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Depends on the situation doesn't it?
I was shagging a milf on the floor of her kitchen one Saturday summer afternoon, when I heard a commotion in the dining room - behind us. She could see over my shoulder and mentioned that it was 'just her husband'. That gave me a bit of boner killing pause, momentarily.
'Ex-husband' she quickly corrected, as she rolled me over onto my back and took the reigns.
Later she commented, "Maybe he'll start ringing the fucking doorbell before just barging in like he still pays the mortgage."
A friend of mine claims that you pay the lady so she leaves afterwards. Truly no strings attached.
If you call him first, you risk giving him the idea that you think he's the total shiznit. Even though you might think that.
Resist. Make him call you. You want a man who recognizes a good thing and pursues it/her...don't you? This might sound traditional, old-fashioned or just plain out of touch with the times.
I'm just saying, from the POV of a man who's made plenty of 1st calls after 1st dates that ended well enough and I thought I saw a good enough 'thing' to make the effort to show I was interested in asking for a 2nd date.
If he doesn't call... consider that you dodged a bullet and proceed forward with your life. He wasn't the shiznit after all.
Maybe only if she's in the same room while you're spanking the monkey.
Maybe.
Schweppes tonic with a slice of lime, a few ice cubes...and a generous pour of Beefeater
Comments are where the gold is mined, once again.
The pussy beggars doling out sage dating ritual advice. 
