Wife or GF - Absolutely
Stranger - Depends on the context... Probably not for my sake, but if it's going to drive her crazy? sure
Other Guy - nope.
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Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 44
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Quote by Poppet
I'm not calling anyone liar, but many people would deny it, even if they were okay with it. Given what SO many people assume it is associated with. It has NOTHING to do with or being a .
It plays a large part in BDSM, as a Master or Dom who has a softer approach. Though a lot of woman who use it aren't into that lifestyle, but like the term, because they get a comfort from their partner they'd not get from anyone else. It is a loving, tender pet name.
Yet it is perfectly okay to call a woman a whore, or slut or what have you, while fucking her. Not that I'm against these names, but it's all done in the same fashion. You call your lady those names in a sense of love, caring, needing way. Not because you actually see her as such. The same as her wanting to call you Daddy. It isn't because she thinks you're her father or some form of parent figure, for goodness sake.
Thanks Poppet - I think you're right on. It wasn't role play or anything else, but the first time I heard that... damn. Sent me into overdrive. I don't think I could have found the words myself to say it how you did - that in this case it definitely wasn't implying , but the protective nature of the Daddy Dom and a caring term. Thanks for helping me comment without feeling like I'm the scumbag so many people on here seem to associate with this idea.
Quote by aussienic12
I like to be called the General.
That's just awesome, mate. :)
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Mena Suvari on the ceiling covered in rose petals as Kevin Spacey dreams about her in American Beauty
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i9WMh18YF2o
End of Boondock Saints (3:30)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gqq9MpbQ9uU
Top Gun Bar Scene
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PLzVbz2HHzo
Happy vs. Bob Barker (The price is wrong, bitch!)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8QJiAK-s5a0
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i9WMh18YF2o
End of Boondock Saints (3:30)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gqq9MpbQ9uU
Top Gun Bar Scene
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PLzVbz2HHzo
Happy vs. Bob Barker (The price is wrong, bitch!)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8QJiAK-s5a0
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Quote by nicola
EXACTLY 140 CHARACTERS IS THE CHALLENGE FOLKS.
1st rule in any writing challenge / call for submissions = READ THE INSTRUCTIONS.
Reading on this site? Too much work! :P
Apologies - redone:
I thrust deep inside you, using my hard shaft like an orchestra conductor bringing your screaming orgasm to a passionate, powerful crescendo
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I think I'm less hoping to contribute to the subject here and more interested in some feedback - I don't have any close gay friends (no one that I would feel comfortable discussing the matter). I guess what I am trying to get at is that I am definitely looking for responses telling me whether you think i'm right, wrong, or I'm so far off I'm not even close to the topic :P
I think there are choices involved, but I don't think the choice is who you're attracted to. I think the 'choices' are whether you choose to try to be straight to conform to the 'norm', finding a partner of the opposite sex that you love as a person, but that you're not attracted to and not IN love with. Or people can feel pressures of religions and feel that they may be attracted to the opposite sex but choose to be abstinent. (I think the prison example is something totally separate - a mix of sex becoming a bartering tool, people using it to gain pleasure, others giving pleasure to gain security - I don't think this has really anything to do with being gay, just sex acts between members of the same sex)
loverman had to bring up the gender identity issue :P that I have no idea about - half of me wonders how we spend one day preaching how assigning roles to genders is wrong, and then the next day arguing that someone can 'feel like someone of the opposite sex.' (I reiterate here - I'm voicing my confusion about the issue and VERY MUCH trying to not be judgemental). We don't want to associate dolls, soldiers, cooking, technology, or anything else with a particular sex, AND we want to say you should be with whoever makes you happy regardless of sex, but then we say that you can associate with a sex other than what you're born into. I don't understand the finer points enough to reconcile these two concepts.
I agree with the overall statement that I hate that this is an issue in politics though. FFS, why does anyone care what two consenting adults do.
So... thoughts? Am I just a fucktard like Carson?
I think there are choices involved, but I don't think the choice is who you're attracted to. I think the 'choices' are whether you choose to try to be straight to conform to the 'norm', finding a partner of the opposite sex that you love as a person, but that you're not attracted to and not IN love with. Or people can feel pressures of religions and feel that they may be attracted to the opposite sex but choose to be abstinent. (I think the prison example is something totally separate - a mix of sex becoming a bartering tool, people using it to gain pleasure, others giving pleasure to gain security - I don't think this has really anything to do with being gay, just sex acts between members of the same sex)
loverman had to bring up the gender identity issue :P that I have no idea about - half of me wonders how we spend one day preaching how assigning roles to genders is wrong, and then the next day arguing that someone can 'feel like someone of the opposite sex.' (I reiterate here - I'm voicing my confusion about the issue and VERY MUCH trying to not be judgemental). We don't want to associate dolls, soldiers, cooking, technology, or anything else with a particular sex, AND we want to say you should be with whoever makes you happy regardless of sex, but then we say that you can associate with a sex other than what you're born into. I don't understand the finer points enough to reconcile these two concepts.
I agree with the overall statement that I hate that this is an issue in politics though. FFS, why does anyone care what two consenting adults do.
So... thoughts? Am I just a fucktard like Carson?
