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seems painful..but then...so do certain sizes of the male body....
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blazestcyr
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 156
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i sometimes wonder...i think women are beautiful...and let's face it...they might have an inside track on that clit item..
nothig wrong with fantasies as long as they dont hurt you..or others
nothig wrong with fantasies as long as they dont hurt you..or others
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not a thing wrong with you
take all the advice given
if nothing happens at least u wont be "what if'ing"
if something does....well
that will be YOUR fantasy.....
take all the advice given
if nothing happens at least u wont be "what if'ing"
if something does....well
that will be YOUR fantasy.....
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married to man who didnt want sex
it is their problem..not yours
tried therapy...he had a hang up
but see if it is work...or if he is stressing about something or even weight gain causes men to stop it
but to me..the fact is this
why beat yourself up...if there are no kids involved or a marriage to dissolve
tell him unless the sex increases...you are done
and trust me..you will meet a guy who will want u 24/7 and be a good guy
you are sexy..and worthy of love...hugs
it is their problem..not yours
tried therapy...he had a hang up
but see if it is work...or if he is stressing about something or even weight gain causes men to stop it
but to me..the fact is this
why beat yourself up...if there are no kids involved or a marriage to dissolve
tell him unless the sex increases...you are done
and trust me..you will meet a guy who will want u 24/7 and be a good guy
you are sexy..and worthy of love...hugs
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never ever do unto others..that you would be PISSED to have done to you....
if someone wants u they let you know...
why do we chase people who dont want us....
ps stay away from Iain..he is a HUGE problem waiting to happen...
move on so many other people in this world WHO dont play games...
if someone wants u they let you know...
why do we chase people who dont want us....
ps stay away from Iain..he is a HUGE problem waiting to happen...
move on so many other people in this world WHO dont play games...
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it's not my fantasy but why the hell not...boobs and a penis..hmmmmmm
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me i think sometimes we are just in bad moods..and instead of saying DANGER ahead...we say nothing (dont u hate that....whatever too..drives the nails on the chalkboard for me!)
hmmm two maids a nice house and a fellow who amuses the kids at night and WHO doesnt make a mess
this has got to be a dream....
i would take away 1 maid for a day to teach her humility...lmao
actually no..as i dont believe that anyone's life is this perfect
so dig a bit deeper...we all are annoying at times
but havent u ever woken up in just a bad mood for no reason??
is she spoiled possibily....but alas the one who spoils is...the culprit...
me i am such a bitch after that i would make a HUGE mess in the lounge and let the maids go for a week if my hubby treated me like shit
but alas that is why i am a failure...in my life
hmmm two maids a nice house and a fellow who amuses the kids at night and WHO doesnt make a mess
this has got to be a dream....
i would take away 1 maid for a day to teach her humility...lmao
actually no..as i dont believe that anyone's life is this perfect
so dig a bit deeper...we all are annoying at times
but havent u ever woken up in just a bad mood for no reason??
is she spoiled possibily....but alas the one who spoils is...the culprit...
me i am such a bitch after that i would make a HUGE mess in the lounge and let the maids go for a week if my hubby treated me like shit
but alas that is why i am a failure...in my life
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devil i love what u wrote...i truly do
i think when we are dating it is all good behavior
but whatever sex u are having cut it by half...and that is marriage after a few years..so it if is NOT to your liking at dating..well
i mean if i have to pick up your damn underwear for 27 yearss for it is an HONOR to see your skid marks....
u will LOOK like your skid marks to me
i confess i am a shitty cleaner..absolutely....
but i truly believe... saying you know why i dont want to have sex with you...IT is because i just dont u LIKE u anymore..for u do xyz and it drives ME crazy..(though u did devil u really did...i applaud u for that!)
this struggle will continue
sad... as i have said in previous posts i believe that SEX is part of marriage and if you are worried enough about your money to have a prenuptial..why not a SEXNUPTIAL>>>>???
again LOVED love what u wrote devil..so honest...thank you!
