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lafayettemister
Over 90 days ago
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0 miles · New Orleans
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Buy her and put her ass to work... literally put her ass to work....
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I have a question. AJ Green is my starting WR1. WR2 was Amendola, but he's out for a few weeks. This week, should I start Marlon Brown or Rueben Randle?
Brown's teammate will be covered by Joe Haden, great cover corner and Jacoby Jones is out so Brown will start and get the easier defender.
Randle, although #3 on NYG will be on the field alot in the shootout with Denver. Denver gave up 100 yds to Marlon Brown last week when he was in the slot.
Help!
Brown's teammate will be covered by Joe Haden, great cover corner and Jacoby Jones is out so Brown will start and get the easier defender.
Randle, although #3 on NYG will be on the field alot in the shootout with Denver. Denver gave up 100 yds to Marlon Brown last week when he was in the slot.
Help!
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I'm not really sure if this is real or not, but if it is, that is some funny fucking shit!!
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Quote by Coco
You mean like when I bend over to hike the ball in my lingerie league gear, 'O football guru?
Yep. We need to work on your hiking, I think I'll have to work from right under center. No shotgun for me!
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Quote by Coco
Yeah, it's something that I didn't understand. I'm good now thanks for your help, 'O football guru.
While saying "O football guru", be sure to bend at the waist so I can look down your shirt.
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I have no idea what the sign is trying to tell people?
Seems like a good rule of thumb while at work?
Seems like a good rule of thumb while at work?
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Quote by Coco
Thought I'd drop in and congratulate the leader. I obviously don't get the way this works yet because I picked some winners but didn't get the points. Oh well, I guess I'll have to learn before making my next picks. Congratulations LM!
I'm looking at your picks and don't see any mistakes, what pick didn't you get the point for?
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I have an HTC DNA and I love it. Best phone I've ever had. Super fast quad core processor is the way to go. From what I've read, the HTC One is a good phone too and a bit newer than the DNA. So far, I've been very impressed with HTC.
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I don't see any lube anywhere, guess I'll have to use my tongue.
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Quote by MadMartigan
Opinion noted. However, at the same time, nothing is worse than the holier than thou types from the older, "wiser", and more "experienced."
Age does not beget wisdom. Nor does it grant the right to marginalize the younger. Just like we aren't aware of your experiences, you are not aware of OUR experiences or the experiences of our friends and families and what we've had to deal with in that regard.
Sorry you feel like others are calling you "scum." But the question was experience with affairs. Most, if not all, answered that and then dug further into our belief regarding the subject. And no, I have and can never have much sympathy for those who knowingly enter affairs with kids involved or carry one out for years.
We all make mistakes. In the heat of the moment, who's to say what any of us would do. At the same time, continuing to go to that place is just...reeks of zero compassion for the wife or husband an individual is hurting each time the affair deepens.
I think what PA meant (not that she needs me to speak for her) is that age brings a little perspective on things/life. I'm sure PA herself, and my own self, would have thought the same way when we were younger. But age brings a different viewpoint. No one should marginalize the younger or older, our experiences are what they are. I don't htink she was marginalizing.
Age does beget wisdom, in most cases. Wisdom and intelligence aren't exactly the same thing. A 40 year old should have more wisdom than a 20 year old. To say that a 20 year old has gleaned as much wisdom out of life as a 40 year old is disingenuous. To say that person learned as much about life in years 0-20 as another person learned in years 0-40? Nah, I don't buy it. Has the 40 year old been in a coma for 20 years? This doesn't mean the 20 year old's point of view is invalid, but age does factor in. Would you say that a typical 12 year old has the same wisdom as a 22 year old? Probably not.
Wisdom and intelligence are a little different. My grandmother got married and pregnant in her early to mid teens. Only had a grade school education, she probably wasn't as "intelligent" as most of her grand/great grandkids who graduated high school and college. But she was still the wisest person I knew. There are always exceptions to the rule, but generally speaking... older people, with the advantage of time and perspective, are often times more wise than their much younger counterparts. Which isn't a judgement on the younger crowd's intelligence.
There's and adage that a person should learn something new everyday. A 60 yr old has had 7300 more daily life lessons than a 40 year old who has 7300 more than a 20 year old. There's truth to that saying.
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Quote by Kristind
You said, In the end, the only judgment of character that really matters, is my own judgment of myself.
You also said, You're right, cheating is bad. Been there done that and I'm not proud of it.
To finish it off, I know what I did was wrong, but I also know that if I had to do it all over again, I'd make the same choices.
I'm assuming you didn't caught at it...so why not do it all over again? Or you did get caught and were forgiven...with that kind of outcome why not do it all over again? Or you were caught and weren't forgiven...so why not do it all over again. Like carteblanche said...it comes down to character, or lack of it. Our brains are not wired to remember pain and I guess they're not wired to remember our lack of character, either.
