When my boyfriend and I are in a sexual activity of whatever nature, and I am at the point where an "orgasm wave" can break at any second, there are many things he could do that would push me over that edge.
Maybe his cock hits that just right spot, a sharp spank, a nipple pinch, perhaps a light clit squeeze or slap, ... etc, etc ... or he could even give a "command" of cum you dirty slut and these things could do it.
The point though, is that the activity has gotten to where the orgasm is imminent when these things are done.
In another thread, the idea that a woman could somehow be trained to cum upon command was brought up.
Do you think it is possible that you could cum simply if ordered to do so?
Is this just a control fantasy or do you think such a "training" could happen? If it could happen, how could it go about?
I also like watching and feeling a cock grow in my hands or mouth, but, there is something very hot too about one already hard.
I love it if my boyfriend has already been aroused and hard and still dressed (or at least still has his pants on) and I work my way down his body with kisses or tongue. Then feeling his cock hard against his pants while I undo his belt and button and zipper.
If he has been hard for awhile, it is like an explosion of that male scent of lust when I pull his pants down that gets me so wet and ready. Then when his cock is free, it makes those last few leaps and twitches as it comes the rest of the way fully erect, leaking some precum that I lick up before taking him in my mouth.
I find that as much or sometimes more of a turn on than feeling and seeing him get hard.
I see often, usually in bdsm-y genre writing, about orgasm denial. That can be quite intense at times, though very frustrating, of course.
Recently I have seen a couple stories mentioning women having forced orgasms but without really saying how and I could not easily find anything about it in an internet search.
To me, it seems to imply orgasm against her will.
I think I can unwillingly get aroused from many different kinds of stimulation physical and mental, but, to get to orgasm I have to very much be mentally into it.
While I may cum before I expected, to be at that point where the orgasm is imminent, there is no way I can honestly say that I am having an orgasm against my will.
Could any of you be forced to orgasm? If so, how is it done?