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oshkrozz
6 days ago
Straight Male, 51
0 miles · Baltimore
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Advanced Wordsmith
The fantasy is strong the environment leads to thoughts of fun filled pleasure, however the reality is a major challenge. From a legal or corporate policy this is best left alone unless your company is large enough that you will not see your dalliance in a working capacity (even then people move around all the time ... Hey Bob guess who your new boss is, not so smiling now are you ...)
In general if you will proceed as with all things in life, don't be a jerk is a good policy. Be open, communicate and if things don't work out do the best to mend the bridge so you have a good working relationship and it doesn't spill over into work.
In general if you will proceed as with all things in life, don't be a jerk is a good policy. Be open, communicate and if things don't work out do the best to mend the bridge so you have a good working relationship and it doesn't spill over into work.
Advanced Wordsmith
It does depend where you live, and what direction the air moves (does it sweep warm air off water or cold air ...) around here in the winter if we get a southern (ie coming from the south) wind it will bring slightly warm air (and wet ...) and if we get air from the north over the ohio valley it will be quite cold so the morning can start off at 40 and drop to 30 by noon .. or the opposite.
The only thing I look for is ice when I go for a morning run, black ice is never fun ...
The only thing I look for is ice when I go for a morning run, black ice is never fun ...
Advanced Wordsmith
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. There are really no words that can be said to express these losses when a person we hold dear is taken from us. We should always try our best to live the days we have the best we can and not leave what can be done today for tomorrow.
Condolences and may you find a lasting comfort
Condolences and may you find a lasting comfort
Advanced Wordsmith
There are some positions that the penetration doesn't rub against the clit and so her using the hand is highly erotic, I have not only enjoyed it but on occasion taken her hand placing it there and rubbing with her to set up the rhythm. Or have whispered in her ear as her hair is tangled in my hands how she need to start rubbing now ...
Advanced Wordsmith
I have a great fondness for giving massages. When I was younger I would work with clay, and then I started to bake bread. Kneading the dough, working with your hands and then punching it down again strengthens my wrists and arms, now I can use the same techniques on sore backs, necks and legs ... and ...
Advanced Wordsmith
The crack of thunder awakens a primal urge, a desire that is deep inside and the flash of lighting burning though the sky evokes a lust. There is something to a thunderstorm that is raging around in the summer the waves of rain crashing through the heat and your lover is in your arms (although a safer and possibly more sanitary place to do this is the shower ...). It produce a raw sensual experience that makes your skin crawl with the energy.
Then there is the light summer rain, the rays of sun break through and there is a mist, you are on a rock outcropping and you can be sure no others are venturing out as the light rain soaks your shirt, the water brings out a slow sensuality and you reach in to kiss, to embrace, and feel the soft touch of rain (and notice shoot another couple had the same idea in this place)
So yes I have ... and recommend it too
Then there is the light summer rain, the rays of sun break through and there is a mist, you are on a rock outcropping and you can be sure no others are venturing out as the light rain soaks your shirt, the water brings out a slow sensuality and you reach in to kiss, to embrace, and feel the soft touch of rain (and notice shoot another couple had the same idea in this place)
So yes I have ... and recommend it too
Advanced Wordsmith
Relationships take work, work from both partners they do not just blossom in a vacuum. The longer you are with someone that harder it is not to take what they do for granted, to thank them for the little things that you start to expect them to do without prompting.
You have been together for 9 years you might know what works and what doesn't. How do you convince him to do something. How can one ask without getting frustrated to do the simple chores that just need to be done (cooking, cleaning, laundry, picking up kids, dropping them off and so on ...).
1) It may very well be that in your head it is so clear what needs to be done around the house, in his head a pile of dirty dishes can be done tomorrow.
2) Conflict resolution, if you are having the same flights they are not getting resolved, you need to find a way to get out of the cycle.
this leads to
3) Conversation, you have to find a way to speak about it as part of a conversation, that doesn't mean talking at him, he may not absorb any of the information you throw his way However, speak with him. One fairly good way to do this ... ask him what he thinks about topic _____ get him to start to talk ... once he expresses how he feels you might be surprised and find a common ground to work with in his frame of mind and then work together to find a system that works for both of you
Last but not least, if you can not on your own find a solution talking to a professional can help (for both of you, or for yourself) however, going in it is good to have clear goals so you can work on them.
A person at work (gym, mall, milk man, online) will always seem better since when you interact with them they are 100% about you ... if they are not you will stop interacting with them so the grass seems greener ... yet if you were to live with them 24x7 for a year they would have new found annoyances for you to enjoy (the way they spread the toothpaste, the way they put away the bread ...)
You have been together for 9 years you might know what works and what doesn't. How do you convince him to do something. How can one ask without getting frustrated to do the simple chores that just need to be done (cooking, cleaning, laundry, picking up kids, dropping them off and so on ...).
1) It may very well be that in your head it is so clear what needs to be done around the house, in his head a pile of dirty dishes can be done tomorrow.
2) Conflict resolution, if you are having the same flights they are not getting resolved, you need to find a way to get out of the cycle.
this leads to
3) Conversation, you have to find a way to speak about it as part of a conversation, that doesn't mean talking at him, he may not absorb any of the information you throw his way However, speak with him. One fairly good way to do this ... ask him what he thinks about topic _____ get him to start to talk ... once he expresses how he feels you might be surprised and find a common ground to work with in his frame of mind and then work together to find a system that works for both of you
Last but not least, if you can not on your own find a solution talking to a professional can help (for both of you, or for yourself) however, going in it is good to have clear goals so you can work on them.
A person at work (gym, mall, milk man, online) will always seem better since when you interact with them they are 100% about you ... if they are not you will stop interacting with them so the grass seems greener ... yet if you were to live with them 24x7 for a year they would have new found annoyances for you to enjoy (the way they spread the toothpaste, the way they put away the bread ...)
Advanced Wordsmith
Wouldn't it be better to clone yourself so you can go with someone else? then you have the perfect Alibi ... uh no despite what the paper said I was not in Antarctica participating in the orgy on the ice fundraiser ... you saw me all of last week in Detroit (the place were dreams are made ... and quickly crushed) ...