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oohlala74
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 51
0 miles · Edinburgh
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As a great big fat person myself I get annoyed with people assuming that I'm hugely fat because I'm greedy and lazy. I have pcos which causes weight gain and I do exercise and I eat healthily but to lose weight I need to limit my calorie intake to well below a 1000 and exercise like a demon which results in my blood sugars plummeting and my feeling faint and hair falling out in clumps' . Yes, there are some who live sedantry lifestyles and who eat junk but there are some of us who just can't help our weight. I would love to slim ( and therefore attractive ) but all I can do is accept that I'm never going to lucky enough to be very slim. People can be very judgmental and downright cruel.
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I can identify with this completely, ny husband is the one who is no longer interested in sex, last year it was less than ten times. I tried all sorts, talking to him, asking him if he was happy with the marriage and asking if there was anything he would like to try to get things going again but he says now he's 51 he would rather relax and play his game on his phone and admitted that its laziness on his behalf. All you can do is sit her down and have a frank talk with her. Hope you get it sorted as I know full well how the situation can eat away at you.
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No not at all, I joined lush to firstly read the stories and talk on the forums. The fact that I have made a couple of close friends is purely a bonus. There's no point in being jealous when people you have connected with flirt with others especially when you have never met and never will meet that person.
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I doubt I'd let anyone other than my hair dresser near my hair with scissors but someone playing with my hair or brushing it is deeply relaxing. You're not strange with your fetish at all, this is a site that explores sexuality and no one is here to judge anyone for their sexual practices or preferences ( or they shouldn't, if they do then ignore them). Welcome to lush x
