No, I wouldn't. The guy I lost my virginity to turned out to be married with three young kids, something I found out from his wife when she called me.
The emotional scarring was a downer and honestly, the sex wasn't great.
I like 2-3 in my pussy and one in my ass. Never at the same time though. It's too much sensation for me, sends my brain into meltdown and then I can't come.
Hubby and I have been working on fisting because I'm a complete masochist and the way it hurts to be stretched like that is quite fun.
I say go for it. But you need to meet her before you ask her out!
My now husband and I lived 120 miles apart when we started dating and I used to see him once a week and in any holidays I got from uni too because we both made the effort to travel. He proposed after ten months and when I finished my studies I moved in with him and three weeks later we got married. Over a year on and we are both happier than ever.
My brother is dating a woman who lives 1100 miles away. They are in different countries, different time zones even. But they see each other every six weeks or so for about 4-7 days. They have been together for over a year (they actually met online the weekend of my wedding). She is going to move to England to finish her studies hopefully so that they can be together.
What I'm saying is that long distance can definitely work, but it can't work indefinitely. I strongly believe that if you guys get serious one of you will need to relocate. You can't have a marriage that works if you live hours away from one another... So, would you be will to leave home for this person? To leave your home, friends, family, job...? Cos that's what it will take.
I am not ashamed to admit that I really, really love sucking cock. It turns me on more than someone going down on me does!
Yeah. The most I've fucked in a day is 4 as part of a gang bang type affair. And separately two- my ex and then a friend that evening after I broke up with said ex.
I'm told I'm very talented at sucking cock and the release when I finally stop teasing and let them cum has reduced more than one man to tears.
If I'm wearing a short dress then I wear panties. That is the only occasion I bother, I don't even wear them to work.
I'm a little. And a bratty one at that. Luckily for me I have a tolerant Daddy.
I've been a member of FetLife for over two years now and I love it. I've been to a couple of different munches and met some lovely people, I've also had my fair share of being contacted by unsavoury characters on there but the site has 3.2 million members. Probability says that some of them will be odd balls, but you're also likely to find people you get on with, especially if you go to munches.
I think it's a great site if you use it right, for what it's intended for.
Okay, so, top 5 confessions...
1. I have 'severe' anxiety and 'moderately severe' depression to the extent that my doctor has told me it's a disability due to the impact on my day to day life.
2. I was born into naturism and bloody love it.
3. My family and friends think I met my husband on Plenty Of Fish but it was actually on FetLife.
4. I'm a nurse and I'm terrified of making a mistake at work and killing someone.
5. My mum died 12 years ago (when I was 12) and I sometimes still wonder if it was my fault.
Hands! Lovely, gorgeous, sexy, strong, dominating, controlling hands that caress, spank, tease, torture, choke... Watching my husband drive is enough to make me wild. His hands are just there, on display, for me to perv over and by the time we get I am invariable horny.
Hubby has fallen asleep with his hand on my boob! It's okay- we were spooning with the intention of sleeping. Poor lamb had a three hour one on one job interview today, a bit of comforting breast seems to have settled him off nicely! Just wait until I wake him up tomorrow ;)
My top favourites are reluctance and BDSM- more specifically Daddy and little stories, although a reluctant little being forced into something by her Daddy Dom is the obvious winner!
I love watching him masturbate. It turns me on so much. I think my favourite has to be me laid on the bed, him stood over me- very masculine and dominant- stroking himself, talking dirty to me, telling me to rub my clit and to cum for him. And after I do as I'm told I get my good girl reward of his shooting his load over my face and tits. Who could say no to that?!
I haven't trawled through all the replies as I really should be sleeping but I just wanted to chip in... Has it ever occurred to you that maybe your friend's wives are just sick and tired of disappointing sex? A lot of guys seem to think that doing the same thing every time is good- but after twenty years of marriage you might wanna think again. Or maybe he's always been a shit shag but she puts up with it because she loves him but that means she doesn't want to have him every night? Or maybe they like different things in bed? There are a million and one reasons, those are just my opinions because the only times I've not been keen on getting some is when my other half is crap in the sack.
I sometimes masturbate after sex... My boyfriend is incredible in the sack and there are times when he has made me cum a dozen times in a session and then I want to play with myself afterwards. For me, it's not because I'm not satisfied or anything else, it's just because when I make myself cum the sensations are different to when he makes me cum. Sometimes I crave the sensations I give myself, especially if he has got me really turned on. Also, while I'm using one hand on my clit and one for the dildo, he can use his hands on my breasts and kiss me as well- this is not a situation where anyone has to lose out. I like to involve him- after all, he got me to the stage where I NEED to make myself cum so that I can get to sleep and sometimes he gets so turned on watching me masturbate and helping me cum that we end up having sex again which is always welcome.
Maybe your wife is worried that you will take offence? You know, if she thinks you're gonna be all 'Oh you're just masturbating because I'm not good enough, I bet I don't even make you cum and you're just faking it' then she isn't going to tell you or ask you to help her. Talk to her about it, tell her that you know she does it, that sometimes you're not sleeping and that it turns you on and you want to help her... Alternatively, wait until she does it again and then just join in, roll over, pay attention to her, tell her how sexy she looks, and join in!
My relationship is the opposite way round, I am 23 and my boyfriend is 37. A 14 year age gap would be too much for some people but it works for us and that's what matters.
Do you feel like it's a problem? Does the way that people look at you when you're together bother you? Are you apprehensive/ embarrassed/ reluctant to introduce him to your friends and family?
I don't think you can say 'x amount of years age difference would be too much'- everyone is different, you've just gotta go by what's right for you. If you're enjoying the relationship then have fun and screw what everyone else thinks.
I was anti fisting because I just didn't see the appeal until a couple of months ago when I read a story on here which showed it in a whole new light... I wanted to try, I told me daddy and we're working on it. We just need to be able to make it past the chunky thumb knuckle and we'll be there!
Yeah, I would. The select few who I have spoken to for a long time and are genuinely lovely people who I confide in, trust explicitly and cherish would certainly be people who I would want to meet up with.
I much prefer it to being woken up by some damned alarm! Equally, I like to wake the man I may be with up that way as well. It's a great start to the day.
Women reach their sexual prime in their forties so they're horny and they have had enough experience to know what they want...
so bad!
Can't wait for the morning!
