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petrova
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Quote by Mareoculus
As for why guys don't talk about their need to feel loved or how they might need a bit more attention, think about what the traits are which most women find appealing in men. Confidence being the biggest, a self-assured demeanor is almost universally recognized as a positive trait for men. So a guy probably doesn't want to come across as excessively needy by asking for attention. To many guys eyes that's not only a pathetic thing to do, but also a useless one. For most me, if you need to ask your significant other to make you feel more wanted, then it's already obvious she doesn't appreciate you and you're only showing how weak you are by asking for something which you already deserve.
Again, that's just from the guy's perspective. Is it always correct? No. But there is a lot of pressure on men to behave in certain ways to remain appealing, and to their mind asking for attention is not an attractive action.
Sometimes confidence are being misinterpret. Most people would define it base on what they see physically... well the history says it all. I am not saying man should look weak, but in reality.. they forgot how to be compassionate especially to people who cares for them. But my point is, the key is to communicate and how to in this situation so it won't lead to finding other or cheating. It is less complicated when one isn't married. At least you have the absolute choice to leave and find another one that suits your style. But to married people, I am sure it isn't easy. It is more than betrayal.
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Quote by lafayettemister
I could write a book about this topic....
Ditto.
Although, humans has different characteristics and behavior. But for us to be able to express what we really want... there's a point that we need to say it. Not everyone can read body language.
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Well I have not been married, but I have been in a situation in which I felt like my girlfriend didn't make me feel wanted, rather she made me feel like I was just expected to be there and she wasn't required to make me feel appreciated. While this is usually fine for a short period of time, over an extended period of time it can lead to the guy being to feel worse about himself or the person he's with. I think the most common result is cheating. If a guy feels like he isn't valued and someone comes along who treats him like he's hot shit then he'll probably embrace the new feeling.
Sounds like a woman who has a strong personality and quite independent. Chances the compatibility is less when it comes to communication and expressing their feelings. Some women prefer men who are physically and mentally strong... which makes us think he can decide for both of us... or knows what he wants and say it... or confident enough to show he can pretty much do anything without us telling what to do. So basically, we are idealistic, it happens. Some women prefers a men who communicates... (I think those women who is emotionally gifted). Basically I think being compatible to who we chose with, that's the main key.
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Sometimes, most married men whom I've spoke with.. they say this.. that their wife focused their attention to their kids and sometimes tend to forgot that their husband need to feel them not only because of sex. To be touch, to feel they are wanted.. To know they still have that man appeal...
We women are somehow vocal about it but mostly I barely encountered a man who would admit if it's only a want or a need for them to be touched every now and then? Is it true? Why not be vocal about it?
We women are somehow vocal about it but mostly I barely encountered a man who would admit if it's only a want or a need for them to be touched every now and then? Is it true? Why not be vocal about it?
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Quote by aicirtap
is it anygood? I have been tempted to sign up with a "boxercise" class at my gym - looks intense?
Sign up, you won't regret it. I've been to traditional gym and other stuff... even jogging.. I just like the boxing training.. it keeps me moving. Plus I get to punch to release my stress and other stuff... Try kick boxing too in case boxing suits you.
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Quote by hopp3r
There have been a few times during sex that I was interrupted. Those have always been rather unpleasant but hey, sometimes things just happen.
Sometimes during sex, I've been bitten. I don't ask for it but I don't mind it either so I just let her do her thing. Once or twice, when things have become really intense, her teeth have clamped down tight enough to make me shout. It is always followed by some mutual apologizing but it's never killed the mood. Still, that shit hurts for a good week after the fact.
I agree it happens, but not everyone can open about it. I have encountered situations where one is afraid to tell as it would turn off the guy.. or vice versa. And to prevent happening again.. at least we really have to know what our partners really liked.
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Quote by Saintz
I'm not that huge either dear haha Your ex should have paid way more attention to your reactions!
I am no fan of anal sex myself either. Somehow it feels wrong to me.
When I was doing doggystyle sex a long time ago (I was drunk) I pulled out a bit too far and accidently pushed it in her ass. Very painful for the both of us.
Weird how these weird experiences stick in our memory.
We do have preference/s.. to others maybe it is good... it wasn't my cup of tea... and it end up horrible.
lol The size! I have to say that, just to make him feel bad! (Though yeah he won't be able to read this. ha!)
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On a one-night-stand a girl lowered herself on my penis with to much force.
She wasn't wet enough and very tight so my foreskin got pulled back too far and ripped it.
Bleeds like hell and really hurts.
Ouch!
I have a fair share of experience too. I don't how others enjoy anal sex but I cursed it. I have an ex who loves that so I did give him a chance but it end up bleeding me and I had fever for 3 days. He thought at first I was enjoying and when I told him to stop, he didn't... sooner he realised I was already crying in pain.
Speaking of tight, he wasn't even huge size like yours!