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Quote by PersonalAssistant


I have never dated (or married) a man who cooked for me.

That would be a novel concept! If he was a good cook, I'd gladly be the sous-chef.

Never? That is sad, every guy should be able to rustle up a nice steak and salad at least. My go to menu:
Moules Mariniere
Beef Strogonof with wild rice
Raspberry Pavlova
All made from scratch.
Quote by WellMadeMale
The media is going to go bonkers with this at least for the first year that this dude goes through the NFL draft, then actually suits up and plays the game for a team.

http://espn.go.com/nfl/story/_/id/10429002/michael-sam-announced-gay-reaction-say-more-us-him

He already came out to his college team mates this previous autumn, and it didn't rile anyone up on that squad of nearly 120 players, coaches or assistants.

The negativism has started already through 'anonymous' quotes from around the NFL - found on various websites.

His biggest problem is going to be the distraction of the media circus that will want to follow him, he can't let it affect his performance on the field or in training. There are going to be people willing him to fail so they can say a gay guy can't make it in such a macho sport.
I particularly hope that the gay media show him the respect that he deserves.
Quote by hungdoug
My cock is 11" which can be great with the right girl. But for a lot of girls I have to be really careful, which can take the fun away

Doesn't it limit your options? Are a lot of girls put off by your size?
Quote by WellMadeMale

Reading the comments on the above website (and others) - is this a big deal - in your opinion. People are comparing this to Jackie Robinson breaking the color barrier in Major League Baseball.

Firstly, yes it is a big deal because he's the first to come out before his career has even begun. Most gay sports stars come out at the end, or towards the end, of the playing career. I think it takes a lot of guts to do this in a team sport especially. There is no doubt that he will face homophobia and I hope he gets enough support to deal with it.
It'll be interesting to see how his teammates react to having an open gay guy in the locker room. I'm sure that some of them will think he'll be checking everyone out!
However I don't think it compares to Jackie Robinson, that was a much bigger moment. There have been gay players in all sports for years, they just hid it, you can't hide the colour of your skin.
Quote by Willy6941


I'm not quite sure if you wonder about the feeling of being sucked or about sucking a cock.

As with any experience, it can be described as wonderful, stimulating, etc., which would tell you absolutely nothing about it. I have been sucked, and I have sucked cock, and let me tell you - it doesn NOT suck (in the modern usage of the term). I enjoy being sucked by someone who really knows well how to suck a cock. More than that, though, I enjoy sucking cocks. I like the texture of the flesh, spongy at the head, thin and movable on the shaft. I like the way it spreads my jaws open as it enters my lips, the way it slides between my tongue and the roof of my mouth, how it deposits its lubricating pre-cum on my tongue, in my throat, as it fucks in and out of me. I am transported to a different plane of existance while I'm blowing, and I'm always a little reluctant to let that cock cum. Of course, when it does cum, I'm happy to receive it and swallow it.

With that said, that's just me. You might find the experience a little different.

How long can you keep going?
I can take a really long time to cum if I'm enjoying it.
Quote by Italian_Stallion17
I mean who hasn't wondered but it is something i will never know how it feels. The thought of what it must feel like can turn me on.

If the thought of it turns you on why would you never try it?
Quote by ShyVixen

so recently my girlfriends told me he's lying, that all men know how big they are!

So I'm not naive but wouldn't one know if it was either 7.5 or 8.0

I'd never measured my cock until last month when I was asked. That was the first thme anyone had asked me!
As far as the difference in size goes megagap is right, when I'm hyper excited it pushes past what comfortable and it aches because it's overstretching.
Quote by pricklypear

why imperative?


all the nerve endings are at the head of the penis.

Exactly! The head gets stimulated by the throat, not the shaft.
Quote by megagap
I like to make sure that I am clean before sex. Someone that is obsessed with cleaning themselves right after sex is a serious turn off.

I completely agree, it would seem to me as though they didn't want it to have happened.
Nipping to the toilet is fine but I usually too tired to do anything else and I like sweaty bodies.
Quote by daddysweetheart

Was told by a very hot & icy Master I know. He never did teach me yet. A shame really.

There's no such technique or I'd know about it.
You can only learn to improve your skill and learn new variations. The only thing that I think is imperative is that you can deep throat a cock.
Quote by realz
definitely possible, I have to be careful to slow down, but I think it depends on the individuals involved.

