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baker992009
Over 90 days ago
Male, 73
Canada
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What is the average age of the people reading and posting stories on this Site?
The reason I ask is that I sometimes wish there was a site for more mature prople (age wise)
I find it hard to make friends with people. I am thinkin its cause I am much older than the average in here... or am I just too shy?
The reason I ask is that I sometimes wish there was a site for more mature prople (age wise)
I find it hard to make friends with people. I am thinkin its cause I am much older than the average in here... or am I just too shy?
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Wow.. You struck a nerve in me. I am afraid to admit that I am in a sexless marriage. When my wife and I first got together we had sex... day and night... was great. That was until she had our first child. After that things started going downhill. Intimacy went from twice daily to twice weekly. Then to weekly... then to once in 2 weeks. By now I am starting to beg for some lovin. By the tenth year... I was being turned down.. three out of four times. I remained faithful. I did everything I could humanly do to keep the passion.. The intimacy alive. I would help with the kids... putting them to bed.. do laundry.. dishes... bath the kids; clean house, babysit the kids so she could have nights out. I also made sure I showed affection towards her every chance I could... (several times a day) and for what?.. to be rejected
This went on and the intimacy dwindled to once in 2 months. We talked about it... faught about it.and it just got worse. Sex then became duty sex (not at all satisfying). Its been four and a half years now since we have had any intimacy at all. I have withdrawn all efforts to please her. We havn't so much as touched one another in any way. except to dance at my sons wedding last year.
Imagine sleeping beside this woman you can't put your arms around.. can't give her a kiss.. a love tap... a squeeze any kind of touch... what-so-ever without being pushed away. rejected.. thrown out like the trash. I stayed in this for my kids. I hate myself for doing this. Because I have suffered and am now agnry ,bitter, resentful. I could come up with lots more terms. You get the idea.
Just so that you know.. I also started begging her to seek help.. medical.. or councelling. All were denied. Both of us are in good health.. no weight issues; nothing to indicated being rejected like this. While the kids were growing up ; she never worked outside the home.
I recently joined an online group where we support one another through this. Their are a lot of us out there. BOTH MEN and WOMEN. One common trend that occurs is it never gets better... only gets worse.
To you JIMYZGRL. I would recomend you run the other way. Find someone more compatable.
Sorry to vent.. You just struck a nerve.
This went on and the intimacy dwindled to once in 2 months. We talked about it... faught about it.and it just got worse. Sex then became duty sex (not at all satisfying). Its been four and a half years now since we have had any intimacy at all. I have withdrawn all efforts to please her. We havn't so much as touched one another in any way. except to dance at my sons wedding last year.
Imagine sleeping beside this woman you can't put your arms around.. can't give her a kiss.. a love tap... a squeeze any kind of touch... what-so-ever without being pushed away. rejected.. thrown out like the trash. I stayed in this for my kids. I hate myself for doing this. Because I have suffered and am now agnry ,bitter, resentful. I could come up with lots more terms. You get the idea.
Just so that you know.. I also started begging her to seek help.. medical.. or councelling. All were denied. Both of us are in good health.. no weight issues; nothing to indicated being rejected like this. While the kids were growing up ; she never worked outside the home.
I recently joined an online group where we support one another through this. Their are a lot of us out there. BOTH MEN and WOMEN. One common trend that occurs is it never gets better... only gets worse.
To you JIMYZGRL. I would recomend you run the other way. Find someone more compatable.
Sorry to vent.. You just struck a nerve.
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You know that is an interesting question. I have been married over 30 years.. and loved giving oral... She also loved recieving it. I was a virgin when we met. I have never had a BJ because she told me she had a bad experience before we met. She wouldn't discuss it further. All the times I gave her oral... I could never convince her to return the favor. Now we are in a sexless marriage... and damm rights... I am out looking to find a relationship that would satisfy my sexual desires
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God... am I dumb... I don't even know how to initiate conversation in here... and have been here reading for months...lol
Going to check it out though...
Going to check it out though...
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You know you have the swine flue if you get the sudden urge to fuck in the mud.jmyio4JsvK8GL2Ur
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A recent study showed 40 Million americans are in a sexless marriage. Defined as having sex with their spouse less than 10 times a year. I have admitted in another forum that I am also in that group...for 4 years now...nothing.