i think when we are dating it is all good behavior
but whatever sex u are having cut it by half...and that is marriage after a few years..so it if is NOT to your liking at dating..well
i mean if i have to pick up your damn underwear for 27 yearss for it is an HONOR to see your skid marks....
u will LOOK like your skid marks to me
i confess i am a shitty cleaner..absolutely....
but i truly believe... saying you know why i dont want to have sex with you...IT is because i just dont u LIKE u anymore..for u do xyz and it drives ME crazy..(though u did devil u really did...i applaud u for that!)
this struggle will continue
sad... as i have said in previous posts i believe that SEX is part of marriage and if you are worried enough about your money to have a prenuptial..why not a SEXNUPTIAL>>>>???
again LOVED love what u wrote devil..so honest...thank you!
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have to admit because of my marriage and he was not a cuddler..am not
but if i guy loved it i would probably too
really good question!
but if i guy loved it i would probably too
really good question!
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absolutely not!
well unless u were like my husband who would point out hot ladies
but that is not cheating...just being an asshole!
be discreet and look then take your lovely lust out on your partner
well unless u were like my husband who would point out hot ladies
but that is not cheating...just being an asshole!
be discreet and look then take your lovely lust out on your partner
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i so agree ..they validate the reason for cheating
and yes when u have small kids and are run ragged i agree with that too..
thank you sweet penny!
and yes when u have small kids and are run ragged i agree with that too..
thank you sweet penny!
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how many times a day....i had sex for 12 hours and i could have gone for more....but everyday like that..i mean..who has the time??
maybe the problem is not your sexual appetite but YOUR demand for constant attention which is different
is sex your crack?
i am so not slamming you...as the other lovely lushies have said..is it an addiction?
but if you can work all day come home and cook and clean take care of kids and still fuck for hours
i am SURE sure u will have MILLIONS of guys after you
if u just go to school and have hours to kill....is this boredom or..addiction
i agree with the toy thing..plus u gotta love that the batteries are ..replaceable unlike...true...love
i hope u find a guy who can keep up with you..everyone should have a sexual partner that matches....them
good luck sweetie
maybe the problem is not your sexual appetite but YOUR demand for constant attention which is different
is sex your crack?
i am so not slamming you...as the other lovely lushies have said..is it an addiction?
but if you can work all day come home and cook and clean take care of kids and still fuck for hours
i am SURE sure u will have MILLIONS of guys after you
if u just go to school and have hours to kill....is this boredom or..addiction
i agree with the toy thing..plus u gotta love that the batteries are ..replaceable unlike...true...love
i hope u find a guy who can keep up with you..everyone should have a sexual partner that matches....them
good luck sweetie
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did this..i thought once we got married and live together..he would change
nope...
if your buddy wants a roomate he has to support go for it
me i think he has the hots for you....
and is looking for something..something..on the side
but alas in the last 5 weeks i am become very cynical...
tell him to talk to his fiancee..why we dont have sex prenuptials ..i will never know....
nope...
if your buddy wants a roomate he has to support go for it
me i think he has the hots for you....
and is looking for something..something..on the side
but alas in the last 5 weeks i am become very cynical...
tell him to talk to his fiancee..why we dont have sex prenuptials ..i will never know....
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you put and man and a women who basically communicate on different levels in a relationship..of course it is complicated
but to me..i think your co-worker is the problem....people usually project onto others..what they really feel inside
i would call that bullshit..but...he has gotten to that age...so i suspect...he will be this way forever
sad really..complicated is life...enjoy the ride ..get off when it becomes painful...and start it..again
but to me..i think your co-worker is the problem....people usually project onto others..what they really feel inside
i would call that bullshit..but...he has gotten to that age...so i suspect...he will be this way forever
sad really..complicated is life...enjoy the ride ..get off when it becomes painful...and start it..again
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i love to do it for a guy but it doesnt get me off..now phone sex..or ...watching..sigh......
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having been approached a lot both on facebook and here by married men...
there seems to be a common thread...
my wife does not want sex anymore...
