I used to love to get it all out on the table when I was younger, but I found that most people want to feel that you're open minded and interested in exploring, but you haven't tried everything. Now I let them keep that illusion. ;)
I used to prefer thongs, but the newer "Cheekster" style panties are becoming my preferred. It's kind of all worlds.
I got three pairs for my wife for Valentine's and they've become some of her favorites... and obviously mine, too.
Absolutely, as far as she wants to go. I actually changed massage therapists this year because I found one that gives amazing butt rubs. Nothing sexual, just divinely pleasurable.
With reciprocity, preferably. ;)
I've trimmed and shaved for about a decade, but two weeks ago I got up the nerve to go get waxed. I got what is called a modified male Brazilian. Bush, shaft, scrotum, taint and between the cheeks. Full Brazilian includes the cheeks, too, but with other hair above and below, that seemed overkill. In any case, it wasn't nearly as painful as I feared and I will definitely be doing it regularly from now on. It's growing in much softer and once every four weeks is just easier than being stubbly after a couple days and having to shave 1-2x per week to keep it in check without getting razor rashed.
No argument here, dpw. I realize my same sex urges are different than my opposite sex urges in a number of ways. The emotional connection I'm desire is different, the scope of what I want is different in the bedroom, and I doubt id ever seriously pursue an exclusively same sex relationship because of that. My bi side remains a fascinating enigma that I enjoy exploring from time to time.
Whew! That was a close one. I ended up hooking up with my other partner and had a great time. No hesitation doing oral. I'm officially back in the middle of the road.
Scary. For a minute there I was afraid I might be turning straight. Instead, it's just clear that I need to move on from a partner that just doesn't turn me on anymore.
I love going down on a woman. Not a fan of giving or receiving head to a guy other than as a relatively brief part of foreplay.
The hollow dildos I started out with were of very poor quality and it took time to try different things and find something I really liked. Now I'm a fan of the Doc Johnson Vac-U-Loc harness system. Gives you lots of options and stays in place well. Of course it's not what you're looking for as far as wearing it to use on her, but it solves half the problem.
Kindness, affection, courtesy, chivalry; all practiced whenever I'm NOT trying to get in her pants. Only being nice or affectionate when you want to score is just what it takes to turn a relationship bad. At that point she'll read every act of kindness or affection as a pass and quickly shut you out.
When I lost my virginity at 17 it was to someone my age and they had 13 partners. Didn't bother me at all. When I was 19 I dated a gal my age and she'd had 47 and 49 partners (we broke up for a week and she added one). Again, never bothered me. I haven't bothered to ask a woman how many partners she's had in the last couple decades. History is just that; it's history. Who are you today? Play safe until we both get tested and have the talk, demonstrate appropriate respect for each other, then proceed.
I don't think I've met any sluts, but obviously it varies by definition. I'm not a jealous partner. I've dated women dating other guys and it's never bothered me so long as my needs are getting met and there's respect in the relationship.
I think it depends on how open he is. I really like a glass prostate play toy, but if he's not already into ass play it's probably not the right place to start.
I have the ability to be the sweetest guy on earth 99% of the time, but I have my micro-moments of being a complete dick before I have the chance to dial it back. It's always the I told you so moments I can't resist, the shoulda, woulda, coulda, the well duh! Moments that I can't resist taking my shot. I hate that about myself and damn, I really try to shut it down, but time and time again I'm left apologizing for all too cruel moments just when the cut the deepest. If I was a dick more often it wouldn't have the impact that it does, but because I do nice so well that it really cuts deep.
I'm not really sure where I fit on the continuum. I've played with, sucked, been sucked, fucked and been fucked. Never kissed, never been in a "relationship" with a guy, but I've had a 19 year once or twice a year hook up with the same guy. Don't like sucking, but in the heat of the moment if I'm horny, I enjoy it. The last opportunity I had, I was grossed out by the idea. I've only had one female partner in almost 30 years of partners that I enjoyed getting a blow job from, so receiving has never been my thing. I love receiving anal, and I can get into giving anal, but it's not a requirement of mine. I'm not necessarily attracted to men, but I enjoy taking either a strap on or a dick up my ass. I don't know if that makes me bi or just an anal fetishist or what. It is what it is.
Oh, and I've always loved sex with women. I love their bodies, I love looking at them, I love seducing them, and on rare occasions, I like dressing like them.
Always up and to the right. Prefer panties, but usually bikini, briefs or boxer briefs. Bikini briefs are best for holding position while hiking and running, moving toward more boxer briefs (wife's preference) and phasing our briefs.
If I didn't have the fear of getting called for a wildland fire and have to change into my nomex in front of half the department or have my wife see my panties, I'd wear them a lot more often.
I just had a weekend I can't explain to myself. I've been with this partner once or twice a year since about 2003. We're both married and live relatively straight lives, but once in a while go to the lake or camping for the weekend and have a fuckfest together. We've never kissed. Frankly, it has nothing to do with the gayness of it, but rather, it's the scruffiness of a male face that I don't like the feel of. But this weekend was odd because there was no oral at all, not even a little bit and frankly I was pretty grossed out by his precum. The sex was ok, but not quite up to its usual stellar level.