For clarafication purposes...Its my wife who is the refuser....no medical reasons...
how many others of you are out there?
For clarafication purposes...Its my wife who is the refuser....no medical reasons...
how many others of you are out there?
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I have IE8 on my computer...and love it. The best part is when you open the second window...and have the option of IN PRIVATE browsing. If you have others using the same computer....their is no way for them to find out what sites you have visited.
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Funny that this topic would come up now. I just read a story on here posted 2 days ago...that I read on another site...over a year ago
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You want an answer from a mans point of view? Well ....lets get started......(wunders how much space aloud for a response)
On second thought...I refuse to answer on the grounds that it could get me permantley Banned from this site....
and I like this site...Dammit
On second thought...I refuse to answer on the grounds that it could get me permantley Banned from this site....
and I like this site...Dammit
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You all missed one more....Beaver.....lol...but also love the term...slit....like sticking my tounge in her slit....mmmmm
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I don't remember how long ago I joined this site....But I just noticed for the first time today...I had a mailbox here...lol..and six messages waiting for me..
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My daughter(a paramedic) recently took a guy to hospital...had a coke bottle us his butt... They had to drill a hole in the bottom of it..before they could pull it out
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maybe shes having an insestual relationship with her brother
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I think the mormonns had the right idea years ago...when they were allowed more than one wife. At least I would still be gettin some now...if I had more than one.GCqAa5voGKYnsHFz
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I allways enjoyed girl on top....made me last a lot longer before cumming
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As you arrive home you enter the house. You notice rose petals sprinkled on the floor. They lead you to the bathroom. You open the door; the room is dimly lit by candles...the hot tub filled with bubbles....and 2 wine glasses and a bottle of champane sit on the edge of the tub.
You enter the tub...and after a few moments I call out to you and let you know I will be joining you.....
I enter the room and slip into the tub behind you and begin to massage your back.....
You enter the tub...and after a few moments I call out to you and let you know I will be joining you.....
I enter the room and slip into the tub behind you and begin to massage your back.....
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How many people in here are in a sexless mariage? I have admitted that I am. It is not through any fault of my own and it is not because of medical issues on her part. She knows she has me by the balls...I have everything to loose if I divorce . And I'm too old to start over.
Sexless for 4 years now....and counting
Sexless for 4 years now....and counting
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Cybering is not cheating. All you are doing is masturbating; and all guys do that...(well 95% admit to it) I don't know about women. Women do have a much lower sex drive by all surveys I have seen. They force us to meet our needs through masturbation.
I had better duck now. I can already see the shoes headed towards my head.....LOL
I had better duck now. I can already see the shoes headed towards my head.....LOL
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I Have a good one. Its when a spouse for no apparent reason decides to cut off sexual relations entirely. I am in that boat after 33 years of mariage. No sex in the last 4 years. Ay 57 years old I am too old to start over. In retaliation and without her knowing I have changed my life insurance policies to make my children the benifactors.
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When I first started masturbating I didn't even know that is what I was doing. I was worried that white sticky stuff cumming out was an infection...but it sure felt good....lol
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I love watching porn Especially the home made stuff. If anyone ever looks at redtube.com they have lots of home made video....and its all FREE
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Don't know if many of you know what Vegetable Marrow is but have tried that and Zuccini both hollowed out and warmed somewhat. My favortite is still my cyberskin vagina and anus. It gets used on a very regular basis
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Outside the entrance of our city zoo late one evening. We were both buck naked and about fifty feet from our car. Cops caught us...They turned on their brights on us. Luckely they let us go with a warning...but it was a long walk to the car with nothing to hide our dignity. I did end up married to the woman...have been for 33 years now
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You may find this strange but I have a spanking fetish. It all started when I was still going through puberty (almost 45 years ago) My parents believed in corperal punishment and used it frequently. They would sent me to my room after punishment. I would allways get a hardon when I got spanked..or even strapped. I would go to my room and masturbate every time. I accually enjoyed those spankings. Just wish I had someone to share my fetish with now.