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WorkAlone
Over 90 days ago
Heteroflexible Male, 55
0 miles · Toronto
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Cogent Sensualist
There is a moment of power here if you want to try an open relationship. She cheated, you want to cheat, maybe there's a workable solution there. There may be a problem with your closed relationship if you both want to cheat but open relationships can be really hard. It may be attractive to think you can date other woment but picture your wife telling you she's heading out for her date tonight and that you shouldn't wait up for her. Right now, you may have some extra power because she strayed, but pressing that advantage may lead to an unbalanced agreement that will ultimately lead to the end of the relationship. I know a couple going through this right now and it isn't pretty.
Anyways, yes, an open relationship may be an answer and would have the advantage that you're being open and honest with your spouse. As such, it's not cheating and you can have a clear conscience. But, it's probably a mine field right now and you have to careful about how you approach it, set it up, and negotiate it to make it something sustainable. Personally, I think it's too dangerous to do under these circumstances since you really need a STRONGER relationship to be open rather than a weakened one, but that's just a personal opinion. Your mileage may vary.
Good luck!
Anyways, yes, an open relationship may be an answer and would have the advantage that you're being open and honest with your spouse. As such, it's not cheating and you can have a clear conscience. But, it's probably a mine field right now and you have to careful about how you approach it, set it up, and negotiate it to make it something sustainable. Personally, I think it's too dangerous to do under these circumstances since you really need a STRONGER relationship to be open rather than a weakened one, but that's just a personal opinion. Your mileage may vary.
Good luck!
