For 99.9% of people that I know face-to-face I absolutely keep Lush a secret from them. There's a select few that know I visit adult forums and chat rooms (Lush isn't the only site that I visit) and that I write the ocassional piece of erotica but for the overwhelming majority I fully intend to never let them in on my online escape. There's a certain freedom and release that comes with expressing secret desires behind the safety of an avatar with other friendly strangers.
I describe it as an erotic literature site with an adult forum which to some is sufficient for it to be a porn site. I personally wouldn't call it a porn site but it is a site that contains porn. For example, Tumblr contains quite a bit of porn but I wouldn't call that a porn site.
For me, it needs to offer nothing beyond porn for it to be called such a site (e.g. Porn Hub) and even then I would make a distinction from text-based erotica and the visual media of it.
I tend to grow my hair out and actually like it that way but I often need to cut or trim it every few years (if not every few months) to look presentable for work and family gatherings. Right now it's well past my shirt collar in the back, just past my jawline to the front sides and I constantly hear how I should cut it. I'm definitely jealous that women get to grow their hair ridiculously long and do all kinds of things with it that are impossible to do without some serious length, like undercut designs.
It depends on the context. I use 'girl' the way one might use 'gal' so really I say girl as the female form of guy. Asking me the difference between a girl and a woman is like asking the difference between a guy and a man: it depends on the situation.
I have a few books on massage that I got on my kindle. I'm no expert but I have given a few full-bodied massages before and it's good to practice. There's just a sort of badass feeling that comes from making a person become so relaxed, it's rewarding.
Generally it depends on who is control. If I'm in control then it feels better to have her not use her hands as it distracts from the moment. If she is in control then I absolutely want her to use her hands in any and every way that she sees fit.
"When a guy cums, does he feel a noticable 'clicking' sensation coming from his lower back and spine?"
No, the answer is no. But an excuse to masturbate in the interest of 'science' is pretty much always something I can get behind.
Being rejected with one's romantic advances will absolutely affect the friendship negatively but not permanently. I think hoping to see things return back to normal in a few days is rather wishful but given time on the scale of weeks or months I imagine that any damage done will become repaired, assuming both people are mature enough to allow it to happen. Though, In the unlikely yet possible event that the friendship is permanently damaged it is a much better result than the fallout that would come from not being honest and either stringing the person along or forcing a romantic relationship to develop and having it crash and burn. Sometimes the happiest ending is just the one that is the least bad.
I couldn't accurately rate myself. You'd have to ask her.
She moans and cums each time so that's what I'm really concerned about.
I just got a blow job. I'm so content that I'd have a hard time turning anything down, let alone a deep, passionate kiss.
There's a number of reasons for women to spend long lengths of time chaste but I can't think of any that I wouldn't fully respect and understand. It takes a brave gal to try and put herself out there again so it would be a disservice to not appreciate that. A lady that's getting back into the swing of things could present to her partner a great opportunity for some excellent experiences in the bedroom not to mention the intense intimacy that will come when she finally does the deed. Sure it will be a series of challenges as no one jumps right back in to sex without nervousness and unfamiliarity so making certain that she is comfortable is one of the highest priorities. I think that any guy who is worth his salt wouldn't mind too much assuming that he's already attracted to her physically, mentally, and emotionally.
Granted, this isn't to say that the relationship wouldn't potentially dissolve later on due to incompatibility but that shouldn't stop either of them from giving it a shot and neither should her abstinence.
Yes, I've used my girl's panties for solo-fun before. The appeal is a combination of the softness of the material and knowing that the are used to hug the curves of her ass and to cup her pussy on a regular basis. It's not my go-to method but when the opportunity is there with a dirty pair it adds to the fun. I always hide them in the hamper after to ensure that they go right in to the next wash and as far as I can tell she's either never noticed or has but doesn't mind.
The longest time I've spent enjoying a little solo fun would probably span the length of an entire afternoon. It's pretty rare that I have the urge and the free time to indulge in such a marathon activity though.
-When I'm feeling confident and happy, usually after a great day at work.
-Being playfully whistled at.
-Having my clothes complimented.
-When a sincere smile is returned.
-Being flirted with.
Of course it depends on the company.
Rec sports teams are a great way to meet people. Becoming a regular at a bar or a coffee house is also an excellent option.
Most people I meet these days are either through work or are the coworkers of existing friends.
Describe what you do in a gif or two. This could be your profession, your title, your defining hobby, or perhaps what you are studying or training to do full time.
Bonus points if it's funny. Extra if you don't have to explain it.
When cooking I'm never fully satisfied with the recipe as it is or the meal with how it is turning out and I'm always adding stuff right up until the last minute, be it chives, a can of tomatoes, chipotle powder, or a dash of sriracha. Sometimes it works out for the better, sometimes it ruins the dish, but usually it has little to no effect on it as whole. For some unexplainable reason though the tinkering is a habit I can't seem to break.
