive or just plain "I want to get some tonight, baby!"
RED: Passionate, Romantic, Erotic... "I want to be romanced tonight...take my breath away, lover..."
PINK: Delicate, Flirty, Youthful... "You might get some, you might not... but I am yours tonight!"
WHITE: Innocent, Virginal, Pure... "Be gentle with me, and I may have some fun with you!"
BLUE: Bold, Strong, Mischievous? I'm in control tonight, sexy? wink
PURPLE: Mysterious... "I like to keep you guessing? I'll spring you when you least expect it!?
ORANGE: Playful... "Let's have some fun tonight!"
GREEN: Anything Goes... "No location is too risky for me!"
LEOPARD PRINT: "Rwar, I'm an animal, baby. Let's get wild!"
NONE: SOMEBODY'S GETTIN' SOME TONIGHT!!!!!
Okay, so not definitive, it doesn't mention yellow, turquoise, magenta, pale blue, gray, brown, multi-colored, high-vis, patterned, sheer or a whole load more colours and designs out there. It also doesn't make reference the style either. THONG: I'm up for it - versus - GRANNY PANTS: Keep it in your trousers.
Whoever submitted this guide did very little or no research and is probably colour blind.
Today I wore yellow and you can't mix any of the colours above to make yellow but it is the hue on the visible spectrum lying between orange and green. Anything goes and playful
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Yes but it depends of course on the story, how it's structured and the use of language. I am no expert, I've only recently embarked on having a go at writing and my stories reflect that. Erotica, in my opinion, is a written form of pornography that stimulates the imagination and takes you into the minds of the characters which photos and videos can't unless they are of a high artistic/creative level, which constitutes very few.
Straight to the action leaves me behind, I need to identify with the characters and there has to be a plot to the story.
A certain word will turn me off even if it's a great story. There are many words to describe women's genitals but, maybe it's an English thing or the way I was brought up, but the word 'Cunt' (also referred to as C U Next Tuesday).
If it's a story that gets me going I will masturbate but not to completion, I enjoy teasing myself.
Straight to the action leaves me behind, I need to identify with the characters and there has to be a plot to the story.
A certain word will turn me off even if it's a great story. There are many words to describe women's genitals but, maybe it's an English thing or the way I was brought up, but the word 'Cunt' (also referred to as C U Next Tuesday).
If it's a story that gets me going I will masturbate but not to completion, I enjoy teasing myself.
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Being checked out by a woman I find attractive gets me all hot and flustered as does a glimpse of her inner thigh and knickers. Subtly reciprocating if she looks at me in that direction.
A hand stroking my bum.
Wandering hands delving into my clothing.
A stroke of the knee and its journey upwards makes me shiver.
Guys in shorts with well-toned legs can be very enticing, makes me think about his cock
A hand stroking my bum.
Wandering hands delving into my clothing.
A stroke of the knee and its journey upwards makes me shiver.
Guys in shorts with well-toned legs can be very enticing, makes me think about his cock
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Personally, I consider them to be a very attractive fashion accessory.
They've been around for a very long time and what they may or may not signify has changed throughout history.
There is no definitive interpretation to what they signify.
https://bellatory.com/fashion-accessories/A-Short-History-of-the-Choker
They've been around for a very long time and what they may or may not signify has changed throughout history.
There is no definitive interpretation to what they signify.
https://bellatory.com/fashion-accessories/A-Short-History-of-the-Choker
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School taught me about how humans reproduce and how our bits work. Emotions and pleasure weren't included in the curriculum. Sex was learned through magazine articles, talking with friends and the trials, tribulations and the fun of experimentation with horny young men.
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Chapter 6 is on its way, awaiting approval.
Sometimes you meet someone who takes you out of your comfort zone, an innocent flirtation becomes a journey of discovery taking you to somewhere you never thought you could ever be taken to. I'm straight, I have no sexual attraction towards women.
Sometimes you meet someone who takes you out of your comfort zone, an innocent flirtation becomes a journey of discovery taking you to somewhere you never thought you could ever be taken to. I'm straight, I have no sexual attraction towards women.
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In fairness, the OP didn't ask anyone to divulge their age.
After initially giving him a few hand jobs I was nervous, I wasn't experienced or confident about doing it and it took some time to make him cum, but once I got started I was determined I wanted to be good at it and please him. When I finally got him close he grabbed and held my head but he didn't need to as I expected he would want me to swallow and I intended to anyway.
I felt proud of myself afterwards.
After initially giving him a few hand jobs I was nervous, I wasn't experienced or confident about doing it and it took some time to make him cum, but once I got started I was determined I wanted to be good at it and please him. When I finally got him close he grabbed and held my head but he didn't need to as I expected he would want me to swallow and I intended to anyway.
I felt proud of myself afterwards.
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I apologize if this has been asked before but I'm too lazy to trawl through 89 pages of Ask the Guys to find out.
What gives you the most intense pleasure/orgasm.
Many guys are into anal, not my thing but that's not the point of this poll/question.
I appreciate that a hand job was probably your first experience but some guys retain a strong liking for them.
What gives you the most intense pleasure/orgasm.
Many guys are into anal, not my thing but that's not the point of this poll/question.
I appreciate that a hand job was probably your first experience but some guys retain a strong liking for them.
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Quote by literot
And you Verena? As perhaps a strange man, I can't bring myself to do it as it would make me feel it was demeaning. Am I being selfish I wonder?
No, you're not being selfish. Sex in my experience is about pleasing and satisfying the needs of the other person. I would never request it but would except it if that was the ballast required to float his boat.
