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Wilful
Over 90 days ago
Straight Cis Male, 49
0 miles · Sydney
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Devil's Advocate
I've thanked the last two. In fact I've asked them to be friends.
Although I'm ashamed to say that I've forgotten the Mods who approved my first two stories. So if I may right a wrong now:
Thank you for taking the time to approve my stories, whoever you are. And of course, my sincerest apologies for not acknowledging your contributions to the site. Oh yeah, and sorry for polluting your minds with my filth too.
Although I'm ashamed to say that I've forgotten the Mods who approved my first two stories. So if I may right a wrong now:
Thank you for taking the time to approve my stories, whoever you are. And of course, my sincerest apologies for not acknowledging your contributions to the site. Oh yeah, and sorry for polluting your minds with my filth too.
Devil's Advocate
You're definitely not alone. Welcome to the club. Same age, same guilt when I first joined, and same situation with my wife.
I think Oldfaithful sums it up perfectly. Be honest, be respectful, and there's nothing to feel guilty about. Easier said than done, I know. But trust me, it passes.
Those conversations at home are hard, I know. And that's coming from a guy who used to do transexual phone sex calls in front of his wife. But we've inexplicitly re-pruded since, and we have trouble telling each other what we want.
I think Rebecca's right, you've got to reopen those lines of communication. Baby steps, sure, but get 'em open.
Good luck...to us all.
I think Oldfaithful sums it up perfectly. Be honest, be respectful, and there's nothing to feel guilty about. Easier said than done, I know. But trust me, it passes.
Those conversations at home are hard, I know. And that's coming from a guy who used to do transexual phone sex calls in front of his wife. But we've inexplicitly re-pruded since, and we have trouble telling each other what we want.
I think Rebecca's right, you've got to reopen those lines of communication. Baby steps, sure, but get 'em open.
Good luck...to us all.
Devil's Advocate
I wish everyone, especially world leaders and the rich, had a sense of humanity, compassion and empathy;
I wish I had perfect vision; and
I wish my wife could let go of all her emotional baggage, if only for her sake.
Is there room to chuck a bit of cash onto one of those, do you think?
I wish I had perfect vision; and
I wish my wife could let go of all her emotional baggage, if only for her sake.
Is there room to chuck a bit of cash onto one of those, do you think?
Devil's Advocate
You would know better than I that you should cut anything that doesn't propel the story or add anything to the characters. But I'm going to go out on a limb and suggest that a sex scene in an erotica novel is what it's all about.
I feel your pain on the vertical sex. My wife's too tall and her legs are too long. The last time we tried, we crashed through the house, frantically searching for a surface or benchtop at the right height, until we finally collapsed on the dogs' bed.
If it's a hot scene, go for it. Just anchor it with some realism. Have him holding her up by her ass, with her legs over his arms. Squeezing her against the wall will take some of her weight, and if he's strong enough, it's believable. And if he's going in from behind, firstly, bravo! And secondly, make sure he's a lot taller than her, 'cause there's nothing sexy about fucking on a smelly dog's bed.
I feel your pain on the vertical sex. My wife's too tall and her legs are too long. The last time we tried, we crashed through the house, frantically searching for a surface or benchtop at the right height, until we finally collapsed on the dogs' bed.
If it's a hot scene, go for it. Just anchor it with some realism. Have him holding her up by her ass, with her legs over his arms. Squeezing her against the wall will take some of her weight, and if he's strong enough, it's believable. And if he's going in from behind, firstly, bravo! And secondly, make sure he's a lot taller than her, 'cause there's nothing sexy about fucking on a smelly dog's bed.
Devil's Advocate
Quote by SereneProdigy
Definitively body for me. My favorite part is the whole hips/stomach/pelvis region. Such a wonderful sight. Pelvic bones give me a major hard on :
Well said. I'm the same. But throw in a nice ass too.
Although, it doesn't mean anything if her personality is up the shit.
Devil's Advocate
There's a lot of room between "extremely happy" and "very average"...hmmm...fuck! We've strayed into #6. Only just though. And we're putting the work in to get back into the sweet spot.
As others have already said, it's far from black and white. My wife and I started off long distance, putting us in the position where we emotionally invested in each other before we had a chance to physically connect. If we'd met conventionally...well, what if?
On paper, my wife is an absolute fucking train wreck. Don't get me wrong, I'm far from perfect, but holy hammers! I probably should have run a mile, but in my heart I know she's the one for me. Fuck it!
I was recently chatting to an old bloke who had been married for over fifty years, and he said, "I never once thought about divorce, but I did think about murder." That sums it up perfectly.
If I can worship at the Church of Dr Phil a moment, I think it comes down to whether or not they make you feel safe. Everything else is bullshit.
As others have already said, it's far from black and white. My wife and I started off long distance, putting us in the position where we emotionally invested in each other before we had a chance to physically connect. If we'd met conventionally...well, what if?
On paper, my wife is an absolute fucking train wreck. Don't get me wrong, I'm far from perfect, but holy hammers! I probably should have run a mile, but in my heart I know she's the one for me. Fuck it!
I was recently chatting to an old bloke who had been married for over fifty years, and he said, "I never once thought about divorce, but I did think about murder." That sums it up perfectly.
If I can worship at the Church of Dr Phil a moment, I think it comes down to whether or not they make you feel safe. Everything else is bullshit.
Devil's Advocate
Nobody knows that I write here, other than you fine people of course.
I do plan to tell my wife, once I've got a more diverse collection of work posted. She is open-minded, and I'm pretty confident she'll be okay with it, but I think a few fantasies on their own is a bit much to explain for now.
I do plan to tell my wife, once I've got a more diverse collection of work posted. She is open-minded, and I'm pretty confident she'll be okay with it, but I think a few fantasies on their own is a bit much to explain for now.
