Loose and flowing. Especially here in windy New Mexico.
I think it is pretty hot. However, I always seem to have a short case of post-coital depression. Immediately after I cum, I lose all sexual desire for a short time. I just want to lie there and recover. So, on occasion, I have told my sex partner ahead of time to take the lead and facesit me after I have cum in her or kiss me after I have shot in her mouth. Just do it, don't wait, don't ask. I love it.