I don't know about clique stuff, I often don't understand what's going on.
and when I do pop up with something, it seem stupid.
it's personal interaction chat that I'm interested in, and what I've found is just plain boring.
all the guys want is what can I do for them now stuff.
nothing interesting.
they like to chat the way the stories they write - some random interaction, sexy looks - and she's a sex zombie.
real life doesn't work that way - and I'm a real slut.
I'm looking for playful light fun interaction - what does the guy do, what do I do, what's fun in our lives, work, hobbies etc. where we're from, kids.
the guys will give their name, then jump to - what do I do for them.
I'll tell them that I don't want to chat about that stuff, and they come right back and ask what I'd like to chat about.
another what can I do for them.
basically - ya gotta be interesting.
like my last interpersonal real life pickup bar guy was really fun - he was a hs art teacher and wannabe cartoonist.
so cool - I went to his house to see his works, fun and funny. and he came twice 
anyway, that's what I think of the chatters on here.