White.
Budlight or IPA?

Cheating is a tag only when someone else finds out about it.
Let's be honest, if we (either gender) takes the other for granted and on repeated attempts, dont mend our ways, it's a bit more chaotic.
And also, leaving a marriage is not that simple. Most of the ppl are not geared to handle the taunts, the disapprovals from family and friends.
Everything is best kept secret. Not everyone can handle the truth.