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poizenivy
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 57
United States
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I have dated some pretty ugly men because they really did have good personalities. I have dated handsome men who presented themselves as having a good persoanlity so later became monsters. Do looks matter? To me it is really about their confidence level and how they take care of themselves. I don't care how cute someone is if they have poor hygiene, habits, or personality I don't find them attractive.
I have found that people who are not considered attractive by society's norms will often assume their looks are the reason they can't find love or become successful when in fact it is more likely due to a lack of self confidence and the chip on their shoulder because of that assumption. Also, not so attractive good guys tend to try too hard because they are trying to overcompensate for their looks.
Bottom line, at least for me, is a confident secure person.
I have found that people who are not considered attractive by society's norms will often assume their looks are the reason they can't find love or become successful when in fact it is more likely due to a lack of self confidence and the chip on their shoulder because of that assumption. Also, not so attractive good guys tend to try too hard because they are trying to overcompensate for their looks.
Bottom line, at least for me, is a confident secure person.
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Quote by lickinlizzy
Let's see with 3 teenagers, husband and live-in father-in-law with stage four cancer in lungs and brain, I'm lucky lately if I play once a week. Use to be about 3 or 4 times a day.
good God, do I understand where you are coming from! Sounds a lot like my home...but I make time, it is important! Keeps you sane.
