I'm not big into ass play. I've done anal a couple of times. Didn't do that much for me and it was at her request. So I don't think ALL men want to "stick their cock in someone's ass."
The bigger question is, who doesn't like massages? Although I will admit it's not my strong suit. I will try if asked and definitely enjoy getting a massage from a partner.
I love chatting about sex with an equally horny person, but it’s way better when it’s with someone with whom there are credible possibilities of going from fantasy to reality.