You have to slow down? Is that to make it last the full 3 minutes?
Quote by Meggsy

I know what you mean re lady Jane and Obelisc.
Any where in the surf is magic. There are a few good spots but you need a 4 WD to get there usually. I have used isolated parts of some Sydney surf beaches but the surf patrol usually turns up to warn of unsafe water- not nudity.
Try Cobblers at Balmoral . fewer gays, mostly straights and families.
Unfortunately they closed Reef Beach at Manly due to gay activity. I have nothing against well behaved gays but some can't see to keep it under control.

That's the problem when it's not just the surf that's up!
I'm surprised that gay guys aren't more discrete, I've never known them to engage in sexual activity near to families.
Quote by 1nympholes


I understand what you are saying and why you say it.

But there are time I just can not wait another minute, how about you dpw

Well yes, when my passion soufflee rises I have let the sauce bubble over so to speak.rM8QKXejpvpZJYtW
Quote by She










You can google and research all you want but get back on the thread! There's another thread about homosexuality being a choice!!! POST THERE!!!!
Quote by seeker4
Time. The more time you can spend enjoying each other and being intimate both physically and emotionally, the better it gets. I'm not a fan of quickies, but rather love having time for making out, massages, lots of foreplay.

Hooking up with someone that's on your wavelength. Someone not afraid to go for what they want and is prepared to push their boundaries and try new things. Hot massages, blindfold forplay, a bit of exhibitionism that sort of thing. Polar Bears help as well.
One thing I know I'd do is have a period.
Quote by HandsomeScientist
I'm reviving this because I want to make another request, I still am none the wiser re: my original but here goes.

Is there a "porn name" for what I as a biologist might guess is called inter-gluteal sex?? I.e. laying one's cock between the woman's bum cheeks and fucking, much like a tit fuck... but with bum cheeks, extra points for cumming in the curve of her lower back :P

I remember this thread!!! I spent ages trying to find a porn Jane Austen and failed! Now you want me to find a buttock fuck!
Any suggestions for finding porn with a hot buff scientist?
Quote by marquis87
When I was younger once or twice a day was not unusual. Now it is probably only every 4 or 5 days. It really depends whether I have read a good Lush story or maybe watched a sexy film clip to get me hard.

Is that becuse you're in a relationship? I think that would be normal if you are having sex on a regular basis.
Quote by hungdoug
I am happy where ever I come in the order. The important thing is having great sex. To be honest when I have slept with girls after my mates, I like that they can make the comparison.

Doug, you'd have to go last with that! You'd ruin it for anyone that followed you.
Quote by HotBttmInBriefs
I get frustrated with some of my friends at times --- well the ones who know I am bisexual. I think they don't fully understand and I appreciate that they try. But they get this idea that if you are willing to be with a guy then you will just be with any guy who is bisexual.

We'll be out and they'll say you ought to get with so and so, we hear he is bisexual too. But the guy will do nothing for me at all.

I am sure it is probably the same way for bisexual women too.

Just wondering what kinds of things turn you on when looking for either a same sex partner or even the opposite sex partner. Do you prefer that they be bi too? Or can they be totally gay or str8?

Personally for me I do like them gay or str8. I do appreciate the bisexual partner just because they can understand where I am coming from better.

As far as what I like and don't like. I guess I am not the average bisexual man -- at least according to the ones I have met mostly in real life and on the Internet.

I like all types and have dated and had sex with many who don't fit my normal turn-on, but typically I like more feminine women and more masculine men. Just typically when I want a woman I want a woman and vice versa. I don't mind them being dominant or submissive in that role.

For instance I get more turned on my a woman in a hot pair of women's panties or a thong than I would in a pair of men's boxers. And the same for a man in a woman's panties. I would get more of a rise seeing him in his briefs or boxers.

I have found many others on the extreme to be very beautiful and even sexy. And even found the ones I have been with to be great lovers, but they are not generally what turns me on.

I also have one big turn-on in both men and women. That is being open minded and willing to experience new things. Not just in the bedroom but in life in general. New foods, new experiences, etc. I just find that hot when a person is willing to experience new things with me. At least willing to give something new a try.

Oh and edited to add -- individuality is a big turn on too. Someone who doesn't have to be cookie cutter like the rest. That is hot to me.

