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CliffordAClavin
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 50
United States

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I think it's hot to fantasize about, but I've never gone there myself... Yet. I certainly wouldn't rule it out, but I suspect it's a fantasy that might be better than the reality.

But nothing wrong with it at all.
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i made a set of anal beads once but being a size queen,lol,made them biggish.i got 3 golf balls and carefully drilled a hole through each one.then threaded a boot lace tying knots after each ball till it was secure enough.what a great feeling when pushing them out.


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Not all of my partners have known. It's really none of their business. If I'm with them, I'm with them and it doesn't matter who I've slept with in the past or might sleep with in the future. When it has felt right to tell a partner I tell them, but matter of fact. It's the truth about me, not some weird secret I need to be ashamed of or they need to be embarrassed about knowing.

I completely agree and that's the general tactic I take. Some have never asked and I've never felt like telling. No harm, no foul.
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I wouldn't care if I was wearing a condom, but I can't imagine feeling comfortable enough with two or three other guys and a woman to go at it ungloved.
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There's not much, if anything, that would offend me. That said, she certainly could surprise me and I'd welcome that. I love sexual adventures and I reward that kind of thinking with eagerness to please. There's probably a few things at this state of my life that I'd say no to, but that's a pretty short list and there would definitely be room for negotiations.
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really prostitutes give it with a condom, would have never thought that, is that really confirmed?


I can affirm that in at least one instance.4bacCXbS0VgeUoGc
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For the last 15 years my parents have been asking me why I wasn't going to have any children.

I couldn't really explain it, it was just a feeling, a knowing that I would have made a lousy father.

Today medical research has confirmed my concerns and validated that I made the right choice.

I would have been a lousy father.

http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/265855.php

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You know what would look better than you in your bra and panties? You out of you bra and panties.
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Of the three shown, the middle would be my preferred. I like definition, but the ropey veins are a turn off.
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The sweet end to a near-perfect weekend. Two EMS calls with my wife, two orgasms with my wife, a fantastic dinner last night with my bro and his GF, a nice lunch today with good friends I hadn't seen in months, and all finished off with excellent fish and chips tonight and a pint of vanilla bean Gelato.

Man, it just doesn't get much better than this.
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1. A final meal
2. A final drink
3. A final film
4. A final song
5. A final fantasy shot on the swings

1. Prime Rib, Lobster, baked potato and steamed broccoli
2. Nice glass of Moscato
3. Spitfire Grill
4. Vivaldi Four Seasons
5. Gwenan (an ex and brilliant lover)
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So how many folks out there only blow those you know (i.e. Know their HIV and Hepititis status)? Considering the near universal opposition to barebacking, I'm kind of surprised to see so many people (some of whom I care about) on this thread saying they have unprotected oral sex.
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I'd expect the respect of The Talk up front. If they broke the news to me after the fact, I'd be livid. Just having an STI wouldn't be a deal breaker, particularly of they take Valtrex daily (extremely low rate of being spread if the partner uses daily). I'd probably opt for a condom for insurance, but it wouldn't be a deal breaker just because they had it.
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have you ever done it? recommend it?
some say its not considered sucking cock.. is it?

I recommend a flavored condom. Normal ones are just nasty. Yes, tried both and without. It's definitely different for the receiver and the giver. I recommend it over Unprotected sex with a partner you don't know their history or fidelity.

I think saying it's not sucking cock is like Bill Clinton saying he didn't have sexual relations with Monica Lewinski. A blow job is a blow job.
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We tried the feeldo a couple times without success. I talked with my lesbian friend and she said it takes "killer abs" to keep it in place and if you're too wet, it moves around a lot. She likes it, but said it wasn't for everyone.
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Most of the time in bed, sometimes at my desk (at home), sometimes the restroom at work, sometimes on the couch at home, occasionally outside.
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Most of the time in bed, sometimes at my desk (at home), sometimes the restroom at work, sometimes on the couch at home, occasionally outside.
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I've kind of, but not exactly done both. When I was dating my first wife we went to colleges on opposite sides of the state for almost a year. Worse yet, I was living without a phone so if we wanted to talk I had to call her from a pay phone. No internet at the time either. We had to drive five hours to see each other. It was rough.

More recently, just before meeting my current wife I dated a gal I met on-line who lived in three states away. That worked out a lot better. Our relationship was primarily on-line with 3-4 e-mails a day, a phone call every couple weeks, and then we'd fly to see each other about every 6-8 weeks for a long weekend or as long as a week at a time.

Obviously neither are direct comparisons to your situation, but I definitely preferred the meeting someone on line to having a relationship that had distance thrown into it after seeing each other every day for a year or so. That said, if you never meet, there's always that doubt that it's not real, that you're being catfished.
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In Colorado it is a class 1 misdemeanor for a shepherd to abandon his flock without three days written notice to his employer.
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The student government room at my university about 20 minutes before a meeting. We did it on the President's table and I'm sure the room still had a distinctive odor to it when the meeting was called to order.
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Quick, hide the children, the priest is here!

I had several intimate conversations relating to sexual topics with individuals who were not my wife.
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I strongly recommend the Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock strapon harness. It takes all sizes of toys, is adjustable to many hip sizes and stays put well. Ive had two other harnesses and find many don't offer eñough strap adjustment to accommodate the many sizes of women while allowing for a really secure fit.

I'm having lunch today with a lesbian friend who's also into strapon play so I'll let you know if she has any other suggestions.

I'd also suggest having a decent sized butt plug in for at least 10 minutes before she starts. It makes a huge difference in how wild she can play without hurting you. And of course, lots ánd lots of lube.
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If I seem extra happy today it's because I noticed my wife wearing panties to bed last night. Yay! Somebody's gettin lucky this weekend.
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Impossible. My tastes are way to diverse. But if I had to choose one song it would be Queen Bohemian Rhapsody.