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Quote by intellect
A very obvious example of having two lovers was the movie *savages* in my opinion. When i was analyzing that movie,(yes i often do that) i figured that the girl was not fully satisfied by only one male. She needed rough sex from one. and sensual sex from the other.
FOR me, i think if i ever fall for more then one guy, it would only mean that I am not satisfied either physically or emotionally. The result would be to break up with BOTH of them right away.. unless i figure out who i prefer to keep as a friend in case..
the reason i will break up with both, is because if i was satisfied by the first one, i wouldn't had been effected by the second. and if even after being with the second lover, i still seek love from the first one, then i am not satisfied emotionally via both. and it can result in depression and other problems
What about finding the physicality with one and the emotion with the other? You may never find both with the same person.
I think a lot of bisexual people find this dilemma. The emotion with the opposite sex and the physicality with the same sex.
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Quote by hisplaceofinterest
Any advice/input on pulling the reins in on some of this? Maybe I let it go too far but gheeeeez who wants to throw a wet blanket on a hot wife who has found her sexual stride in her 50s? Ask what questions you need for more information.
Here is the basic layout.
My wife was into anal big time before we married and introduced it to me (both ways). She is a “what’s good for the goose is good for the gander” sort of gal about everything and I do mean EVERYTHING. Cum is of course a large part of goose/gander thing as well. So not only did my wife surprise me with the whole anal attack thing but also the whole kissing after coming from oral. My wife has a good approach even though it has not accomplished her ultimate goal, it has gotten her much closer to it. I go with the flow up to a point. I love sex and I do love pleasing her and I love enjoy fulfilling her crazy desires. We have been Role Playing all sorts of off creative scenarios she comes up with: Prisoners who have to perform or work chain gang (she loves prison shower scenarios – it’s even hard to go with it), Queen/slaves who have to perform or get punished, All girl take down of two guys forcing them into compromising positions, Female Cops making guys do what they want, Face sitting for others to play with me, Show and Tale - putting me on display, and Of course 69 scenarios where guys take her over and over and over again. She has so many now I can't keep up with them all but most end up with me getting royally done and/or eating lots of creamy stuff. It has been going on for quite a while now. I have grown accustomed to all the anal, cum, masturbation, toy, & sex machine play and in addition to all our making love it seems all our free time is all sex time. I am in Nooooo means complaining. What is tough is where it has all headed, all the bisex RP, scenarios, stories, my wife gets off by a lot but the male bisex is by far the strongest. I am good to go up to a point with all the play but it is getting to where our sex talk is being dominated by it. She wants to meet with other couples who are bisexual to chat with sexually and get to know.
Thank you so very much!
L
This is a spin off of other posts you've made.
Well, as a gay guy, I could say just say try it, you might enjoy it. However, that's not my advice.
It may sound harsh but you have to grow bigger balls and stand up for yourself.
Tell her that you are neither interested nor comfortable with bi/gay activity. What are you to her, a sex toy or a husband? You have gone along with her, tell her it's time she goes along with you.
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Quote by Bran1812
I can't imagine why I would do that. Doing so is essentially making your wife or girlfriend an offering to others. I can only wonder by doing so who it would cheapen more, her or me.
Surely it's a question of the consent of both partners. Obviously you wouldn't even if your wife was fine with it.
Some people get a big kick out of being an exhibitionist, it doesn't make them cheap.
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Quote by thatindianguy
Well dear..nirvana is another topic..the plane needs brain working at lights speed let's not divert..now coming to virginity..just think objectively and subject the process of virginity to the lowest denominator what constitutes it..u will drive down to being new not first.most of times both terms coincide
Virginity is a physical state. Once it's gone you can't get it back. "A vigin" is a noun, you are describing the adjective.
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I'm a girls girl, so it doesn't apply but I kinda think its strange when men wax their chests, and yes i do wax so i'm not consistant
I'm a man's man, lol.
Keep the hair. There's nothing better than a hairy chest and hairy butt. It's okay to trim it but don't shave or wax.
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Quote by SydneySider
Say whaaa?? Its not a state of mind. Its not emotional or psychological. Once you have sex, and I mean, real sex (not masturbation as some people in other threads think sex is), you're done. Its over, its gone. It cant even be born again even if you dont have sex in the next 30 years.
As for the OP, I dont think it matters if you are a virgin or have been having daily sex for years. That part of them, that makes them caring and sensual is part of their personality. You have it, or you dont. Can a virgin having sex for the first time be more sensual than that other more experienced person? Yeah, of course. But I would steer clear of saying that they are more sexual or sensual in general because would that then disappear once they have sex for the first time? I think those you have heard that from are virgins too and have no idea what they are on about. Probably talking themselves up..
I don't think we're on the same cosmic plane as he is, possibly in a different universe, lol. He might have reached nirvana.
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Quote by biguy1971
just thought of having group of about 3 guys one in me while sucking on the other 2 and taking turns and cumming all over my ass
That's like fun. Getting together with a group of guys that you like is great, there's mutual attraction and respect. Any time you want to stop, it stops. Even change positions if guys are into it.
The thing about a gangbang is the control is completely given up. Anyone, and I mean ANYONE, gets a go at your ass. You have no say, sometimes the bottom is gagged!
I've been to a handful and the first time I fucked the guy. I think the excitement of the newness. The rest I just watched and one I stopped because the guy was visibly upset.
To be the bottom in a gangbang you have to be a total submissive or a cumdump
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Quote by intellect
you didn't replied (ke)
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Eva
Eva, now there's a name that rings a bell.
Anyway, I don't know what happened. I said that it doesn't make sense. All girls start out as virgins. They don't become less caring after they fuck. Well not if it's done right.
Saying a virgin is more caring is the same as saying black guys have bigger dicks. Some do and some don't.
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Quote by ChuckEPoo
i tried it. If you do, don't think it comes baggage free. There are a ton of emotions involved other than just sex. Jealousy, inadequacy, loyality, trust, and your bond as a couple come into play. Think it through first. Your all in on that hand.
Chuck, you missed out confusion, guilt, boredom and probably more.
My first, I went and had a coffee. A mixture of confusion and a sort of frustration, hard to describe. Then I got bored and went downstairs.
Second time was a bit better but give me one on one or an orgy any time.
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Quote by overmykneenow
Actually, if I was to suggest anywhere in London for a tourist to go to see a football game it would be Fulham. About a mile or so away from Chelsea but a much nicer stadium, a much better atmosphere and situated right on the Thames. A slightly different option would to get themselves down to the Stoop to watch 'Quins
The Cottage is nice and thy do have a good atmosphere but the team...!
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Quote by MovingOn14
Having spent my entire youth living amongst cornfields and cattle, as an adult I have an infatuation with large cities and urban life. Have I ever chosen to live within urban walls? No. But I love to work, to visit, to feel the pulse and meet the people of the world's largest cities. London has it all, not just one main attraction. The people, Harrods, the afore mentioned history, the theatre, the pubs, the box car cabs, football, and the meandering streets. I have enjoyed many conversations with the people there that in one breath will tell you all is wrong with the big city, the monarchy and Parliament, and in the next breath share their innate pride for the city. Sure it has all issues faced by a large urban city, but go take in the atmosphere of a Chelsea football game and have a couple of pints at a local pub. All is good.
Chelsea??? You want to try further north if you want atmosphere.
