I have an iphone4.
I really like it, but still can´t seem to text on it. Definitely can´t do it while walking or after a couple of drinks.
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Hello Taylor and welcome to Lush! You are a very beautiful girl and I am sure your inbox will be full in no time.
As for your question, I am not turned on about the fact that a girl is a virgin. I personally have to be attracted both physically and mentally to the girl, being a virgin doesn't add much to the mix for me.
The other thing that comes into question is that the first time you would have sex would place enormous pressure on the guy to be "amazing". I am not saying that I am not, but it could lead to a little performance anxiety.
Have fun out there! This is a wonderful community!
Really? I´ve heard some guys say that they like being with virgins, because they feel less pressure to perform well, because she won´t be able to compare it to anyone else.
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I´ve been with this girl for a year now, but our relationship has been completely online. I am planning on seeing her soon, in the near future. Last night, she told me that she thinks I´m too good for her and she will ruin my life.
So after that she tells me she likes the thought of cheating or going with others. It arouses her. I was really angry and snappy. Below is a conversation we had, am I wrong to feel angry, hurt and mad about it? She thinks I´ll leave her in the end. It´s already been a year, and I´ve had plenty of other girls to get with, but I haven´t. She says she is weak, meaning that if other´s hit on her, she let´s them do what they want to her. Can you guys kindly give me your thoughts of what she´s thinking? Is it okay, or isn´t it? How would you deal with it, if it was someone you love?
Sorry mate, it took me a while to decipher what you were trying to say, and I´ll be honest I can´t decipher most of that chat log, I don´t know who is saying what, and to me it looks like there are three people involved.
I think some people like having a fantasy about cheating on their SO. It´s something that´s forbidden, and can be a little attractive. I´ve known people who get off on the thrill of trying not to get caught. I think it´s a sign for trouble though, especially since she´s admitting it. Can you trust that she isn´t going to cheat on you?
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I am new to the BDSM community, i have only been in one D/s relationship that ended brokenly and has left me very lost. It makes me uncomfortable in chatrooms and men automaticly try and make me their sub. while i am unowned and i do enjoy playing i feel that to take on the full reasponsibility of being owned takes trust and i dont know how to handle these situations. and i dont know how to tell them when i have reached my limit without getting them angry as im still learning? what do it do?
You should always make your limits clear, and never worry about what the other person thinks about them. If they are worth your time, then they will understand that everyone has limits, and yours shouldn´t be crossed. If you don´t tell them that you have reached your limit, then you will only end up hurting yourself.
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Staying together for the kids, in rarely a good idea. Kids pick up on things, like when the parents are unhappy. I think it´s important to the kids, that their parents are happy, it generally makes a nicer environment to live in.
My parents got divorced when I was 10 or so. It was pretty amicable, there wasn´t really ever any fighting, and for a couple of years they lived very close to each other, and would get together for dinners with my brother and I. I actually saw more of them then I did before. They also worked a lot, but when they had their night with us, they would make more of an effort to get home early.
When they realised that it was never going to work, my dad had to go back to the states (we were living in the UK) for visa reasons. That was the hard part. Then they started fighting about who got to see us on the holidays. That´s what made things difficult for us.
When I was a 16 or 17 my dad moved back to the UK, and still lives a street away from my mom, and they are back to being friendly. My mom has remarried, and they are all much happier, which makes my younger brother and I much happier.
Divorce is going to be hard on kids no matter what, but I don´t think you would be doing your child any good if you and your partner are unhappy together. You and your partner just need to try and keep things as friendly as possible, and share time with the children.
My parents got divorced when I was 10 or so. It was pretty amicable, there wasn´t really ever any fighting, and for a couple of years they lived very close to each other, and would get together for dinners with my brother and I. I actually saw more of them then I did before. They also worked a lot, but when they had their night with us, they would make more of an effort to get home early.
When they realised that it was never going to work, my dad had to go back to the states (we were living in the UK) for visa reasons. That was the hard part. Then they started fighting about who got to see us on the holidays. That´s what made things difficult for us.
When I was a 16 or 17 my dad moved back to the UK, and still lives a street away from my mom, and they are back to being friendly. My mom has remarried, and they are all much happier, which makes my younger brother and I much happier.