I ususally ask them the same question...do you do chores..all say yes
do you take care of the kids...all say yes
do you cook..oh yes every meal
do you sit on the coach on sunday watching every game imaginable...while she needs to talk to you...oh no....
do they have everything they want all say yes....
but i have to ask..is this a lie..or is it women?
me i cannot believe everyone of u pick up all your clothes, cook every meal, carpool, watch only lifetime for women
put up with inlaws and keep yourself model ready....
BUT if that is true
are we ladies withholding WHAT they need in order to get what we WANT?
was married to a man who withheld sex for the house wasn't as perfect as he wanted it to be
so...do u use sex..as a weapon?
me i love it but i wonder...can men also compartmentalize emotional feelings vs...sexual....
not a slam on guys here...or women...just wondering if all the come's on i have gotten from married men..are true
there seems to be a common thread...
my wife does not want sex anymore...
I ususally ask them the same question...do you do chores..all say yes
do you take care of the kids...all say yes
do you cook..oh yes every meal
do you sit on the coach on sunday watching every game imaginable...while she needs to talk to you...oh no....
do they have everything they want all say yes....
but i have to ask..is this a lie..or is it women?
me i cannot believe everyone of u pick up all your clothes, cook every meal, carpool, watch only lifetime for women
put up with inlaws and keep yourself model ready....
BUT if that is true
are we ladies withholding WHAT they need in order to get what we WANT?
was married to a man who withheld sex for the house wasn't as perfect as he wanted it to be
so...do u use sex..as a weapon?
me i love it but i wonder...can men also compartmentalize emotional feelings vs...sexual....
not a slam on guys here...or women...just wondering if all the come's on i have gotten from married men..are true
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gosh tritest saying..ever...but he is just not that into you
please please...get away from him
any guy you have to beg to be faithful..is just a dog ok
he will always cheat...period
and you will drive yourself to extremes to see if he is
is this how YOU want to live your life
so many other faithful llving sexy guys out there
kick this guy out
go live a drama free cheat free life
you will be so AMAZED at how good life is once u get with a man who treats u with love and RESPECT
but first sweetie u have to love yourself
VALUE yourself...in order never to even be put in this position...again
hugs
please please...get away from him
any guy you have to beg to be faithful..is just a dog ok
he will always cheat...period
and you will drive yourself to extremes to see if he is
is this how YOU want to live your life
so many other faithful llving sexy guys out there
kick this guy out
go live a drama free cheat free life
you will be so AMAZED at how good life is once u get with a man who treats u with love and RESPECT
but first sweetie u have to love yourself
VALUE yourself...in order never to even be put in this position...again
hugs
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well are u ok with an open sexual marriage?
what are YOUR limits...i mean just with you only or can she do what she wants
me..if she sleeps with anything..all of the sudden
i would be worried about diseases and perhaps depression
lack of control in choosing partners..could lead to very difficult situations
i mean...even 100 percent bc fails...are u prepared to raise another's baby? if she can have them
but if YOU are ok with it..who are..WE..to say yes or no
it is UP to you and your wife
but i agree with veronika...always tell the truth....
so if she lied to u...she WILL lie..about other things...
what are YOUR limits...i mean just with you only or can she do what she wants
me..if she sleeps with anything..all of the sudden
i would be worried about diseases and perhaps depression
lack of control in choosing partners..could lead to very difficult situations
i mean...even 100 percent bc fails...are u prepared to raise another's baby? if she can have them
but if YOU are ok with it..who are..WE..to say yes or no
it is UP to you and your wife
but i agree with veronika...always tell the truth....
so if she lied to u...she WILL lie..about other things...
