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mare24
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
United States
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Quote by Hollywood3
As a divorced woman, sex was not the thing I missed the most, it was the intimacy. The touches and caresses as you pass one another, the hands threaded in the hair while getting that lil end of the day neck massage, holding hands while watching a movie, cooking dinner together, laying in bed, legs intertwined, while just talking about your day. In my relationship now, I have all those things and more. Don't get me wrong, at all please, sex is great, however I prefer a well rounded man capable of satisfying me physically as well as emotionally.
Have to strongly agree. While I certainly enjoy sex tremendously, and feel that it is an important part of my relationship (at least 80%), without the intimacy the sex is no good. Oh don't get me wrong, I have enjoyed a quick romp as well, but if we are discussing relationships I feel intimacy is an enormous factor.
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I've only had a couple of guys pull out and when questioned it was simple "I don't want get you pregnant". It took my current boyfriend a few weeks to quit doing this despite the fact I had my tubes tied AND a hysterectomy. NO way I'm getting prego, but I think it's just habit. I'm glad he quit because I absolutely LOVE to feel my guy explode inside of me.
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Haha I agree that there is never such a thing as too wet, or at least I hope not because I tend to drench my boyfriend. Only thing he was complaining about this morning was that he was going to have to wash the sheets (laughingly said). Hope your man hasn't made you feel too bad because it's certainly better than too dry.
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These Are Some Things That Turn Me Off
-Arrogance/Condescending
-Bad Hygiene/Breath
-Constantly Checking His Phone/Texting
-Thinks My Eyes Are On My Chest
-Too Serious, No Sense Of Humor
-Talks About His Religious And/Or Political Beliefs and is judgmental of yours
-Really Dumb (I Am Not Looking For Einstein, But Must Be Able To Hold An Intelligent Conversation)
-Arrogance ( I Know I Already Said This, But It Is Very Big For Me)
-Boring
-Smoker
-Constantly checking out other girls/guys
-Crude/Rude
-Arrogance/Condescending
-Bad Hygiene/Breath
-Constantly Checking His Phone/Texting
-Thinks My Eyes Are On My Chest
-Too Serious, No Sense Of Humor
-Talks About His Religious And/Or Political Beliefs and is judgmental of yours
-Really Dumb (I Am Not Looking For Einstein, But Must Be Able To Hold An Intelligent Conversation)
-Arrogance ( I Know I Already Said This, But It Is Very Big For Me)
-Boring
-Smoker
-Constantly checking out other girls/guys
-Crude/Rude
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Wow well I certainly had forgotten that part of the movie *wiping brow*. Oh I love to tease but I do agree it has to be carefully done because you never know who or what you invite these days. But I love to go out in public with my man and wear some sort of thin top without a bra and watch him keep his eyes glued to my nipples or wear a short skirt and let it creep up. Definitely spices things up later on ;)
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I have a tribal tat on my left great toe and matching on my left ankle, a lotus flower on my left hip, a Japanese kanji on the back of my neck meaning "beautiful" and a baby devil in diapers at my right groin. Just waiting for the next opportunity to have a geisha tattooed over the baby devil.
And OMG how did I forget Jason Stathem?!
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I personally love giving my man a blowjob. It's a feeling of absolute power that I can pleasure him to the degree that he explodes in my mouth (I must be good at it because the only time he doesn't is when I stop it), and I love his taste. I guess it isn't for everyone. Maybe the wife never did like it but did it to please you and now she doesn't have too. It's a common situation. Why don't you get her to loosen up a bit with a nice glass of wine, or do her first? I go crazy when my man is going down on me so much so I cannot stand it if I can't have him in my mouth.