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paul_moadib
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 51
0 miles · London

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If she repeatedly says she doesn't feel sexy due to her figure, eventually it's just easier to agree with her than try and persuade her you don't care about superficial stuff.
All? No most definitely not.

Some? Not really. More of the odd thought of "mmm she's hot".

Very few ... have sometimes imagined sexual scenarios. But this requires mental effort on my part which is usually when I have nothing better to do! The devil makes work for idle hands (and minds) etc.
"day of the dead head rip"

search google for that. i won't post the image as it might be offensive to non horror fans.
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I just love "fuck me heels" - a girl can never have too many pairs of shoes.
All of my shoes have a 4" heel or more, But these are my latest acquisition and make me feel incredibly sexy when I wear them.


Nice smile
I live in the suburbs, so just 25 mins from the centre of town by train. The attractions don't interest me that much; I tend to meet with friends for drinks. So perhaps I would say the traditional pubs are an attraction. I saw St Pauls close up for the first time a couple of years ago, when doing Jury Service at the Old Bailey. It is a great building.

Leicester Square is a nice place at 7am, on a sunny morning, when all the idiots have left. 3am is a warzone.

The walk across Waterloo bridge or Embankment bridge is great. The view up and down the Thames is beautiful. The most impressive building, IMO is the houses of Parliament.
I love what I would describe as girly colours, so light pink, blue white etc.

4" or 5" heels really enhance a woman's look.

However, she needs to be able to walk in them confidently. If she is a bit unstable it looks either comical or at worst, painful and that is not sexy.
Dip a finger in and try it yourself - make up your own mind!

Pussy tastes like sex. It's an arousing taste that you associate with the act.

I think the descriptions here are fitting but are missing the je ne sais quoi that really describes it, which is best decided by actually doing it.
Not opposed.

Sex with a virgin would be similar to eating at a restaurant where the chef is just starting their career. Whilst it's likely to be fine, there's less guarantee of it being so, if compared to someone with plenty of experience.

However, it would be a very nice experience if it's someone you really care for, knowing that you shared their first time with them.
Always hers, unless I get clear indications that it's unlikely to happen.

If it's all systems go, then I like to see how many I can extract!

It's like the leaderboard on Space Invaders.
Dude, I was wholly agreeing with your point, not contradicting it.

I think you have taken my comment about "out of shape" the wrong way. What I should have said is, "out of shape with respect to the classic feminine hourglass figure".

I don't for a second mean to suggest that a girl who is physically fit is "out of shape" health-wise.

So perhaps, "lacking feminine proportion" is a better phrase? You can decide.

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When I mentioned proportions, what I was actually referring to was the variation of a woman's appearance depending on her height. A woman that's a size 14 has a waist of around 31", and hips of around 40". In a shorter woman, these measurements will result in a much 'heavier' figure than in a taller one.

These two women are size 14, the one on the left measuring 5'0" and the one on the right measuring 6'0". You can definitely see that the taller woman has an overall 'leaner' appearance:





I used women that had an average height of 5'4" in my previous example, to represent what the 'proportions' of a size 14 look like, on average.

Now concerning your comment about 'swimming or track and field' causing a body that's 'out of shape', I don't even feel like arguing about how silly this is. Really, I'm done with this thread, I'll let people wallow in their fantasies.
The point about proportions is very relevant.

This is what I refer to as "in shape", and probably why I am less attracted to very slim figures because of the lack of feminine proprtions.

Female bodies can be "out of shape" for 2 reaons:

1) due to lack of health/fitness and,
2) due to excessive physical training of some kind, such as swimming or track and field.

I'm sure many guys love the look of an athletic figure but (if I must be labelled) I'm a "boob" man and unfortunately the two do not very often co-exist.

But it's all just maths and stats anyway - body types and preferences thereof from the opposite sex are both bell curves and probably complement each other.

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Where exactly did I say that you were obese? I really don't care much about you or your appearance, frankly.

And what would be so disgraceful about being fat/obese anyway? Are you actually implying that being fat would be a terrible thing? Because that's kinda what you're hinting at in your responses... where has the 'accept who you are' spirit gone?

Oh, I actually get it: you have exactly the perfect figure and any woman that's not that is either a bony trollop or a despicable fatty. And of course, everybody should accept you for who you are, even though you really don't seem all that tolerant to others' physiques yourself.

For the record, here are a few pictures of women who wear size 14 pants (UK sizes), all of which being at the average female height of 5'4" to show the proportions accurately (pictures courtesy of mybodygallery.com). I'm sure these women are all great persons and I'm only stating a very personal opinion here, but yes, that's more 'fat' than 'curvy' to me, and no, I don't find it all that attractive:





This shouldn't worry you though, because as the poster above expressed, I'm just a boy and not quite a 'real' man; only 'real' men can appreciate 'real' women.

There's a difference between out of shape and curvaceous.

Very slim, ie. skinny figures do nothing for me but then that is just my preference and I wouldn't wish any woman with such a figure to feel that a comment like that means they don't have a nice figure.

My preference is for a fuller figure but not for one that is clearly neglected.

Having said that, a girl with a filthy mind is a huge turn on and totally outweighs how she looks.
I love costumes but not 100% sure what the reason is.

Clearly, that they are often slutty, tight, revealing etc is an easy reason to speak of but then other clothes can be too, so I am wondering why the costume in particular.

It might be, in part, that a nurses uniform (for example) is going to be a slutty caricature of the real thing but when available online for, say $50, it's easier than sourcing the real thing.

Certainly though, nurses in real life do appeal to men because of the hands-on nature of their job, ie. they are permitted to do things to their customers which a receptionist is generally not allowed to do, and in that there is a kink.

Mind you, men are pretty one dimensional creatures and I struggle to think of a uniform/costume that men wouldn't get hot under the collar for, for some reason or another.

It's what's inside the costume after all ...
You should limit the number of friend requests, per day, for people who don't financially support the site.

ie. if you are a paying member, you can request unlimited friends per day, if not, then perhaps just 1.

No limit on the number of added friends, just requests per day.
on average 8am. normally in bed around 1am on work nights and 2 at the weekend.