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if your partner would mind..then yes
to me it is..if i found out my lover or partner was sharing what i WANT
i would kick hom to the curb
but as i have said before...1 i am way too demanding in bed for a man ot EVEN think of another and 2...i dont share...
perhaps instead of looking for another..u start being the LOVER to..your partner...
texting her sexy words...overnight stays in hotels where u "meet" as strangers
toy play in the bedroom and bath....
i belive we all get lazy in love...and most DEF..in sex...
to me it is..if i found out my lover or partner was sharing what i WANT
i would kick hom to the curb
but as i have said before...1 i am way too demanding in bed for a man ot EVEN think of another and 2...i dont share...
perhaps instead of looking for another..u start being the LOVER to..your partner...
texting her sexy words...overnight stays in hotels where u "meet" as strangers
toy play in the bedroom and bath....
i belive we all get lazy in love...and most DEF..in sex...
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i think u just not have met that man that makes your whole body flush..with desire
that u spend all day just thinking about being intimate with them
or maybe u are turned on by the cerbral...instead of the physical
have these men tickled your brain as well??
What about life gets u excited and dizzy with emotion?
A man that shares that lust..might make u change your...mind....
unless of course you have had some trauma in your life...concerning a man..then..
that changes...the whole....picture
that u spend all day just thinking about being intimate with them
or maybe u are turned on by the cerbral...instead of the physical
have these men tickled your brain as well??
What about life gets u excited and dizzy with emotion?
A man that shares that lust..might make u change your...mind....
unless of course you have had some trauma in your life...concerning a man..then..
that changes...the whole....picture
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been really rude to people who have asked this question...and after gettting chastised for another post where i have been rude..i will play nice
how many ladies actually have orgasms from just penetration???
if you do i envy you!!
me...it is the clitoral stimulation though i do LOVE love love the feel of a penis in me
so size does not matter
getting a hard on..does
but please if u ask this question....be prepared for brutal responses
i would do the same to women who ask about breasts
they all are beautiful and the PERSON makes them..sexy
how many ladies actually have orgasms from just penetration???
if you do i envy you!!
me...it is the clitoral stimulation though i do LOVE love love the feel of a penis in me
so size does not matter
getting a hard on..does
but please if u ask this question....be prepared for brutal responses
i would do the same to women who ask about breasts
they all are beautiful and the PERSON makes them..sexy
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hmm interesting question
if this was his ultimate fantasy.. that it was his sexual dream...yes..though it is not my fantasy
though playing with his bum hole and penetrating with a sex toy... NOT a strap on would be a ..turn on
if this was his ultimate fantasy.. that it was his sexual dream...yes..though it is not my fantasy
though playing with his bum hole and penetrating with a sex toy... NOT a strap on would be a ..turn on
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no thank you
but you do get a thumbs up for asking instead of just posting!! so well done
i love the first comment about saving them for those who ask....
but you do get a thumbs up for asking instead of just posting!! so well done
i love the first comment about saving them for those who ask....
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i like big guys...but his sense of humor will get me in bed way before penis or waist...size
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only with a guy named hornybloke..have u SEEN him...
would not do it..it is mostly smoke and mirrors...here
but how lovely for those who have....
would not do it..it is mostly smoke and mirrors...here
but how lovely for those who have....
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please go to a doctor...if u think something is wrong down there..most times..u are correct
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wow u are a major dick!
i had gallbladder surgery not only was it extremely PAINFUL due to scar tissue
i have never heard of the gas factor
more likely she was trying to be the size zero YOU wanted her to be due to your MASSIVE insecurity issue..thus the bypass created
issues in her bowels...
did you honestly think we all we be like hey wow this poor guy...
i hope she makes your life as stinky..as YOU are
wow HUGE bad taste in my mouth..oh wait..that's you
HUGE kudos to all of you who stood up for this poor woman you are hero's unlike this zero here!
i had gallbladder surgery not only was it extremely PAINFUL due to scar tissue
i have never heard of the gas factor
more likely she was trying to be the size zero YOU wanted her to be due to your MASSIVE insecurity issue..thus the bypass created
issues in her bowels...
did you honestly think we all we be like hey wow this poor guy...
i hope she makes your life as stinky..as YOU are
wow HUGE bad taste in my mouth..oh wait..that's you
HUGE kudos to all of you who stood up for this poor woman you are hero's unlike this zero here!