So, I'm having this internal debate. I've always loved receiving anal play, even with my first girlfriend in high school. Most of my ex's were cool with strap on play. Now I'm wondering if my male on male play has really been bisexual activity or just some form of objectifying men for their equipment and what it can do for me. I've never lusted after a guy, but I have been caught up in the moment and sucked, handled and played in various ways with dicks. I've enjoyed giving full body massages, but that's something I enjoy so much that I get hard giving a massage to my wife every single time. My internal debate is whether this is really a sexual orientation issue (heaven forbid, I might be straight with an anal fetish) or if maybe it was more about my partner and he just doesn't do it for me any more (put on a few pounds, the age gap is significant, etc).
Any thoughts or insights?
My wife and I have fallen into an interesting routine lately. She has no libido and the traditional foreplay route gets me nowhere. However, she loves a good massage and I can't give a massage without getting a woody, so she's warmed up to the idea that a back rub means I'll eventually slide into her while giving her a massage and it'll end in sex. It's not perfect, but it works for now. Otherwise it's Rosie Palmer and her five sisters.
1. A long weekend with a very open minded man and woman to try every combination of things possible.
2. Wireless remote e-stim play in a public place.
3. Wireless remove vibrator play in a public place.
4. To have a lovely date with a beautiful woman and go home to discover she had a beautiful cock, too.
5. To make love with a woman in the great outdoors in a place without mosquitoes.
6. To have sex in the back of the ambulance with my wife while returning from a call.
7. To secretly spy on a couple having sex outdoors, get caught and invited into the play.
8. To have my garden get so out of control that I could safely make love in the middle of it without any of the neighbors able to see.
9. To have a many year long affair without getting caught.
10. To have the one ex that could could get me off orally do it again. God she had a gift.
With the right warm up, which for me is inserting a toy 5-10 minutes before showtime, it's blissful. Without the right warm up, the first five minutes can be a bit uncomfortable; usually not painful, but not as enjoyable as it can be and it takes some discipline on your partner's behalf to take it slow at first. With a proper warm up it doesn't take very long for me to accommodate even an above average penis. Depending on the position, it can feel like a prostate massage, enjoying the internal pressure that feeds into your cock and core or it can feel more submissive and all about the joy of surrendering and being fucked.
I suspect the same is true of some women with vaginal sex. Sometimes you want to linger on every sensation and sometimes you just want to be fucked hard.
I think the fact that Kendra Wilkinson, one of the hottest playmates ever had her husband cheat on her with TV model Ava Sabrina London says just how tempting the best of both worlds really is. I love the fantasy of having a smoking hot TV girlfriend to go out on the town with, have a normal relationship with, and then have all kinds of crazy fun in the bedroom, but it's a fantasy. The reality would more than likely be that it's hard enough to find a woman who pushes all the right buttons with me on a mental and emotional level, thus, limiting things down to a segment of the population that might make up a half of one percent makes it highly improbable.
They aren't prosecuting.
She's not yours. (While showing you their new baby)
Admittedly, it's been almost 20 years since I was either on the giving or receiving side of fisting. My girlfriend at the time loved to explore limits and while we never actually closed the fist , she managed to get her hand inside me up to about an inch from her wrist. She couldn't close, but it was sure fun trying. I have very large hands and never got past all four fingers up to the hand. Again, she enjoyed the exploration and we did it a few times with similar results then moved on to other things.
As far as porn goes or doing it again, there's a very limited a out of stuff that turns me on regarding fisting. The true amateur stuff where both people are just exploring and having fun, I like, but the hardcore BDSM stuff is a big turn off and gaping pictures just make me sad. I can't see ever seeking it out, but if I had a girlfriend who wanted it, I'd definitely play along. A turned on partner is what turns me on, even if it isn't my thang.
As far as consequences, I didn't see any, but we always played in our comfort zone. She was the best lover I've ever had and a great set of kagels is more important than how far you've been stretched.
I used to prefer smaller breasts, but I've only found one or two pairs I didn't completely appreciate once I got to know them.
Yes, I have. The first time was by accident. We were just starting to get serious and it was our first night in bed together and we had a long make out session and drifted off to sleep while I was lightly stroking between her breasts and her stomach. I didn't realize we had both drifted off and when I woke, I just picked up where I left off. She was very appreciative of the wake up.
With all that, I'd still prefer to receive than to give sometimes. I love waking to the feeling of wondering fingers and hands.
The longer I live the more I think there's way more bi men out there than most people can imagine. I just know so damn many guys who are straight in who they date, but get a little dick on the side. Hell, I'm among them. I have been "faithful" to all my wives and girlfriends over the last 20 years in not sleeping with any other woman while I was in a committed relationship, yet at the same time, I've had the same male FWB for going on 20 years now. It's just an itch I choose not to stop scratching.