I am NOT advocating laws to deal with cheaters but I'm going to say if there were and there was a penalty to accompany cheating on the contract you signed up for, there would probably be less cheating. In fact the entire approach to cheating would be looked at differently because this could land one in a situation they would actually have to pay for. Just like laws for murder, tax fraud, speeding, dui, jaywalking....etc.
You said, I know what I did was wrong, but I also know that if I had to do it all over again, I'd make the same choices.
Nope. No laws judging our character, even your own, even when you know it's wrong.
Like I said before, it's not always so black and white. Having one personal flaw or weakness doesn't totally invalidate a person's character. All people have skeletons in their closet. Most people have a vice or something they wish they didn't do. Could be cheating, could be too much alcohol... the the person can still be a good person capable of love, care, compassion, empathy, understanding, etc... They aren't necessarily lacking character, at least not totally. Part of the character is questionable, sure. But that doesn't mean the lack character completely.
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That sure is a mouthful of 'in your face and I don't give a damn'.
Feelings/hormones/happenstance!
Happenstance?
Cheating is a product of happenstance? And then you follow it up with the great qualifier that it's easy to judge. Yeah go ahead and throw your stones. Murder is bad. Tax fraud is bad. Cheating is bad.
The big difference is murder gets a prison sentence. Tax fraud is judged in many ways and all of them with some kind of penalty. Cheating is not judged this way in a court of law. What court of law? There is no court of law except for the divorce court as lives are turned on their ear and ruined.
The superior attitude is easy to flaunt simply because there is no court except for the public court.
But what it boils down to is if you don't pay your car bill - you end up losing your car. If you you run a red light - either you get a ticket or wipe your brow that you got away with that one. You abuse your kids - society gets involved to protect them and deal with you one way or another.
Cheating? Go ahead and throw your stones you judgmental assholes! Thats just a result of feelings or hormones or happenstance.
No Lady X...cheating is an aspect of character. Or lack of it. Plain and simple.
I know. I was always faithful in my relationships until I cheated on the one woman that I never wanted to lose. My audacious attitude, and yes, it was audacious, that I could get some instant gratification and I could get away with the transgression brought on the most hurtful events of my life as I lost that woman and hurt my kids, not birthed by that woman but the kids loved her just the same.
What it boiled down to was nothing more and nothing less than a lack of character in the moment. A failure to control my feelings - in the moment. Those posting on here and taking the side of "Yeah, I've cheated but don't judge me" or "go ahead and throw your stones" or "yeah, she needed dick so don't be a fucktard and I won't have to dick her" are the ones who simply don't care about their responsibility for their own personal egregious decisions...
...because, it's all happenstance and hormones, right?
No.
The choices we make...in the moment...are the deciding factors of what kind of character we have or...lack.
You're right, cheating is bad. Been there done that and I'm not proud of it. Most people don't cheat just for the sake of cheating. It's not like a cheater wakes up one morning and decides, "I'm gonna fuck around on my spouse today." Usually that decision comes after months or years of not getting fulfilled at home. Be it emotionally, sexually, or both. It is a choice, but sometimes the choices we make aren't so black and white.
You are free to judge me, I do it everyday. I know what I did was wrong, but I also know that if I had to do it all over again, I'd make the same choices. Many marriages are held together for financial reason, or children, or any number of other things. Marriages of convenience are common. Has my character taken a hit? Yes, in my own eyes it has. But my entire character is still in pretty good shape. We all make bad choices and then justify them in some way.
The problem with judgement is that it reflects just as badly on the judger as the judgee. Anyone that judges my character should have a spotless record of his/her own. If that person has not claimed all his income, cheated on an exam, driven a car when he's had one drink too many, etc... then he should keep his/her judgments to himself. It's ok to say to someone close to you, "dude, I know you're cheating on your wife. I think you should stop doing that until you're separated or divorced, it's unfair to Susie." Cautioning someone against falling down the rabbit hole is fine, but once judgments your ability to be heard is lost. Unless your plan all along is to just do damage.
In the end, the only judgment of character that really matters, is my own judgment of myself. Some very close friends can have input, they can be disappointed in my behavior, they can call me out. But ultimately, if they're judgmental about it they probably weren't as good a friend as I'd originally thought.
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By the time I'm done, she'll be begging for the orgasms to stop!
(btw, I dont' have a hairy back and I manscape the rest. But if the pay off is you, Ginger, Kinks, and Bailey (who i don't know), then i'm game to try)
(btw, I dont' have a hairy back and I manscape the rest. But if the pay off is you, Ginger, Kinks, and Bailey (who i don't know), then i'm game to try)
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"Wow, LM. I'm going to have to ice my pussy after that pounding you gave me." - Ginger