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Quote by dpw
Which major religion doesn't promote heterosexuality.


Firstly, you didn't even make the minor qualification of "major" the first time. Not that it makes your statement much better.

In the religious organisation to which I have belonged for over seven years now, not one flying fuck is given about your sexuality. There are people in the organisation of all gender-sexual-orientation combinations you can imagine. I can say without a word of exaggeration that it is a complete non-issue.

All I'm saying is don't make sweeping generalisations about "religion", or even "major religions". It makes you look, at least in my eyes, ignorant, and I know you're not.
Quote by dpw
If we are brought up in a religion, that reinforces it.


WOAH, there! You gotta qualify broad statements like that. Not all religions denounce homosexuality or even reinforce heteronormativity.
I don't care too much for money; money can't buy me love.
Playstation and/or Playstation 2. I gave up after that. I'm all about Crash Bandicoot and Tekken.

I have a Wii, I think. There was this one game I used to love; it involved surfing.

Not much of a gamer. Like to watch people game sometimes.
Quote by Mazza


Want.

I'm so late to this thread that I may as well just wait until next year.

(Happy belated birthday, Poppet).
Quote by KatieElizabeth
I can't get Lush at work. Social media sites etc are all blocked out. I'd be too busy anyway.


Ditto. I think I'd get my ass hauled into someone's office if I even tried to access a site like this at work.
Quote by dpw
Would you do it again?


Never say never.
Quote by nicola
Add to that, sticking to the competition theme. Some stories had a few lines only about the toys for example, and read as if those lines were added as an afterthought.


Yeah, but I still got 3rd place. :P

Seriously, I'm totally chuffed with this. First story I've finished in a long time, and it's nice to know I can still do something right.

Well done, everyone. I look forward to competing with you again.

Now, what shall I buy...?
I have once. And I do not identify as either bisexual or gay.
Quote by Porgy87
Computer Guy


A big part of me really hopes that is your official job title.

I'm a teacher.
When you delete a post, it always takes you back to the first page of that thread. Is it possible to take you to the page your now deleted post was originally on?
Quote by dpw
You wear trewsers? I thought you'd be kilted out propperly!


Of course, in a kilt, the issue is moot. Even erections are largely imperceptible because of the heaviness of the material and the sporran.
Quote by Milik_Redman
As to why my co writers have been women, I'm not entirely sure. I can say that at no time have these collaborations involved anything other than writing the story. Almost 100% is done through email or google docs. I don't want anyone thinking otherwise. That would be grossly unfair to the ladies involved.


Haha. I honestly wasn't implying anything like that.

Quote by Milik_Redman
I would have no qualms about writing with a man. So far, the opportunity simply hasn't presented itself.


That's pretty much what I thought.

Thanks, Milik.
I think every aspect of a piece—content, style, execution, consistency, technical accuracy, how much it engages me, how much it touches me, etc., etc.—plays a (perhaps not always equal) part when deciding on a score.

If I didn't enjoy a story, for whatever reason, even if I could see that it was "technically" a good/well-written story, then my vote should reflect that. It would be hypocritical to give a high score but then say to a friend, "Not my cup of tea."

To be honest, I vote with my gut. When I reach the end of the story, it usually doesn't take me long to decided which score to give it because, in that moment, I know how I feel about the story, even if I'm not wholly aware of all the nitty-gritty of it.
I couldn't help but notice that all your collaborations have been with women, Milik. Do you think collaborating on a story with a man would bring a different dynamic to the process? Is there a reason you've never done it?

I've never written collaboratively, and I've never wanted to. I probably never will. It's not because I need to be in control, but because I can't believe that I would enjoy it. When I think about how I write, and how I enjoy writing, I just can't imagine how another person fits into that without pushing me to the point of not enjoying it.

Almost everything in my life I prefer to do alone (I can think of one notable exception), and working with others has caused me a not insignificant amount of suffering in the past. I usually end up distancing myself from the project, which isn't fair on the other person/people.
I'm a selfish writer.

I am much more interested in how much I enjoy writing it than how much other will enjoy reading it. Sometimes my writing is full of overly complex phrases and long sentences with multiple clauses that are hard to follow—call it an indulgence of mine.

That's not to say that I don't consider readability at all. Of course I want people to want to read my stories, but it's not as important as having written something that I took the greatest pleasure in writing, and sometimes that means sacrificing a degree of readability.

Reading my stories is hard work at times, and I apologise for that, but I'm not likely to change any time soon because I've never yet been disappointed by the reception those stories that I have truly enjoyed writing have received.
I'm aware of it sometimes. You don't need to be especially well-endowed to show a bit of bulge; it depends on your positioning.

Sometimes I feel a bit uncomfortable about it, and will try to shift so I'm comfortable but not on display. I guess what runs through my mind is that a lot of people will assume any such protrusion is an erection.

It has certainly been a consideration when buying trousers. As a teacher, tight-fitting trousers are rarely if ever a good choice.

It's unavoidable at times, and a lot of the time you won't even be aware of it (and nor will anyone else), but it has played on my mind more than once.

Good and interesting thread.
My anaconda don't want none unless you got buns, hun.
I just laughed, out loud, because I'm on Lush in "porn mode" at the moment.
My wallet's too small for my fifties, and my diamond shoes are too tight.
My wallet's too small for my fifties, and my diamond shoes are too tight.