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I love taller guys so I can wear HEELS!! Haha. Plus it makes me feel more feminine and sexy to be with a tall guy? IDK?
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VirginalViet
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 33
United States
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Well it does depend on the chemistry and mood of the couple right? I mean generally I prefer the guy to be confident and to be somewhat of a "take charge" kind of person. On the other hand I also can be a terrible tease and very flirtatious and if I'm in the right mood I can be quite aggressive actually. People think I look "sweet" and "innocent", but hehe not always. With girls I have always been pretty passive except for one or two times when I was quite drunk hehe. IDK? I sound messed up right? Haha probably everyone is like this.
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Well I mainly like older guys. You shouldn't say an age exactly since everyone is different. My dad's gf Judy is 26 and he's over 50 and they seem to get along great? IDK? If I had to say an age range I would say the guys I'm most attracted to fall within 29 to say 45? IDK? It's hard to say.
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Well I love flirting and teasing. I do wear short skirts, but I can't say I flashed on "purpose"? Maybe I didn't try too hard to pull my skirt down? Hehe stop giggling girls.
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Mostly I'm okay, but I'm a bit short (heels!!) and my boobs are a bit small. But hey overall I can't complain too much. People think I look "cute" or "sweet" instead of sexy? I think I need to dress a bit differently and maybe get my hair cut short? A blunt cut or something more severe? IDK?
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His bed at his house. He's sent flowers for the anniversary of that night. So sweet.
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Yeah me too. Being on top is the best for stimulation and release. I enjoy several, but on top is best.
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I agree, most men love their nipples being touched. With Steve he likes me to just let him be inside me without my hips moving and then I graze my wet fingers over his nipples until he can't take it anymore. When he start to just about come then I move my hips and he goes wild. I also like to use this to my advantage when we're out shopping or at dinner and I'm getting a bit horny and I want to tease him. I'll brush across his nipples with my hand or find a chance to run my nails across them when no one can see us. It makes most guys horny as hell.
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My mom bought me my first vibrator. She realized I was getting super horny and she thought it would delay my having sex with boys until I was a bit older and more mature. Pretty much she was right and I ended up having the perfect guy for my first time.
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Well my best friend Jenny used to be on Lush, but she got bored and closed her page. Cindy and Stephy also know about my account and sometimes we read stories together. I told Steve before, but we got into a big fight about it so I don't tell guys anymore. I have been thinking about telling Dave, but IDK? Guys are kinda insecure about sex. I think it's better not to tell guys.
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In the winter I can wear a tight cashmere sweater with no bra since my boobs are quite firm and small. I do like the look and I know guys like it too. I love it when I wear no bra and my bf can slide his hands under from behind and tease my nipples.....heaven!!
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I do love the feeling of his hardness in my mouth and watching him squirm as I tease him. However as I'm more experienced now I would say I prefer to feel him inside me after a while. It is more intimate and I get more pleasure from having him inside me. That being said if he gives me incredible oral then I have no problem returning the favor. Good sex after all is all about sharing and being willing to do things for your partner.
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Well I never have, but who knows. I love it when a guy just can't hold back, so the idea of being totally infatuated immediately and both of us just wanting it so badly is a tantalizing fantasy for sure. I would love if a guy wanted me so bad he tried to seduce me immediately. If he was hot and I was horny as hell then I bet it would be a great experience. He would need to know how to flirt really well and be very attractive and a good talker. Most guys it takes me a while to get into them, so it would need to be a very special man. Or maybe if I was really drunk? hehe just saying.
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When I first gave a BJ I was enthralled by the sense of power and his loss of control, so I would make him come. Now I know that I enjoy having him inside me much more so usually now I don't make him come in my mouth unless he really begs me to. Otherwise I will just get him hard, tease the shit out of him, take him to the edge a few times. Then I'll let him calm down a bit and let him give me oral for a while and then climb on top so I can have a huge release from riding his super hard cock. Maybe I'll change again, but that's how I feel now.
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Well most days except when I'm sick with the flu or something. Usually it's at night when I'm winding down or when I have a few drinks. When I have a few drinks I get really horny. I also get very horny just before my period for some reason. The three days before my period I could like drag a guy to my bed and just fuck his brains out. It was super hard when I was a virgin. I would climb the walls. That's why my mom got me my first vibrator. OMG what a life saver.
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Well my mom says most men cannot accept how sexual a woman really is and that she has her own fantasy world and desires. She says most men just can't handle it since they're too insecure. I think from what I know of my gf's most women do "hide" quite a bit from their bf's or husbands. If they knew that we were lusting over other men's cocks and had dreams about other guys it would make them too insecure. Men (most men anyways) like to feel they are the center of attention from my experience.
