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hopp3r
1 month ago
Straight Male, 37
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I use a combination of everything. She is on birth control and I use a condom unless she is in a part of her cycle where the pregnancy risk is lowest. I also pull out half the time, partly to have that tiny little bit less risk and partly because it’s hot to cum on her or to have her watch me cum.
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Dry guy here.
I’ve tried lubes and lotions and it certainly helps the experience but it becomes more stuff for me to clean up after. When I’m done, I like to relax for a moment and then go do something else, not immediately start cleaning and washing myself off (and possibly anything else that managed to get lube or lotion on it).
In the shower though, I’ll take all of the slick suds I can get.
I’ve tried lubes and lotions and it certainly helps the experience but it becomes more stuff for me to clean up after. When I’m done, I like to relax for a moment and then go do something else, not immediately start cleaning and washing myself off (and possibly anything else that managed to get lube or lotion on it).
In the shower though, I’ll take all of the slick suds I can get.
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1. Everyone gets to wake up feeling refreshed and eager to start their day regardless of how early it is or the stresses they may be facing.
2. Time stops except for me. I get to catch up on all the films, books and other media that have been filling my backlog. The flow of time resumes and I can explore and seek out new stories and ideas without feeling like I’m just adding to the pile.
3. They have the ability to feel confident and sexy, even when they are having a bad day.
2. Time stops except for me. I get to catch up on all the films, books and other media that have been filling my backlog. The flow of time resumes and I can explore and seek out new stories and ideas without feeling like I’m just adding to the pile.
3. They have the ability to feel confident and sexy, even when they are having a bad day.
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On Lush, my decision of what to read is greatly influenced by category, tags, description, and title. I tend to skip over anything in a series unless it’s the first entry or I’m in the mood to go all the way back and read up to that installment. The higher the rating, views, and number of comments helps pique my interest although there is also something adventurous about trying to seek out a hidden gem. As far as any specific category or genre, yeah I have my favorites but I also enjoy being surprised by something outside of my usual norm.
Outside of Lush, it depends on what is on my shelf. I like to buy hardcovers with interesting titles, those from favorite authors, or any I have heard mentioned through word-of-mouth so I have several stacks that could use some love. I used to let my kindle recommend new books to me but then it broke and I haven’t bothered to replace it.
Outside of Lush, it depends on what is on my shelf. I like to buy hardcovers with interesting titles, those from favorite authors, or any I have heard mentioned through word-of-mouth so I have several stacks that could use some love. I used to let my kindle recommend new books to me but then it broke and I haven’t bothered to replace it.
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- Respond to any BB pokes (poke back)
- Respond to any BB messages, assuming I have anything to say
- Check timeline for wall posts and forum responses
- Check friend activity to see if there is anything new going on
- Check messages, responding later
- Take a look at the new stories. Add a few to reading queue. Read none of them.
- Spend some time in the forums, reading more posts than actually posting
...and from there it depends on my mood, who is online, and how much time I have on my hands
- Respond to any BB messages, assuming I have anything to say
- Check timeline for wall posts and forum responses
- Check friend activity to see if there is anything new going on
- Check messages, responding later
- Take a look at the new stories. Add a few to reading queue. Read none of them.
- Spend some time in the forums, reading more posts than actually posting
...and from there it depends on my mood, who is online, and how much time I have on my hands
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I’ve used dating apps (and to an extension, dating sites) as forms of mild entertainment in the past but they’re not my thing anymore. There is a certain kind of amusement one gets from flirting with strangers so the appeal is not lost on me for those that regularly use them. Through a dating app I did manage to meet and date someone for a year before she became my ex so there’s at least that.
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I’ve lied about my number being bigger than it actually is and, prior to losing my virginity, lied more than once about being experienced. Of course, this was early on and now I’m more honest about the number of partners I have been with. It’s really no business of most people so I may still lie to try and shock them but if I’m being asked by someone I know, I’ll give the honest truth.
I don’t mind the number of any partner or potential partner. If we are the same, there is a comfort to that. If they are less than me, there’s a special feeling of getting to be one of the few(er). If they are more than me, it’s exciting to hear their stories and show me their skills. Either way, it’s all a win-win.
I don’t mind the number of any partner or potential partner. If we are the same, there is a comfort to that. If they are less than me, there’s a special feeling of getting to be one of the few(er). If they are more than me, it’s exciting to hear their stories and show me their skills. Either way, it’s all a win-win.
