I love the sight of a woman with her panties slipped rakishly part way down her slightly spread thighs just below her naked pussy. Her panties like that seem to erotically underline and emphasise her sexuality.

Character viewpoint is one of the most important features. Sometimes I find a story I’m writing just doesn’t work or gets stuck. So the first thing I try is re-telling it from the viewpoint of one of the other characters, such as from the female characters viewpoint, or even a third person observer. What never works is having two character viewpoints. A reader can only see through one person’s eyes at a time.
Yes I love to finger my woman to orgasm. As well as doing it because she likes it, I like the feel of her body and it gets her hot and sensitive for when I get my cock in so she climaxes again from my cock. My technique is simple. We lie naked together. She spreads her legs wide. I start by gently and smoothly stroking her vagina lips up and down. From time to time my fingers move to her groins, inner thighs or ass. I kiss and lick her nipples at the same time. When she gets aroused my finger moves to the peak of her clitoris, circling and criss crossing it till her orgasm comes. I find few things more erotic than my woman’s orgasm cry. Afterwards she likes me to hold my hand cupped over her pussy mound. Then I get on top of her for penis in vagina sex.
When she asked me to show her how a man masturbates. She’d never seen a boy do it before. We were both naked in bed together after sex the night before. I got into my favourite masturbation position, kneeling with my legs wide and my cock sticking out, then I put on a noisy meaty show for her.
Honestly solo masturbation gives me the best orgasm measured purely as the feeling in my penis as I can control the action and edge to increase my sex pleasure. But though I might not get such an intense orgasm in my penis when I am having sex with a woman, the whole body experience of sexual intercourse is infinitely more delicious than solo masturbation.
I usually masturbate dry. With my cock really hard and my thumb and forefinger loosely around my shaft as I stroke I like the dry friction. But sometimes for a change I use lube, usually Vaseline or baby oil. The feel of my lubed whole fist round my cock tugging and stroking feels just like a tight vagina.
I always apply 4 principles to every story I write. 1 Plausibility: it has to be believable. 2 Simplicity: too complicated and you get lost in the plot. 3 Motivation: there has to be some good reason, stated or implied, for what characters do otherwise it can just become silly. 4 Momentum: the story has to go somewhere, preferably In an unbroken time line. I also believe a good story tells itself. If you feel you are pushing it along or need to put in loads of padding your story is probably not there yet. When the characters develop a life of their own and carry you along with them, you are there.
I wear girly panties when I masturbate. The soft feel of them taut over my hard penis and the sight of the outline of my erection in them is very erotic and gives me a good hard on. In my younger days I would get together with other boys for masturbation and hand jobbing and we would wear panties borrowed from sisters and mothers for that.
I edge when I masturbate because it prolongs my sexual pleasure. Also edging takes my penis to the absolute peak of erection stiffness and pleasure sensitivity so my orgasm is exquisite. I usually only edge for a few minutes. I would like to meet a woman who knows how to hold my cock on the edge when she hand jobs me.