Divorce is going to be hard on kids no matter what, but I don´t think you would be doing your child any good if you and your partner are unhappy together. You and your partner just need to try and keep things as friendly as possible, and share time with the children.
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This is an excerpt from the cookbook.
Heat up a lightly oiled frying pan. Remove from heat and ejaculate directly into the pan, return to heat and fry the semen without stirring. This will create a mini-omelette, or in some cases, many small omelette-drops.
OMG, can someone please try this and give us a review! *jumping up and down enthusiastically*
Felix, I'm looking at you to take one for the team, here! Taste test required, obviously.
Is it to much to ask someone to cum in my frying pan on the third date?
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This morning I made myself coffee with condensed milk as normal, but got busy and it went cold. So I put it into the microwave to heat it up. Afterwards I drank it and noticed the texture was different - somewhere between liquid coffee and flan, and then I thought it reminded me of the texture of cum. Not sure I will be making my coffee with condensed milk anymore.
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I have been in a few D/s relationships, both online and in person. I have had experiences with Doms who use BDSM as an excuse to abuse and take advantage of people who are submitting to them. I am definitely glad to see this thread.
I have been in almost 24/7 relationships and I know they are something I never want to be in. Although I can be very submissive sexually, I am a rather independant, dominant person outside of the bedroom. I have jumped quickly into relationships which were disasturous. There aren´t really any set rules in a BDSM relationship, just like there aren´t set rules for a vanilla relationship. Different things work for different people.
To add to oint number 4: Trust is a massive part of a D/s relationship, and discussing things like limits is very important. Just because you are submissive to someone doesn´t mean that they can do anything to you. Boundaries are really important. It´s a two way street. A sub should respect their Dominant´s boundaries as well.
I have been in almost 24/7 relationships and I know they are something I never want to be in. Although I can be very submissive sexually, I am a rather independant, dominant person outside of the bedroom. I have jumped quickly into relationships which were disasturous. There aren´t really any set rules in a BDSM relationship, just like there aren´t set rules for a vanilla relationship. Different things work for different people.
To add to oint number 4: Trust is a massive part of a D/s relationship, and discussing things like limits is very important. Just because you are submissive to someone doesn´t mean that they can do anything to you. Boundaries are really important. It´s a two way street. A sub should respect their Dominant´s boundaries as well.
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I have been in a few D/s relationships, both online and in person. I have had experiences with Doms who use BDSM as an excuse to abuse and take advantage of people who are submitting to them. I am definitely glad to see this thread.
I have been in almost 24/7 relationships and I know they are something I never want to be in. Although I can be very submissive sexually, I am a rather independant, dominant person outside of the bedroom. I have jumped quickly into relationships which were disasturous. There aren´t really any set rules in a BDSM relationship, just like there aren´t set rules for a vanilla relationship. Different things work for different people.
To add to oint number 4: Trust is a massive part of a D/s relationship, and discussing things like limits is very important. Just because you are submissive to someone doesn´t mean that they can do anything to you. Boundaries are really important. It´s a two way street. A sub should respect their Dominant´s boundaries as well.
I have been in almost 24/7 relationships and I know they are something I never want to be in. Although I can be very submissive sexually, I am a rather independant, dominant person outside of the bedroom. I have jumped quickly into relationships which were disasturous. There aren´t really any set rules in a BDSM relationship, just like there aren´t set rules for a vanilla relationship. Different things work for different people.
To add to oint number 4: Trust is a massive part of a D/s relationship, and discussing things like limits is very important. Just because you are submissive to someone doesn´t mean that they can do anything to you. Boundaries are really important. It´s a two way street. A sub should respect their Dominant´s boundaries as well.
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Worst date ever with a control freak.
I once went out on a date with a chinese guy. He took me to a chinese restaurant. I wasn´t all that bothered when he ordered the food, but when it came to the drinks he ordered for me. The worst part was when our food came and I had to use chopsticks. Normally I cope very well, but that night I didn´t and knew I was going to make a big mess, so I just asked for a fork so I didn´t have to worry about picking up small shredded things with sticks. This guy wouldn´t let the waitress bring me a fork, said I needed to learn to eat properly.