And I have to say I do love hair and I guess that is part of being an individual too. I don't want wild and bushy, but someone who keeps themselves well groomed esp. in their genital area. Esp. men these days who buck the norm and don some hair on their chest. That man really sticks out to me. I really love a wonderful landing strip on a female...neat and tidy. Or the same on a guy esp. if it has a nice happy trail that starts at his belly button and goes down.

So what about you?

I'm like a hungry trout, always rising to the bait! I know that I upset people but I get so frustrated!
As far as the thread goes the same thing happens with gays, maybe even moreso. People automatically think that because you're gay you'll find every other gay guy attractive. As you know it doesn't work like that!
For me they've got to be masculine and hairy chests with the treasure trail is a bonus. The jackpot is a slightly hairy butt, there's nothing like peeling a pair of tight whites off and finding a peach like ass. That's heaven for me!
Quote by CliffordAClavin

What turns me on is the sex, duh! What I don't like is anything that could shatter the illusion to the world that I'm a straight married guy with a professional career and good standing in my community. I also don't like kissing dudes. At all. Not even a little bit. Do I think some of that could be internalized homophobia? Yep, sure could be, but it's a pretty strong sense of distaste for the act, whereas I love reaching down a pair of briefs and grabbing a hard cock, pulling it out and dropping to my knees to suck it... which definitely seems more gay than kissing.RyMuEpLCmEXvz2xP

As for panties vs. boxers, I've never had a partner dress the roll, but it would definitely turn me on. I've fantasized about dressing up and playing the chick role, too, but it's never happened. I like taking a strap-on, but while I've done the whole role playing thing before, now I just want my wife to fuck me and she feels no compunction to degrade me in the process. It's just what we do when she's on her rag week and I'm horny.

I'd also consider myself a Kinsey 1.5-2. I've only met one 3 in my life and after a 20 year marriage, he's now dating a gay man (Kinsey 6, but very straight appearing). That will never be me. I love women and I've always had a closer connection to them. While I have great male friends, the intimacy just isn't there like it is with a woman. Thus, the one other factor comes in. A bi guy is always going to have his head turn when a pretty girl walks by and that alone is pretty cool. I like being able to talk to my partners about what I enjoy with my wife, what they enjoy with their wives, and not have that be a touchy issue.


HBIB this is why I hate these threads, they just drag me in and I upset people!
I won't comment but you're right in one part of your post, I'll leave it at that.
Well I could lie and say I like to cuddle up and fall asleep! That's not me!
If I'm still horny I'm off to find the next one.
Quote by phunguy
depends

On what? Don't leave us in suspense.
Quote by perverse_cowboy
I haven't sucked a cock since I was a teenager, but I want to again. I think I would be much better at it now.

Well if you need someone to practice on and you may want to ride it cowboy!
Quote by sirrobertstories
In a site such as Lush, most of the users will vote the stories according to the way their nether regions feel after reading them. Literary quality or style, among others, are necessary to build a good story to a certain extent, but I don't think they are among the most important criteria for the majority of the voters.

I think that I tend to agree with you. Even though I try to make the "boner" aspect of a story only part of my score. It seems to happen a lot in the Gay Male category where an author mentions a 10" cock and the readers vote 5. Well a 10" cock does not, a good story, make, and throwing in 2 or 3 of them doesn't make it better!
Quote by nicola
Your sense of humour shows potential, but none of these ideas do.

Gosh? Mee-Ow!
Quote by SexyTnMama
Having done one-on-ones with both sexes, MFM, FMF, FFF, gangbangs and more, I love a nice enjoyable evening doing a FMF with a mixed race couple where the M is black.

You're funny, you know, not all black guys are well hung and there are white guys with monster cocks.S9LedtauKJGg1mMI
Quote by Throbbing4u


I've had really wild sex where the woman is riding me really hard and slams down on my dick the wrong way... kind of like jamming your thumb. That's a painful erection... but it doesn't usually stay erect very long afterward. haha.

I think I've had what you're talking about though. At that point it's basically a medical necessity to make you cum and keep your dick from exploding. At least that's what I told the woman who made me feel that way ;)

There's nothing worse than a bruised erection!
I think that the discomfort comes when you're brain wants more blood to go into your cock than will fit.
Quote by TraceyAmes
@DPW,

It might not be family entertainment, but it is certainly entertainment. Whether standing thigh deep in water or lying facing the white wash can be done very discretely and nobody else needs to know about your pleasure.

You infer that if there were straight guys trying to attract girls then it would be fine but because they're gay it isn't!