Different for different ppl and depends on relative sizes of the lovers. I had a sharp shooting pain when he broke through my hymen for the first time and well i am petite and he was a big man.
lovemaking can also be hard and intense - really depends on the mood. I believe its the difference when emotions are involved and any sex becomes lovemaking - slow sensual or animalistic passion.
rarely but yes I have especially if i am really intersted in someone and they havent approached me sexually yet
if the making out really is that good - thats the next step
well typically., at least for me, yes - if i am doing that its usually cause I am ready
He was older experienced and amazing so yeah abosilutely
stranger is a loaded term - would it include being shared to someone you have never met?