Both. In the shower - no lube. Not in the shower - lots of lube.

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Do you think she was just innocently commenting about the view from her room or suggesting that you come take a look?
I think when we were making our way back to the hotel and even when she invited me in, she wasn't thinking "sex". But in short order she realized we were 2 adults alone in a hotel room and she needed something from me, as I needed something from her. It was a one time only event.
After my wife went through menopause, our marriage became sexless. I had to attend a statewide meeting for our university unit. One of the other participants, a woman about my age whom I'd known for years, also attended. A group of us went out for dinner, but she wanted to stay out and drink. While I didn't drink much, I agreed to stay with her. One thing led to another, and when we got back to the hotel (fortunately, we happened to be on the same floor), we wound up in her room. Talking led to kissing, that led to making out, that led to shedding clothes and fucking like bunnies (I was so horny I popped right away but back then recovery was quick). I spent the night; we fucked a couple more times, and then I snuck back to my room to change and get ready for a day of meetings. We never talked about it again.
For many of the reasons you stated, Hasabrain, that's why I never signed up for Facebook. I don't always agree politically with my real friends, but I know where they stand on things, and we're still friends. I've heard too many stories about old acquaintances meeting on FB and then finding out one or the other has views of life the other wants nothing to do with.
I've never done that. And thinking back to at least high school and college, I can't remember a single female (not into men) teacher I had any sexual interest in. I did work as an adjunct professor for a couple of years and got propositioned by students (female) who wanted their grades changed. A few were tempting but I just didn't want to go down that road.
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But I was instructed once by a FWB that what I should be doing is tickle her clit with the tip of my tongue while inserting two fingers inside of her and massage her G spot. I did what she asked and had her cumming within 30 seconds, so it became a technique I used ever since on dozens of other women, much to the same result.
Our techniques are very similar. I do lke to spend time licking and sucking on her pussy lips. That gets her going too.