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frogman1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 156
United States
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For many guys use the word “LOVE”, to get in a woman’s pants it’s sad but true. This four letter word encompasses so much power, emotions to one’s heart and hopes and dreams. It took me a few years to say that word to my girl and she knew how I felt beforehand when she told me way before I told her “I love you”. Yes as a fellow man I want to say am remorseful that so many of us use the word “LOVE” for sex with ladies. So when I tell her "I Love you" i mean it and dont expect sex for it but will take a beatuiful smile from her and sparkle in her eyes!!!
need i say more 
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Thank you lady’s for the woman’s point of view I am willing and shall give her more time as I said she worth the time, effort and fight to make her happy. She is a wonderful lady mother, confidant and my best friend all rolled in one, I will take your advice and take small step. Thank You very much 
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I think the turn to me is seeing her after she has squirted after oral she is a woman on a mission lol but the second and third times she squirts that just push us both over the top !!!! I just love the look on her face of all stress is gone and she is relaxed from the pleasure…. Yup that’s it for me lol 
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The Only time she has asked to tone it down is when we are around her family, she tells me she loves the attention, but then tells me she doesn’t see what I see when she looks into the mirror, I have seen pictures of when she has been all dressed up when she was married and they are WOW!! But all he ever told her was “you look ok”, and with that she doesn’t see how I can think she is beautiful and sexy. She tells me she wants me to be spontaneous and even that she likes to be daring out in public, but then when I try to be after giving her little kiss here and there and holding & caressing and she is smiling saying it feels nice. Once she told me she always wanted to do something in a dressing room and one day we were out shopping and I went to try on some pants which I didn’t like the fit and she told me to take them off and she get another pair. When she came back she told me to let her in and she had a devilish smile on her and kissed me hard and stroked me and when went to unbutton her shorts she stop and said no … that she knew what I wanted and that family’s that try on clothes in there …. That’s what am talking about then later she tells she sorry and maybe next time.
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Thank you for your words of wisdom but I will say this that I am not doing it for just the action, I have never come to love any woman like I have with her. Where I use to look at other women and say oh yea she’s hot, I find myself looking at what type of shoes or nail polish and think oh that would look better on my lady lol. She was in a marriage that was not much romance, and she finds it hard as to why I do the things I do for her. She has told me that her co-workers are always asking if I have a brother for them lol not sure if that a good thing or a bad thing. We do talk about it and then she feels that am attacking her, which am not but ask her just to explain or tell me what I can do better or what am missing? I don’t want to give up on us, she is worth the fight. I hope that makes sense coming from a guy lol 
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Spontaneous flirting, romance, love, sex or fucking whichever you want to call it, woman say they want this from their man and not have it planned. But when one does it or tries to its either am not in the mood, not feeling it or I just want to relax, or really your aroused, But when a woman is reversing the situation and we say not right now, it’s well you may never know when I be in the mood again, or better get it while you can. I would like to just know what is the proper time, response or feelings on this lol. A man trying very hard to understand her needs and wants some help please …. 
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The result is surprisignly to me. Au Natrel 
You're the type of person who happily plays around and creates a unique little world.
Little do you know that your personal paradise is so appealing that it sucks people in.
You find joy in everything - so is it any surprise that people find joy in you?
You bring back the inner child in everyone you meet with your sincere and spontaneous ways.
Your childlike (but not childish) behavior also inspires others to care for you.
As a result, those who you befriend and date tend to be incredibly loyal to
You're the type of person who happily plays around and creates a unique little world.
Little do you know that your personal paradise is so appealing that it sucks people in.
You find joy in everything - so is it any surprise that people find joy in you?
You bring back the inner child in everyone you meet with your sincere and spontaneous ways.
Your childlike (but not childish) behavior also inspires others to care for you.
As a result, those who you befriend and date tend to be incredibly loyal to
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I believe when it comes to men seen you as describe, those that find you hot, sexy, sensual and lustful after to you are being true to themselves and who they are and are confident to try to speak to you. For those who say skank, whore, slut and whatever else they may come up with are Utley non-confident or know they will never have a chance with you and or are with their girlfriends, fiancée or wife will say this if caught looking, secretly whish their counterpart would dress for them like that…. So if you good about yourself and feel it I say go for it!!!
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For me I don’t mind hair if that’s what makes her feel good about her appearance and sexual appeal as how she sees it. I love to trim her hair and we talk about what to do sometimes she wants it all gone and other times she likes some. Like I said if it makes her happy, am happy a happy guy!!
oh my barefoot !!! I love to see her cooking barefooted I think its sexy as hell :d/
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If you say you have talked about it, what has she said was the hold up about it…? Could it be she may be apprehensive about how her it may look to you or how she perceives how it looks to her?? Have you ever told her how beautiful hers is and how you can’t wait to taste her sweetness??? 
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oh we have talked about this and many other things along this line, she just sometimes doesn't understand how someone can want her like i do and want to plesure her first. She was in a very one way relationship before I came along. She enjoys the long oral pleasure that i give her and that she can cum just from that and gush like she does LOl wish I love!!!