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Quote by ManofAdventure
Op....you might also want to look into improving your own body language.
I whole heartedly agree. I am not more muscular or any better looking than I was before, but I started dating someone who gave me more CONFIDENCE, and that I think really has made all the difference in how I perceive the way women treat me.
I think this is also why people feel that they meet more members of the opposite sex while dating someone, or cheat because they think they are getting more attention - you probably are because you feel desired and walk around knowing that. Just my two cents, but it brought me back to this quote from way back (ok, a little ways back)
Quote by American Beauty
In order to be successful, one must project an image of success at all times. - Buddy Kane
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Quote by VanGogh
As many women here have attested (in other threads as well) .... it's the personality and the kindness and the humour a guy has that interests her .... not the stunning shape of his body [or cock] (and if one lived here on the West Coast ... likely many of those hunky guys are gay).
That's all fine and good, but as your example points out - the guy with the body got his foot in the door despite having a chest you didn't want to put your head on and not being fun to hang out with.
As many guys will attest to - a lot of the time it's damn hard for a guy to get the girl to notice the personality, kindness, and humor without the body...
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In response to the original question - I find it a little insulting to insinuate that people's personal preferences can somehow be 'less evolved'. Would you say that someone's attraction towards a certain sex, skin tone, hair color, eye color, etc. is somehow a sign of them being behind?
Sure, what is presented to us through the media has an impact on perceptions, but so do our interactions with people. If we shouldn't judge people for liking someone of the same sex, why would we judge someone for liking people of a certain body type? Are we going to draw a magic line somewhere and bash people who like women both heavier and thinner than a made up ideal?
Bottom line - people like what they like, AND THAT'S OK. Isn't that what Lush is all about? This is supposed to be a place about being non-judgmental about others sexual preferences.
Sure, what is presented to us through the media has an impact on perceptions, but so do our interactions with people. If we shouldn't judge people for liking someone of the same sex, why would we judge someone for liking people of a certain body type? Are we going to draw a magic line somewhere and bash people who like women both heavier and thinner than a made up ideal?
Bottom line - people like what they like, AND THAT'S OK. Isn't that what Lush is all about? This is supposed to be a place about being non-judgmental about others sexual preferences.
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I used to write with the comma because it's how I would say it. I would pause if I said "I like to read erotic stories <pause> but she likes to write them." Because of the way I spoke, I would try to use punctuation to make it 'read' the way I would speak it. "I like to read erotic stories, but she likes to write them." Doing a LOT of writing with a very particular professor I learned that I over use commas (for instance, I just tried to put one in between "professor" and "I" in the last sentence but took it out. I actually just tried to put it between "sentence" and "but" as well! Damn you academia!). My over use of commas also was related to my propensity to have run on sentences...
Whether or not it is correct, I have been instructed not to use commas like that and will continue to personally cut back my usage. At least until my thesis is complete and I brain dump all this. Thanks for bringing up grammar in the arena of erotic stories, where a) I will actually care a lot more than an academic setting and b) it will improve the writing of said stories!
Whether or not it is correct, I have been instructed not to use commas like that and will continue to personally cut back my usage. At least until my thesis is complete and I brain dump all this.
Thanks for bringing up grammar in the arena of erotic stories, where a) I will actually care a lot more than an academic setting and b) it will improve the writing of said stories! 
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Quote by overmykneenow
If you scroll to the bottom of the mobile home page*you have the option to click on to the full site, you'll then see the regular desktop version which you can log on to and is perfectly fine for checking your mailbox, sending messages, favouriting etc.
You can chat on there but it can be a bit fiddly
*currently there's an annoying ad that scrolls up and covers these links - this really needs to be got rid of
I know you CAN access it from phones, but a mobile optimized site would be much better. Chat rooms, private chat, even messaging isn't very good on the full site function.
Quote by shylass
It's not just annoying. It's *insert naughty words here*. I've asked about it in this thread: https://
I'm glad it's not just me with this issue. confused
I realize it is still annoying, but I can close the pop up to access the site - can other people not do that?
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How about improved mobile setup? I realize chat is probably a long way off on the mobile page, but can we at least start off with being able to log in on the mobile page? That way we could at least see what friends may be online and message them, or be able to add stories we find on there to our favorites.
Because I really need an excuse to spend more time on here than I already do... :P
Because I really need an excuse to spend more time on here than I already do... :P
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Hard to pick just one - I would say I'm almost even between internet porn (when a specific act is what is interesting me), role play on here when I really want the interaction, fantasizing about someone I met when I am looking to think of a spiced up life, and significant other when I want her but just can't have her at the moment. Clear as mud?
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I think that you have to take the commitment seriously. That being said, I don't think you have to take the commitment. I somewhat agree with oshkrozz about how it matters how you're connecting, but I think you really just need to be upfront about it - if the connection is important to you, say it. If you just want it to be a role you play on line, again, say it. If you don't want any emotional attachment or commitment on here, just say it.
I think in the end it comes out the same as real life - people will handle exclusivity in the real world with varying degrees of commitment to it (though I'm not saying all will treat both equally).
I think in the end it comes out the same as real life - people will handle exclusivity in the real world with varying degrees of commitment to it (though I'm not saying all will treat both equally).