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I have the books on my shelf still so I may do them justice some day but it’s been years since I started:
Lord of the Rings - I read six pages and have no memory of what I just read. I tune out but my eyes keep moving.
Ulysses - I get hung up on the allusions and the stream of consciousness is difficult to follow.
The Big Sleep - A novel about a detective that pretty much requires that the reader become a detective in order to deduce what’s even going on. Cue the Charlie-Kelly-conspiracy-reaction gif.
...and then probably two-thirds of the books I was ever assigned to read in school.
Ender’s Game was on this list for over a decade but then I finally managed to finish around five years ago. People have suggested that I read the others in the series but I can’t bring myself to do it as the one already took me long enough.
Lord of the Rings - I read six pages and have no memory of what I just read. I tune out but my eyes keep moving.
Ulysses - I get hung up on the allusions and the stream of consciousness is difficult to follow.
The Big Sleep - A novel about a detective that pretty much requires that the reader become a detective in order to deduce what’s even going on. Cue the Charlie-Kelly-conspiracy-reaction gif.
...and then probably two-thirds of the books I was ever assigned to read in school.
Ender’s Game was on this list for over a decade but then I finally managed to finish around five years ago. People have suggested that I read the others in the series but I can’t bring myself to do it as the one already took me long enough.
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Like most people have commented, the answer is no. I’m either wearing what I already had on or somewhere between that and full-nude. There have been times, however, when I have dressed up although it is an extremely rare occurance. It’s always been to help me imagine myself in a particular fantasy, such as putting on a shirt and tie and then slowly unbuttoning it, or to make myself more comfortable, like wool socks and sweat pants. I did once buy a tuxedo thong on a whim and did have some solo-fun when I tried it on later but that was really just a once-off.
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I came to Lush for the stories. Initially I only read and didn’t bother to create a profile until later. Eventually I got the idea for a story and wanted to post it so it became necessary to join into the fold. There are a few other adult online-communities that I used to frequent but they either didn’t have an active forum or the stories and chatrooms were sub par. Lush has all three sides going for it so it’s the only one I still visit.
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It’s not the size that matters, it’s how she uses it!
Haha, but seriously, no it doesn’t matter. There’s many facets to what makes breasts attractive and size is a minimal aspect. I’ve even seen some flat-chested gals who had perky nipples, supple skin, and soft features that still combined to something well north of sexy.
Haha, but seriously, no it doesn’t matter. There’s many facets to what makes breasts attractive and size is a minimal aspect. I’ve even seen some flat-chested gals who had perky nipples, supple skin, and soft features that still combined to something well north of sexy.
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If you flex your muscles and hold for 60 seconds, it’s supposed to help make those unwanted erections go away. I haven’t tried it out but I’ve had multiple sources tell me that it works.
I hope it’s true because it would help make leaving those boring meetings a bit easier when the incessant droning has caused me to pass the time with illicit daydreaming.
I hope it’s true because it would help make leaving those boring meetings a bit easier when the incessant droning has caused me to pass the time with illicit daydreaming.
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I enjoy a beer with roughly the same frequency with which I enjoy an orgasm. However, only a portion (albeit a big portion) of those are the result of sex. Still, if pressed I would give up alcohol despite it having a more regular appearance in my life. I daydream about sex at least once a day if not once an hour but my booze fantasies are only weekly at their most prevelant and practically never at their least.
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As an adult, the most fun, non-sexual activity that I’ve performed naked would probably be cooking breakfast while jamming out to music.
When I was much, much younger I once climbed a pretty tall tree in the nude when no one was around but that was mostly out of an adolescent “I’m not going to follow society’s big dumb rules” sense of rebellion and not much more than that. Basically I just wanted to break rules and that’s the best thing I came up with that afternoon.
When I was much, much younger I once climbed a pretty tall tree in the nude when no one was around but that was mostly out of an adolescent “I’m not going to follow society’s big dumb rules” sense of rebellion and not much more than that. Basically I just wanted to break rules and that’s the best thing I came up with that afternoon.
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I’m on the younger end of the scale but in a few decades if the right opportunity came along, then absolutely. It would be fun to see what that would be like.
Right now though I’d be curious to see what a much older lady is like compared to myself as I’ve stuck primarily to women close to my own age. However, this once again would depend on just the right circumstances.
Right now though I’d be curious to see what a much older lady is like compared to myself as I’ve stuck primarily to women close to my own age. However, this once again would depend on just the right circumstances.