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akwildman
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 75
United States
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Quote by MindsEyeQuote by swollen
Sadly this remains in fantasy world for me - I'm a clean living girl really
(can't find a smiley with it's fingers crossed!!)
I'm in
Swollen, looks like we are ready to fulfill your fantasy! Just let us know when to meet up with you!
we don't wear clothes on Thursdays in Wyoming!
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Quote by akwildmanGosh, I really can't say, it's been so long since I've had a sexy chat I can't remember!
Any of you sweet ladies want to help me find out? (HINT HINT
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scheeeesh.. over 3 weeks and still no one wants to help me out... Guess I should change my avatar to Rodney Dangerfield! LOL (and I didn't even ask for "pretty, young, sweet ladies either)
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Work, what is that? LOL Oh yeah, I remember now! That was that crappy place I had to go to too many times a week to get that miserably tiny amount of money that they gave me for working my behind off, dealing with grumpy sick people who were already pissed of with the rest of medical offices that they were upset that their prescriptions weren't ready when they parked their cars to walk into pick them up!
Now that I'm retarded... oops I mean retired, this is my job, to read all the stories that catch my eyes and tell the authors what I like and what wasn't quite up to par with their writting. Hmmm maybe that's why I seem to get ignored here in the forums... LOL
Anywho, do I masturbate at work? Yeppers! Guess that means that most of the writers here are pretty good at what they do!
Now that I'm retarded... oops I mean retired, this is my job, to read all the stories that catch my eyes and tell the authors what I like and what wasn't quite up to par with their writting. Hmmm maybe that's why I seem to get ignored here in the forums... LOL
Anywho, do I masturbate at work? Yeppers! Guess that means that most of the writers here are pretty good at what they do!
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
Because men have been taught from an early age that being dominant and controlling and forceful with a woman makes them an asshole or an abuser (or somewhere in between).
Society upholds the traditional assumptions about romance, with the "perfect lover" being gentle and a giver and putting a woman's needs before his own.
Sometimes, it might be hard to deconstruct those things when it comes to sexuality.
I can see how some men might be confused or uncomfortable when a woman asks to be dominated/controlled or humiliated/degraded when it comes to sex.
As one of the old farts around here, I have to completely agree with Doll! I was raised with those morals.
I'm in an online relationship now where my lady friend is looking to at least in her mind, explore being controlled. It has taken me some soul searching to come to an agreement with myself over being what she is looking for. I'm beginning to understand what she says she wants and coming to grips with how I can accomplish it.
When she role plays with her husband, she knows that no matter what he says, he could never hurt her. Me on the other hand she doesn't know, which is what excites her, though, in my own mind, I know I could never permanently hurt of injure some one I care for.
Who knows where this relationship will go, but it sure is one hell of a ride so far!