My most common moves are to add garlic salt to anything boiling, even water, and a sliver of butter to ground beef as I brown it. I'm not sure that it does much but it makes for some pretty great cooking smells.
Seattle Seahawks
and any team who's defense I have on my fantasy roster
1. Cum in a women's pussy - many times
2. Cum in a women's ass - once
3. Cum in a women's mouth - few times, been a while
4. Cum in a man's mouth - no
5. Cum in a man's ass - no
6. Have a man cum in your mouth - no
7. Have a man cum in your ass - no
Lemons and chicken.
Limes and pork.
Cherries and cola.
Pineapples and cheesy bread (pizza).
Sometimes fruit goes well with things. It doesn't need to make sense. And this coming from someone that turns up his nose at maple bacon donuts (a combination that I find gross but everyone else seems to swear by).
If the conversation is highly sexual or involves the sharing of erotic pictures then there is a great chance that I am hard but it's very unlikely that I'm stroking unless the chatting goes on for a long while. Normal conversations about life and interests though (my personal favorite kind to have, oddly enough for a site like this) will pretty much never see me get hard unless there is something else going on, like I'm chatting in one window but browsing adult pages on Tumblr in another.
At the same time however, any guy will tell you that dicks just get hard sometimes for little to no discernible reason. Could I be chatting with a woman on this site and find myself getting hard? Absolutely. Am I getting hard because I am chatting with her? Doubtful.
Once I played truth or dare and had to strip completely naked. I sat on the couch with my hands in my lap, trying to cover myself up but trying to do so without making it look like I was trying to cover myself up. The moment was such an adrenaline rush that I was hard to say the least. Unfortunately that's about as juicy as the story gets as the game ended when someone pulled out a camera and there was a mad dash for clothes.
Another time I went for a walk in the woods behind my parents house. I had heard a story from a girl that she used to go for walks at night topless so I figured that I would give it a try. To be honest, I was too nervous to make it very far down the trail but it was fun nevertheless.
Sex in a stranger's hot tub (girl was house sitting and watching the dogs of her dad's coworker, she invited me over) was also a good one.
I like the idea of strip clubs but I haven't ever been to one. However, there have been two instances were I nearly went with some friends.
The first time was after a day of river rafting as our shuttle route happened to travel past one near our take-out point. Unfortunately I lost my wallet during the trip and was without ID to get in or money with which to pay the dancers. It worked out though as there was a girl in our group that wasn't into the idea and jumped at the opportunity to take me home instead.
The second time was about five years later with the same group of friends plus several more. We were all excited to go but them someone pointed out that the club in question didn't have a liquor license. It was pretty much instantly decided that we would rather stay where we were and drink instead of making the 45 minute drive.
I guess technically there was a third time last year on a business trip with a group of coworkers, all from various offices around the country. I didn't realize where they were going until they were already on their way back but I guess it was for the best as they said it was pretty boring beyond one funny story of seeing some drunk dude get thrown out.
It depends on the situation and there are many factors, particularly when it comes to how much stuff we are talking and how far of a move it will be, but I would say that it takes me, on average, two weeks to box up and remove all of my stuff. I've done it in as quickly as just a few days and most recently it took me an entire month (although that was A LOT of stuff and I was super busy for most of the time).
Over the last eleven years I've lived in four states and three timezones across a good dozen-plus moves (most of them in college), always doing it myself. That being said, I'm terrible and not organized about it at all so a more efficient person could easily beat my two week average, assuming that they had the free time to just focus on boxing things up and transporting them.
No. I would have a difficult time letting my private online life combine with my public/social life. Part of the enjoyment I get from Lush is the ability to talk candidly about private things without fear of ridicule. I wouldn't want my family or professional colleagues to know some of the things I've said on here for a number of reasons, bashfullness being a big one.
Personal favorites:
Orange County
Swingers
Airheads
Capitol Records
Harold and Kumar Go to White Castle
The Wedding Singer
Superbad
Space Jam
Tron: Legacy
Pirates of the Caribbean: Curse of the Black Peal
Insecurity, wishful thinking, embarrassment, and a desire for praise all seem like common reasons to me. I try to be honest about it whenever asked and even had an ex girlfriend grab a ruler for measurements with which to report back to her friends. You can say that you've got a foot long but unless you do you are only setting the girl up for disappointment, even if you are still packing compared to the average.
In college I once knew a guy that was roommates with my coworker. He was very small and all of his guy friends knew about it. At parties it would come up and they would poke fun of him in front of the girls. Funny thing is that pretty much every girl would think "wow, he must be HUGE and is just humble about it" and end up putting the moves on him. Later on, after some serious foreplay, they would see that he was telling the truth and most would figure "well, he didn't lie" and end up sleeping with him still. Dude actually got laid more than your average guy just for being up front, even with tiny equipment.
