To go back to the original question, and to give a view from the UK:
-it's not cheating if both of us have properly discussed, considered, and agreed to an open marriage (as I have)
-for some people (not all, but like me), sex and love can be separate things - which also means that sex can happen WITH love
-if I'm having sex with someone outside of MY marriage, it's none of my business about the state of THEIR marriage
Monogamy must be a wonderful thing if somehow you can make it work. Personally I think it's fundamentally contrary to human nature and "just" a social (religious?) construct to attempt to control us (but has some benefits in stopping in-breeding, spread of STDs etc). If (and only if) both husband and wife have agreed to it, then I see nothing wrong with it at all (safe sex, of course).
Just adding my penny-worth from the Brit side of the Pond.
Jx
Hi
So there are times when it's nice to chat outside of Lush and for many of us, Messenger has done the job nicely. But the new "upgrade" that they have forced on us in the past week is just utterly awful.
Does anyone have recommendations for a different chat program?
Thanks
Jx
Definitely clit, but sometimes it's nice to be full of something too....x
Women "shouldn't" do anything at all during sex - it's their choice. Having said that, I do like wearing heels to bed.......
Jx
Yes! One of the best tastes in the world.
Today's were a blue cotton thong. Now in the washing basket.
Jx
Of course. What self-respecting girl would be without them - and other toys?
Jx
Bristol uk
Does that make me 002???
Jx
Sounds fine to me. As others have said, it's what you do with it and the attitude in your head that really matters.
Jx
1 Poor
2 Disappointing
3 Inconsiderate
4 Inexperienced
If it's 4 then that can be worked on. For the rest, move on.
Jx
Pale pink cotton thong.
Jx
If a tree falls............then I guess it proves that the theory of gravity is right.
=d>
An auto-queuing function for when a chat room is too full........it's a pain just constantly trying to get in, hoping that someone has just dropped out.
Jx
They were red, but they're not on now!
Of course, what's the issue here? She's not your possession. Don't you trust her?
Just my thoughts....
Jx