I once went out on a date with a chinese guy. He took me to a chinese restaurant. I wasn´t all that bothered when he ordered the food, but when it came to the drinks he ordered for me. The worst part was when our food came and I had to use chopsticks. Normally I cope very well, but that night I didn´t and knew I was going to make a big mess, so I just asked for a fork so I didn´t have to worry about picking up small shredded things with sticks. This guy wouldn´t let the waitress bring me a fork, said I needed to learn to eat properly.
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I love Malaysia, but it´s a bit far for you.
Belize has some beautiful beaches. Caye Caulker is a lovely place. Has some good night life too.
I was recently living in Cabo San Lucas, there are some nice beaches. There are some totally remote beaches off the beaten track that are lovely and incredibly romantic, and you never see anyone. Diving is nice too
There are some fabulous restaurants, and hotels. San Jose is nearby and has a really nice arty/hippy vibe. I can always recommend some good hotels and things off the beaten track.
Belize has some beautiful beaches. Caye Caulker is a lovely place. Has some good night life too.
I was recently living in Cabo San Lucas, there are some nice beaches. There are some totally remote beaches off the beaten track that are lovely and incredibly romantic, and you never see anyone. Diving is nice too
There are some fabulous restaurants, and hotels. San Jose is nearby and has a really nice arty/hippy vibe. I can always recommend some good hotels and things off the beaten track. 
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My nipples aren´t very sensitive, so if someone is kissing or licking me very gently, I can´t feel much, and it doesn´t excite me a whole lot. I like my nipples to be bitten gently and not so gently some times. I also occasionally like clamps and such. I like it to be part of foreplay as well as a part of sex.
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Quite often I am doing a hundred things while I am online. Whether it´s writing emails, verifying/reading stories, writing, catching up with friends back home...I don´t always catch messages immediately and quite often when I notice someone has sent me a message they have already logged off.
There are also times I get inundated with cyber messages, they are tiresome, especially since I am not going to cyber with anyone. There are times I get fed up with this and when "7indick4u" or "needhotpussy" open a chat box, I usually assume they are wanting to cyber and don´t always answer if I am currently in the middle of something.
There are also times I get inundated with cyber messages, they are tiresome, especially since I am not going to cyber with anyone. There are times I get fed up with this and when "7indick4u" or "needhotpussy" open a chat box, I usually assume they are wanting to cyber and don´t always answer if I am currently in the middle of something.
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Kind of to add to what MMonroe said, I have somewhat small boobs. I always wore a 36A, very occassionally B, but the cups never fit comfortably. When I got fitted for a bra, I was told to wear a 34D because my breasts are a bit far apart. Wearing larger cups fit a little better.
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I wouldn´t say I am "locked" into a relationship at the moment, because we will be splitting up when I move away in a few weeks. We have been together around four months though. He moved here while his wife stayed in their home country while he gets a job set up here. She´s joining him in August. Although we have been living together, our relationship has been kept a secret from our colleagues and friends. It´s really difficult at times. I love him, but things aren´t ever going to work out for us. I also feel like a terrible person for doing this to his wife.
I have been in other secret relationships. When I was 16, I met a man who was 11 years older than me. He was hindu and Indian. Neither of us wanted to tell our families. After I realised our relationship was a little more than just sex, I wanted him to meet my friends. He was too embarassed about our age and cultural differences that he refused to meet my friends, or even tell his friends about me. So for two years, we met secretly in hotels on the weekends. We never once went to dinner together, or out to do anything. We went to the cinema once. I ended up pushing some of my friends away, because I had to set aside a lot of time for him. I lived in London and he lived in Leicester. I would usually have to meet him somewhere towards where he lived. It was a horrible relationship to be in.
I have been in other secret relationships. When I was 16, I met a man who was 11 years older than me. He was hindu and Indian. Neither of us wanted to tell our families. After I realised our relationship was a little more than just sex, I wanted him to meet my friends. He was too embarassed about our age and cultural differences that he refused to meet my friends, or even tell his friends about me. So for two years, we met secretly in hotels on the weekends. We never once went to dinner together, or out to do anything. We went to the cinema once. I ended up pushing some of my friends away, because I had to set aside a lot of time for him. I lived in London and he lived in Leicester. I would usually have to meet him somewhere towards where he lived. It was a horrible relationship to be in.