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15 minutes ago
Straight Male, 71
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I like my wife's 34D boobs.
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I've been married 35 years and for the past 15 been looking for something to increase my wife's libido or at least give her one.
She refuses to go to counseling so I went alone. I went back a year later and the counselor was surprised we were still married. I've focused my energy towards working out and writing.
She refuses to go to counseling so I went alone. I went back a year later and the counselor was surprised we were still married. I've focused my energy towards working out and writing.
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This sounds a lot like my wife over the past few years. Menopause hit, then she discovered fibroids which made intercourse painful. She got some lube but that didn't help much. She's not into oral (although she used to like receiving ). Basically, she's lost all interest in intimacy.
We've been married now 35 years. With the exception of sex/intimacy we have a very good marriage. I can't see tossing 35 years out the window because we rarely are intimate.
I'd love to find something to make the pain of intercourse go away along with something to change her views about other forms of intimacy. Until that time, I just write and focus on the other things between us that make us a couple.
We've been married now 35 years. With the exception of sex/intimacy we have a very good marriage. I can't see tossing 35 years out the window because we rarely are intimate.
I'd love to find something to make the pain of intercourse go away along with something to change her views about other forms of intimacy. Until that time, I just write and focus on the other things between us that make us a couple.
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I've been married since I was 26. The years prior to that my sex life was sparse. The first fifteen years of our marriage was okay, my wife had some desire and would even wake me in the middle of the night to make love. The last ten years reminds me of the years prior to being married.
I like to think I've become a better lover. Sadly, due to menopause and fibroids my darling wife has lost all interest in intimacy.
In theory, after forty should be the best time of our sexual lives.
I like to think I've become a better lover. Sadly, due to menopause and fibroids my darling wife has lost all interest in intimacy.
In theory, after forty should be the best time of our sexual lives.
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Quote by kiera
Hello
First of all thank you for sharing with us and I am so very sorry for your loss.
I am going to have to agree with Rachel (Sprite) here, there is nothing you could have done because when you reach that point for whatever reason, all of us here have different reasons for reaching that point where you just can't take anymore and want it all to stop.
Rachel says she has a loving wife, I will go one further I didn't have that I was getting divorced after an abusive marriage, but I did have a beautiful 2 year old daughter who depended on me and who I did and still do love more than life itself and that stupid night not even thoughts of her could stop me from popping those 3 months worth of beta blockers I was given for the panic attacks and downing them with vodka... I felt such peace when I lost consciousness the likes I had not known in such a long time... but just to add although I am bitterly ashamed of myself for my actions over 10 years ago she was not with me that night I was alone, I always felt alone.
I didn't call for help, I didn't even leave a note so I was not attention seeking I wanted it to end... My ex said (not my abusive ex who i was divorcing) he just felt something was wrong and came back, found me on the floor, barely breathing and saw all the empty packets of pills... he called an ambulance but also forced his fingers down my throat and made me vomit, which bought me time until they could pump my stomach, but he most certainly saved my life and I am forever grateful for that because I felt no one could help me but I had to start seeing a therapist once I finally regained consciousness and it was the best thing that ever to me, though even now I still don't cope well.
My point here is if she got to that stage like I did no one is to blame, especially not you... sometimes you just get to that stage and it's all you want or need... some of us are lucky like I was and got saved and thank God for it but others don't get saved, but ultimately it is their choice and I am going to say it is a selfish choice because you just are not thinking about the people you are leaving behind... or at least I didn't.
Don't know if this helps or not, but I do know you are not to blame, not at all.
Thank you, Ladies. I've been told before I'm not to blame, I know that deep down inside. My problem has been and always will be that I think too much. The what if's what could have beens seem to float through my mind from time to time. I appreciate your thoughts and I make a point to listen when people talk to me about their problems. If I can't do anything about them I at least listen and try to suggest something to help them.
