
Quote by kieraI missed your earlier post, but my thoughts are with you and your beautiful kids. I think Giorgia and Reece have every reason to be proud of their mom.
I am grateful, thank you M [bh] All in all it went quite well, I managed to get the funeral on a date I wanted where the Vicar my kids wanted is available to do the service and its on a Friday afternoon which is good for people who work who want to come. Also its during half term so I wont have to take the kids out of school for it, my friend was with me too which helped. Registering the death was not nice though but it is done now...Thanks again M xo
Quote by Milik_the_RedI will stop here, after one last thing.
I find I have to agree with you. This argument is over. The continued attempt to fight it is only creating more angst and unpleasantness. I would prefer the block function be more complete, but it still removes that constant irritation from being front and center each time one logs on.
It has been a long while since I've seen such a destructive issue here. We lost one brilliant writer and may lose another, and for what? As I can see, for nothing at all. I have made a point in being sympathetic to those who feel the level of hostility has reached offensive heights, but the fight against it has become just as offensive. It is time for it to stop.
Too much time and energy has been demanded of an already over taxed moderating team that, regardless of how one feels from the outside, is at least trying its level best to be even handed. I know this is true, because I see it first hand. Now we have reached a point where so many hard feelings are being created that will likely cause friendships to be damaged for months or years to come.
I'm asking those who feel the level politeness here has dropped, to reflect and ask themselves, is perpetuating this argument going to make this forum the place of peaceful discourse you seek? I don't believe it does, and if that is indeed what we desire, then we are obligated to lead by example and climb above the sewage. I doubt very much I will be heeded by either side in this discussion, but I do ask that those who want a more calm discourse, at least consider what I have said.
Quote by angieseroticpenWorried that those visitors get the impression, that bullying, insulting and personal attacks are not only condoned but actively defended on lush? Because that's what they'll see here.
I agree.
This is not about free thinking or free discussion it's about free ridiculing and abusing. There will be visitors to our forums looking at this thread and thinking WTF is Lush about!
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Under which legal system? UN?
I think you're overreacting.