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A guy and a toy? Hmmm now that sounds fun. I'm putting that on my list.
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Absolutely. I seduced him. He was so nervous and thought he was too old for me, but I had a crush on him for a long time. In the end he was perfect and patient and it was wonderful. I will always remember it and if I have a daughter I will hope she finds a man just like Steve.
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Well I love Selena Gomez and J. Alba? IDK? Lots of girls are pretty.
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OMG seriously? Really if we start dating and you want to move to the "toy stage" let's go buy them together? Geez first of all the shopping will be fun and will get us all hot and bothered and using some other girl's toys is just like way too fucking weird for me?? Anyways I don't know if maybe I'm weird, but it just wouldn't feel right.
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Why they get so "clingy" and possessive so quickly. I thought guys were supposed to all be after "sex", but it turns out they're like little immature babies seeking approval and acceptance from you? My mom and I discuss this very topic like EVERY week? It seems like an endless conversation. Guys just do not accept that women are sexual individuals with an independent personality completely separate from theirs. They want us to be like "theirs"?? Like some possession or something they can show off to other guys? I have been talking about this with one of my close GF's here on Lush. She has the same problem with her new guy. Seems like lots of girls have this issue with guys.
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Well for me that would mean a guy like 40? That would be okay, but my mom always warns me about the "later". She'll say when you're 40 he's over 60? What will you think then? You'll still be very active and you don't know what state he'll be in. She's more for having an affair with such a man, but avoiding marriage. She thinks it will not work out in the long term. However mom has a friend who's husband is 17 years older and they are still going strong? Who knows, it's a hard question. Very personal to each couple I would say. But for sure it's possible.
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Well it does give a girl an ego boost right? I'm quite short and petite with small boobs so not all guys look. They guys who can't help themselves give me a nice grin and it makes me feel a tiny bit special. Yeah I play it up sometimes and walk by them a second time or sway my hips a little bit extra. My mom scolds me sometimes at the store if she knows I'm teasing a guy. We both giggle over it later though.
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TOTALLY!!! Cuddling is so intimate and.......girlfriend alert!!......it can lead to more sex!!! Especially with older guys who need longer to re-load the "cuddling" can recharge their battery and lead to a second round that is more intimate and intense than the first. I highly recommend cuddling.
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Well I think it's been said above, but the most attractive thing about a man is his personality. Part of that is his confidence, how smart he is, his ability to handle all sorts of situations, his sense of humor, how healthy and in shape he is, his sense of adventure, etc. Generally such guys who put together these qualities don't end up poor. He might be coming out of college and have student loans and a bashed up used car......yup I'd fuck his brains out if he turned me on. Then we could start my new cell-biology "new tech" skin care company together and become multi-billionaires. Our hot sex lives and mutual happiness would just be the icing on the cake. And oh yes.....when my friends all asked "How I met a rich guy?" I'd tell them he was driving a used Camry when I met him and laugh in their face.
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When it comes down to it you want to look into his eyes with his cock filling you. There is no other way to put it. The connection can be so intense and when you come on his cock it is way different than coming from his tongue and fingers. I love riding my man and feeling him inside.
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Well I think putting on any sexy lingerie puts you in the mood. As you select it you know what is going to happen later. I agree with Kimasa though, the biggest turn-on in when you see their reaction as you reveal your little surprise. It's so cute when you see a guy's eyes react.
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Well tonight my mom is out with Craig (he's 26 and way HOT!). Since she didn't come home I'm just assuming she's getting some! Go mom!!
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Well I have mainly dated older guys, but I don't know if I could put down an actual "limit"? My mom always says girls mature faster than men and from my experience that's true. Steve is a lot older than me but we get along so well I don't even notice it my self. He looks younger than his age because he's in good shape, but I know he is self-conscious about our age difference sometimes. I'm Asian and petite and I look younger than I am. When we hold hands in public I know we get looks sometimes. At first I noticed it a lot, but now I don't notice anymore. I do, however, try to "dress older" depending on where we are going. I know Steve's friends joke with him about "robbing the cradle" and stuff like that. He blushes sometimes, but I think inside he's proud to have a younger girl friend. My mom says a younger woman keeps a man young. She thinks an age difference is good, but just not too much. How much is too much? IDK hehe. Sorry I have blabbered on and not really added anything to this thread. Like Babydollslave said when you have a conversation it's usually way more interesting to talk to someone with more experience, who's traveled, who's done stuff. Anyways.....shit....I just better stop.